@PuzzlePieces
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Are there certain placements consistent in those you date?
Are There Consistent Astrological Placements in Your Dating History
Astrological placements can influence attraction and compatibility, but there is no guarantee of consistent patterns. Your Sun, Moon, and planetary positions may shape relationship preferences, yet individual experiences vary widely. Understanding your chart can offer insights into relationship tendencies and compatibility factors.
Most people I date when I do a syn chart, we have Mars square Pluto as aspect.
I haven't checked but they all had big dick energy "BDE"
😂😂
Just started to notice about 10yrs ago and besides a few not many earth suns. So the bucklist will surely be checked before I remarry.
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
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Oh, then use astrotheme.com or HoroscopeYourself.com I would imagine one of those two should have what it is you're looking for. both of those sites used tighter aspecting orbs than astro.com does anyway so orbing and aspects are kind of their thing
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
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I've been with a fellow Aries Mars and a couple Sag Mars... 😍
I can imagine what a Leo Mars is like...interestingly enough, my Aries Mars is in the 5th...hmmm wonder how that plays into this 🤔 lol
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
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On Astro.com if you run the synastry chart and click on pdf at the top, it will give you a spreadsheet/chart with the aspects. No explanations but that’s what I use to know the aspects.
Sun in 10th
No matter the sign seems to be a pattern
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
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Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
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I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
On Astro.com if you run the synastry chart and click on pdf at the top, it will give you a spreadsheet/chart with the aspects. No explanations but that’s what I use to know the aspects.
Thanks. Mine is just such a mess. lol
First boyfriend for comparison (they all look like this)
Something seems off... I think you need to manually reduce your orb degree value a bit. It looks like it's aspecting things with loose orbs
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
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Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
On Astro.com if you run the synastry chart and click on pdf at the top, it will give you a spreadsheet/chart with the aspects. No explanations but that’s what I use to know the aspects.
Thanks. Mine is just such a mess. lol
First boyfriend for comparison (they all look like this)
Something seems off... I think you need to manually reduce your orb degree value a bit. It looks like it's aspecting things with loose orbs
It's using the default, whatever that is. There aren't any orbs above 10.
There is a feature to reduce the orb size, but it's unclear to me how to use it. Every percentage I put in causes it to give me only exact aspects.
It's probably all easier to use if you subscribe and buy their service. I'm a cheapskate. lol
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Orbs typically used for natal charts
Conjunction: 10.8
Opposition: 10.0
Trine: 8.3
Square: 7.5
Sextile: 5.7
Quincunx: 2.2
Semi-sextile: 1.5
Semi-square: 2.5
Sesqui-square: 2.5
Quintile: 1.0
Bi-quintile: 1.0
Orbs typically used for compatibility charts
Conjunction: 10
Opposition: 8
Trine: 6
Square: 6
Sextile: 4.5
Quincunx: 2
Semi-sextile: 1
Semi-square: 1
Sesqui-square: 1.5
Quintile: 1
Bi-quintile: 1
If it's running all of them at 10 across the board that your problem.
aqua venus
aries venus
pisces sun and moon
capricorn sun and moon
gemini moon omg
i've got venus in the 11th, libra mars in the 1st, virgo rising with pisces in the 7th house of course
my dominant signs: virgo, capricorn and pisces
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
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Lol maybe it’s my Sag but I like to understand people, and let them be who they are. As long as you let me be me. Marriage to the Pisces was a disaster, but I probably was acting more Cap those days. I’m more evolved now, but he didn’t have the best behavior and was quite controlling.. Taurus placements maybe? I just kinda let the Pisces Mars cap sun be him. Dreaming and all lol.
As I see it, everyone has their own way. Life has taught me that. But I know what you mean from the Pisces I was married to. I’ve learned the hard way. Kinda in a different space these days. People with Cap placements and a lot of earth haven’t worked for me either. They do, but then in the end there are issues we can’t get past. I seem to be seeing Pisces placements though in those I date... so that’s interesting to me. I want to figure that out.
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
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I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
On Astro.com if you run the synastry chart and click on pdf at the top, it will give you a spreadsheet/chart with the aspects. No explanations but that’s what I use to know the aspects.
Thanks. Mine is just such a mess. lol
First boyfriend for comparison (they all look like this)
It can be a lot to work through this way. Have you tried grupovenus.com much more explanation
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
On Astro.com if you run the synastry chart and click on pdf at the top, it will give you a spreadsheet/chart with the aspects. No explanations but that’s what I use to know the aspects.
