I've friendzoned Sun Capricorn guy two times now, but he still offered to have drinks with him...

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by allrounder on Tuesday, January 11, 2022 and has 15 replies.

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How many times do I need to friendzone him until he gets it lol

I don't think this is a typical Capricorn trait to be so persistent, right?

Which Mars or Venus sign is so persistent like this?

I like being his friend and talking, but, each offer he makes like this just leaks with hidden romantic intentions. (for the record, the 2nd time I friendzoned him was cause he said we should go to each other's places and cook dinner for each other, which sounded incredibly romantic-)

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Posted by bmoon8

Capricorn energy is persistent and persevering. Many people on my job like this energy in my chart.

In your context, you just need to be persistent back in saying no, not interested, buzz off, interested in only friends, etc

If I can make a Libra woman who wanted to get it on into a friend, then you can steadily make the Cap guy a friend as well.

How long did it take you to get the Libra woman into a friend?

I'll feel pretty sad if I have to cut off this guy, but what can I do if I'm now having to friendzone him for the third bloody time lol

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Friendzoning him means fuck all. Men have no problem fucking their friends.

And maybe you wouldn't mind fucking a friend after a few drinks. Only one way to find out...

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Just say that you don't want any rumours that you two are together! Because you are not, and will be not.

Said firmly, not flirty. That's all it takes for an answer, to 1000 questions from him.

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The best way to talk with a friend zoned guy is tell him he's just like a brother to you, let him know how great of a FRIEND he is.

Talk about other guys with him, let him in on your dates and prospects- basically treat him like a friend and let him know that he's the coolest guy friend that you have. That you can't normally talk like this with other guys and that he's a great FRIEND.

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Posted by saggurl88

The best way to talk with a friend zoned guy is tell him he's just like a brother to you, let him know how great of a FRIEND he is.

Talk about other guys with him, let him in on your dates and prospects- basically treat him like a friend and let him know that he's the coolest guy friend that you have. That you can't normally talk like this with other guys and that he's a great FRIEND.

ah the classic "you're like a brother to me" line 😂 your comment is helpful though, thank you!

I might just tell him "I have a crush right now on this guy from another University" and ask him for help or something.

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Posted by allrounder

Posted by saggurl88

The best way to talk with a friend zoned guy is tell him he's just like a brother to you, let him know how great of a FRIEND he is.

Talk about other guys with him, let him in on your dates and prospects- basically treat him like a friend and let him know that he's the coolest guy friend that you have. That you can't normally talk like this with other guys and that he's a great FRIEND.

ah the classic "you're like a brother to me" line 😂 your comment is helpful though, thank you!

I might just tell him "I have a crush right now on this guy from another University" and ask him for help or something.

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I would add in a fake name, just so he doesn’t think of it as a fake scenario to get closer to him.

Embellish on the crushes looks and make sure they are completely opposite of how he (The Cap) looks.

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Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by allrounder

Posted by saggurl88

The best way to talk with a friend zoned guy is tell him he's just like a brother to you, let him know how great of a FRIEND he is.

Talk about other guys with him, let him in on your dates and prospects- basically treat him like a friend and let him know that he's the coolest guy friend that you have. That you can't normally talk like this with other guys and that he's a great FRIEND.

ah the classic "you're like a brother to me" line 😂 your comment is helpful though, thank you!

I might just tell him "I have a crush right now on this guy from another University" and ask him for help or something.

I would add in a fake name, just so he doesn’t think of it as a fake scenario to get closer to him.

Embellish on the crushes looks and make sure they are completely opposite of how he (The Cap) looks.

Nah it hurts more if they look exactly the same.

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Nope. False hope. Then he’ll just wait around and see what happens and hope he’s next. He needs to not be her type at all.

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Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by allrounder

Posted by saggurl88

The best way to talk with a friend zoned guy is tell him he's just like a brother to you, let him know how great of a FRIEND he is.

Talk about other guys with him, let him in on your dates and prospects- basically treat him like a friend and let him know that he's the coolest guy friend that you have. That you can't normally talk like this with other guys and that he's a great FRIEND.

ah the classic "you're like a brother to me" line 😂 your comment is helpful though, thank you!

I might just tell him "I have a crush right now on this guy from another University" and ask him for help or something.

I would add in a fake name, just so he doesn’t think of it as a fake scenario to get closer to him.

Embellish on the crushes looks and make sure they are completely opposite of how he (The Cap) looks.

Nah it hurts more if they look exactly the same.

Nope. False hope. Then he’ll just wait around and see what happens and hope he’s next. He needs to not be her type at all.

But the whole point of the friend zone is to drag him along and use him as a doormat.

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Men never go anywhere in the friendzone. And they never get tired of it, no matter the excuse. Especially if someone is nice and treating you respectfully.

You guys are so hopeful, for no reason.

You will lie to yourself, just to stick around 😅🥴

Dragging him and giving him false hope is mean 🥺