Thanks. Mine is just such a mess. lol
First boyfriend for comparison (they all look like this)
Something seems off... I think you need to manually reduce your orb degree value a bit. It looks like it's aspecting things with loose orbs
It's using the default, whatever that is. There aren't any orbs above 10.
There is a feature to reduce the orb size, but it's unclear to me how to use it. Every percentage I put in causes it to give me only exact aspects.
It's probably all easier to use if you subscribe and buy their service. I'm a cheapskate. lol
Orbs typically used for natal charts
Conjunction: 10.8
Opposition: 10.0
Trine: 8.3
Square: 7.5
Sextile: 5.7
Quincunx: 2.2
Semi-sextile: 1.5
Semi-square: 2.5
Sesqui-square: 2.5
Quintile: 1.0
Bi-quintile: 1.0
Orbs typically used for compatibility charts
Conjunction: 10
Opposition: 8
Trine: 6
Square: 6
Sextile: 4.5
Quincunx: 2
Semi-sextile: 1
Semi-square: 1
Sesqui-square: 1.5
Quintile: 1
Bi-quintile: 1
If it's running all of them at 10 across the board that your problem.
It doesn't give options to change a specific type of aspect. I'm using the same default that everyone else uses.
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Here, lol. https://astrowin.org/astro123.php
Can I ask an off-topic question in this thread? @PuzzlePieces or anyone else who looks at synastry charts, what site do you use? There doesn't seem to be a synastry chart choice on astro.com to just see the aspects between you and your partner. It always sticks natal aspects in there and confuses me. It might be user error.
On astro.com selective free horoscope section at the top and then on the far right (or near the very bottom of the list depending on what device you're using) choose the extended chart selection. Once you are there you're going to see a chart type drop-down that's where you will find synastry
Thank you! Yeah, I know where they are, but both synastry options show my own natal aspects instead of my aspects to the other chart, so I have to do math instead of just eyeballing a red or blue line.
On Astro.com if you run the synastry chart and click on pdf at the top, it will give you a spreadsheet/chart with the aspects. No explanations but that’s what I use to know the aspects.
Thanks. Mine is just such a mess. lol
First boyfriend for comparison (they all look like this)
Something seems off... I think you need to manually reduce your orb degree value a bit. It looks like it's aspecting things with loose orbs
It's using the default, whatever that is. There aren't any orbs above 10.
There is a feature to reduce the orb size, but it's unclear to me how to use it. Every percentage I put in causes it to give me only exact aspects.
It's probably all easier to use if you subscribe and buy their service. I'm a cheapskate. lol
Orbs typically used for natal charts
Conjunction: 10.8
Opposition: 10.0
Trine: 8.3
Square: 7.5
Sextile: 5.7
Quincunx: 2.2
Semi-sextile: 1.5
Semi-square: 2.5
Sesqui-square: 2.5
Quintile: 1.0
Bi-quintile: 1.0
Orbs typically used for compatibility charts
Conjunction: 10
Opposition: 8
Trine: 6
Square: 6
Sextile: 4.5
Quincunx: 2
Semi-sextile: 1
Semi-square: 1
Sesqui-square: 1.5
Quintile: 1
Bi-quintile: 1
If it's running all of them at 10 across the board that your problem.
It doesn't give options to change a specific type of aspect. I'm using the same default that everyone else uses.
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Here, lol. https://astrowin.org/astro123.php
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
Lol maybe it’s my Sag but I like to understand people, and let them be who they are. As long as you let me be me. Marriage to the Pisces was a disaster, but I probably was acting more Cap those days. I’m more evolved now, but he didn’t have the best behavior and was quite controlling.. Taurus placements maybe? I just kinda let the Pisces Mars cap sun be him. Dreaming and all lol.
As I see it, everyone has their own way. Life has taught me that. But I know what you mean from the Pisces I was married to. I’ve learned the hard way. Kinda in a different space these days. People with Cap placements and a lot of earth haven’t worked for me either. They do, but then in the end there are issues we can’t get past. I seem to be seeing Pisces placements though in those I date... so that’s interesting to me. I want to figure that out.
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You: "As long as you let me be me"
Me:
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Oh. You seem to have a fair share of experience with Aries Mars. 😋
Good luck with the Pisces tonight.
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Thanks! Yes I like Aries placements & Pisces too so should be interesting. Pisces sun it’s been a long time.
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
Lol maybe it’s my Sag but I like to understand people, and let them be who they are. As long as you let me be me. Marriage to the Pisces was a disaster, but I probably was acting more Cap those days. I’m more evolved now, but he didn’t have the best behavior and was quite controlling.. Taurus placements maybe? I just kinda let the Pisces Mars cap sun be him. Dreaming and all lol.
As I see it, everyone has their own way. Life has taught me that. But I know what you mean from the Pisces I was married to. I’ve learned the hard way. Kinda in a different space these days. People with Cap placements and a lot of earth haven’t worked for me either. They do, but then in the end there are issues we can’t get past. I seem to be seeing Pisces placements though in those I date... so that’s interesting to me. I want to figure that out.
You: "As long as you let me be me"
Me:
Well I do believe in growth. But, to not accept me now can be problematic. I do need space to grow and would prefer someone who we walk together and grow together. I need to believe in myself, my instincts etc. and allow another to grow as they choose not as someone expects.
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Oh. You seem to have a fair share of experience with Aries Mars. 😋
Good luck with the Pisces tonight.
Thanks! Yes I like Aries placements & Pisces too so should be interesting. Pisces sun it’s been a long time.
Well it would be interesting for you though no doubt. I as a Pisces have been attracted quite frequently to Sagittarius ladies at times, but maybe it's more cuz of my Aries Mars.
You should try to find out what Mars your guy has, that'll help explain his interest, and sexual nature better.
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Gemini. Which is interesting cuz the Aries was Gemini Venus/Aries mars so they are opposite. I do need some fire placements.. otherwise life is too boring lol
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Oh. You seem to have a fair share of experience with Aries Mars. 😋
Good luck with the Pisces tonight.
Thanks! Yes I like Aries placements & Pisces too so should be interesting. Pisces sun it’s been a long time.
Well it would be interesting for you though no doubt. I as a Pisces have been attracted quite frequently to Sagittarius ladies at times, but maybe it's more cuz of my Aries Mars.
You should try to find out what Mars your guy has, that'll help explain his interest, and sexual nature better.
Gemini. Which is interesting cuz the Aries was Gemini Venus/Aries mars so they are opposite. I do need some fire placements.. otherwise life is too boring lol
Gemini Mars hmm.... 🤔 Not really one of the most sexually active placements, but you should see how the date goes.
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Yes true, we will see. He seems fun anyway lol
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
Lol maybe it’s my Sag but I like to understand people, and let them be who they are. As long as you let me be me. Marriage to the Pisces was a disaster, but I probably was acting more Cap those days. I’m more evolved now, but he didn’t have the best behavior and was quite controlling.. Taurus placements maybe? I just kinda let the Pisces Mars cap sun be him. Dreaming and all lol.
As I see it, everyone has their own way. Life has taught me that. But I know what you mean from the Pisces I was married to. I’ve learned the hard way. Kinda in a different space these days. People with Cap placements and a lot of earth haven’t worked for me either. They do, but then in the end there are issues we can’t get past. I seem to be seeing Pisces placements though in those I date... so that’s interesting to me. I want to figure that out.
You: "As long as you let me be me"
Me:
Well I do believe in growth. But, to not accept me now can be problematic. I do need space to grow and would prefer someone who we walk together and grow together. I need to believe in myself, my instincts etc. and allow another to grow as they choose not as someone expects.
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You and I are different sameness. You seek understanding. I seek possibility. I don't care why things are the way they are I want to know what something can become and because of that a lot of the time I self position myself in what seems like a combative role or pushing against something if you will simply to test limits or as a way to acquire information. I don't judge people for who they are, but at the same time I cannot stand routine or stagnant repetition; therefore, if somebody wants to be the way they are and never grow past that I can't get on board with that. And to be clear I don't really care what they evolve into it's their journey not mine but it bothers me to all end whenever people aren't a willing participant in their own life journey.
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
Lol maybe it’s my Sag but I like to understand people, and let them be who they are. As long as you let me be me. Marriage to the Pisces was a disaster, but I probably was acting more Cap those days. I’m more evolved now, but he didn’t have the best behavior and was quite controlling.. Taurus placements maybe? I just kinda let the Pisces Mars cap sun be him. Dreaming and all lol.
As I see it, everyone has their own way. Life has taught me that. But I know what you mean from the Pisces I was married to. I’ve learned the hard way. Kinda in a different space these days. People with Cap placements and a lot of earth haven’t worked for me either. They do, but then in the end there are issues we can’t get past. I seem to be seeing Pisces placements though in those I date... so that’s interesting to me. I want to figure that out.
You: "As long as you let me be me"
Me:
Well I do believe in growth. But, to not accept me now can be problematic. I do need space to grow and would prefer someone who we walk together and grow together. I need to believe in myself, my instincts etc. and allow another to grow as they choose not as someone expects.
You and I are different sameness. You seek understanding. I seek possibility. I don't care why things are the way they are I want to know what something can become and because of that a lot of the time I self position myself in what seems like a combative role or pushing against something if you will simply to test limits or as a way to acquire information. I don't judge people for who they are, but at the same time I cannot stand routine or stagnant repetition; therefore, if somebody wants to be the way they are and never grow past that I can't get on board with that. And to be clear I don't really care what they evolve into it's their journey not mine but it bothers me to all end whenever people aren't a willing participant in their own life journey.
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Yes I agree. It’s why I had to leave the Aries for my sanity, and to continue on my journey, his went in another direction and I couldn’t stop it. Broke my heart. So now I choose to be in spaces that encourage growth but don’t judge who I am. Have to feel safe to progress. Probably my aqua moon. Also being stagnant is the worse thing ever and I fight for moving forward even when I’m not ready I suppose. I think this is why I’m having trouble with cardinal suns/cap placements at this point in my life.
Water moons (mainly Scorpio but one Pisces)
I am water dom with an earthy moon ...
Posted by PuzzlePieces For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN
I hadn't looked before, but I pulled up the last 4 and 3 of them, had Mars Scorpio. I have Mars Pisces though, so it's not that weird or shocking that I'd gravitate to that at all.
Hmmm Pisces mars lol The Cap who broke my heart had that.
I hope you didn't think I was messing around whenever I said I can't post anything random in your topics or advised you against that Pisces, because as a Pisces myself I am all too aware that for whatever reason my combination of placements is like cancer for Capricorn or Capricorn Doms. I have never had a Capricorn friend, ever. I meet a Capricorn and then five minutes in I can almost literally see their brains explode from trying their best to figure out how I could even function through life, lol. I'm a walking manifestation that goes against every principle of Capricorn holds and to them I shouldn't even be possible so they just run away, haha
Lol maybe it’s my Sag but I like to understand people, and let them be who they are. As long as you let me be me. Marriage to the Pisces was a disaster, but I probably was acting more Cap those days. I’m more evolved now, but he didn’t have the best behavior and was quite controlling.. Taurus placements maybe? I just kinda let the Pisces Mars cap sun be him. Dreaming and all lol.
As I see it, everyone has their own way. Life has taught me that. But I know what you mean from the Pisces I was married to. I’ve learned the hard way. Kinda in a different space these days. People with Cap placements and a lot of earth haven’t worked for me either. They do, but then in the end there are issues we can’t get past. I seem to be seeing Pisces placements though in those I date... so that’s interesting to me. I want to figure that out.
You: "As long as you let me be me"
Me:
Well I do believe in growth. But, to not accept me now can be problematic. I do need space to grow and would prefer someone who we walk together and grow together. I need to believe in myself, my instincts etc. and allow another to grow as they choose not as someone expects.
You and I are different sameness. You seek understanding. I seek possibility. I don't care why things are the way they are I want to know what something can become and because of that a lot of the time I self position myself in what seems like a combative role or pushing against something if you will simply to test limits or as a way to acquire information. I don't judge people for who they are, but at the same time I cannot stand routine or stagnant repetition; therefore, if somebody wants to be the way they are and never grow past that I can't get on board with that. And to be clear I don't really care what they evolve into it's their journey not mine but it bothers me to all end whenever people aren't a willing participant in their own life journey.
Yes I agree. It’s why I had to leave the Aries for my sanity, and to continue on my journey, his went in another direction and I couldn’t stop it. Broke my heart. So now I choose to be in spaces that encourage growth but don’t judge who I am. Have to feel safe to progress. Probably my aqua moon. Also being stagnant is the worse thing ever and I fight for moving forward even when I’m not ready I suppose. I think this is why I’m having trouble with cardinal suns/cap placements at this point in my life.
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Yeah my Aries brother drives me crazy. I've never seen somebody do everything and nothing all at the same time. I'm like you were gone for 18 hours and you did nothing to improve your internal or external progress. That guy vexes me, lol
always something fire
dear lord help me
Libra Mars/Virgo Mars/Scorpio Mars
Capricorn Venus/Sag Venus/Scorpio Venus/ Gemini Venus.
Gemini Sun/Aquarius Sun/Scorpio Sun/Virgo Sun
Aries Moon/Scorpio Moon/Cancer Moon/Taurus Moon
I can get along with others but don’t have much dating experience
Taurus anywhere in Sun/Moon/Venus /Mars
Aries, Gemini, Pisces, Cap placements appear mostly too
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
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I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Hang on. First date with a Pisces not long after you and Cap didn't workout? Lol you're very quick. Where do you get all these men in such short notice? 😂
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First meet. It’s online dating. Cap wasn’t going to work out, and he moved way too fast.
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Hang on. First date with a Pisces not long after you and Cap didn't workout? Lol you're very quick. Where do you get all these men in such short notice? 😂
First meet. It’s online dating. Cap wasn’t going to work out, and he moved way too fast.
How long have you been chatting with him? I think I'm quite traditional haha. I can't imagine having the next guy in few days after one didn't workout. 😂 I'd be exhausted! 😂
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Lol. It’s really the only way to meet people in the area. Unfortunately. I’d prefer traditional way but it’s hide out or put myself out there. I’m putting myself out there. So someone came up who could be a possibility. So we’ve been talking a few days lol well I’m a fire sign and attract fire sign placements 🤷♀️ Sag aqua cap placements.. I can shut it off pretty quickly if I haven’t become attached yet.
Masculine Suns (noticed the Leo/Aqua axis and the Gem/Sag axis)
2 Aqua sun/moons (I'm a Sag sun/moon)
Fire Mars (I have Aries Mars)
😏😘
I love Leo & Aries Mars 😁 never dated a sag mars interestingly enough!
If I'm not wrong you're a Sagittarius isn't it?
This explains why I get along well with Sags despite astrology labeling us as 'incompatible'. It's that damn Aries Mars ♈
Yep I’m a Sagittarius.
So how was your experiences with Aries Mars people? What were their Sun signs?
I was with one for 20 years. He’s an Aries Sun. He is a cap moon and trouble with emotions but we were deeply in love and there will always be a bond. Kids, and divorced 7 years ago.
Last cap I dated , Aries Mars. We got along very well, until he started to disrespect me. So he hit the boot. He wants to be friends..
There have been others that didn’t work out. Aries mars gets my attention & really I need someone to do that.. cuz I’m oblivious sometimes. Leo Mars is good at that too.
So I have a first date with a Pisces sun, Aries Venus tonight. Lol interesting. Not mars but he acts the same. Enough to keep things exciting and get my attention though.
Hang on. First date with a Pisces not long after you and Cap didn't workout? Lol you're very quick. Where do you get all these men in such short notice? 😂
First meet. It’s online dating. Cap wasn’t going to work out, and he moved way too fast.
How long have you been chatting with him? I think I'm quite traditional haha. I can't imagine having the next guy in few days after one didn't workout. 😂 I'd be exhausted! 😂
Lol. It’s really the only way to meet people in the area. Unfortunately. I’d prefer traditional way but it’s hide out or put myself out there. I’m putting myself out there. So someone came up who could be a possibility. So we’ve been talking a few days lol well I’m a fire sign and attract fire sign placements 🤷♀️ Sag aqua cap placements.. I can shut it off pretty quickly if I haven’t become attached yet.
So basically there's a connection? Well good luck!
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Thanks! We have a lot in common & he’s the right type. So need to meet him to see.
Im on my third Taurus. That sounds bad. I swear, the second one tricked me because he is a Gem rising with Gem venus. Completely gemini through and through. So.. I don't really think of him as a Taurus. Second is Virgo or aquarius? I don't really know. I don't date often.
Majority of my exes and guys I was talking to/dating are Capricorn Moons.
Second would be Virgo suns and moons.
A lot of Scorpio suns secretly like me. I don’t find out til years later, and usually someone else tells me lol
Me:
Taurus Sun
Virgo rising
Cancer Moon and mars
Gemini Venus
also a lot of tauruses
Gem moons...why I don't know
Scorp moons
Hades mooners
- Plutos always at play in synastry.
- I notice a lot that either my Venus and/or moon tend to fall in their 1st house or vice versa.
- My mars usually falls in their 5 house or always have strong mars/moon dws. They can't stop wanting to touch me, fuck me and want to put babies in me. Seriously never fails with this placement/aspect...Pluto aspects probably help here too lol.
Gem moons...why I don't know
We're actually every moon. Anytime you didn't date a Gemini Moon, I guarantee you it was really just an undercover Gemini Moon up to no good with forged chart.
I'm sorry on behalf of our nation. It's what we do.
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With my luck... you're probably right. I'll have to keep an eye out for you sneaky little bastards 😜
Water placements mostly- Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio for the most part. I think every guy I've dated has some water placement.
Other fire signs - mostly Leo's but i did find out a few guys I dated also had Sag rising.
Air signs- Libra
Earth signs - Virgo
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For me it’s Aries, Capricorn, Pisces. Sometimes Libra/Gemini Venus or mars.
What’s your sign, placements or whatever you’d like to add?
I’m Sag sun
Aqua moon
Cap merc, Venus & mars.
Scorpio MC
Pisces Chiron
Cancer NN