does your moon sign really affect the way you pursue relationships ?

Hi all,

I have noticed lately that people who have water or earth moon signs specifically cancer moons are more likely to want to settle down or commit to relationships regardless of their sun signs, even the 'players' of the zodiacs seem to want to settle and be loyal if they have a cancer moon placement

has anyone else noticed this or is it just me ?

thanks in advance

xx

they feel they want to, but if they have stronger placements in other signs, they might be torn if they do actually settle and might easily feel unsatisfied.

Posted by Arinoaqua

Talking about settling down and marriage and kids is foreplay for cancer placements. Nothing more. I’m not saying they can’t or don’t want to settle down but I would take it with a grain of salt if you’re newly dating. This is their weird seduction techniques and the reason there’s so many cancer man threads. They get off on talking about your future.

yeah I'm trying not to get caught up in it cause it could be all bs his sun sign is Sag which makes me even more nervous haha

thanks for your response and advice !! x

Damn, then are the virgo sun+moon+venus+mercury men the exception— Because we were more than friends for 7mo but he never committed (no we never did anything remotely sexual so we were not fwb) 😢

With my Libra sun and libra moon it takes forever for me to move from the 1st stage to a relationship. I honestly dread it because I want to live at that 1st stage forever. I am usually forced into one or a break up occurs. Why does everyone want to talk about the future instead of enjoying it day by day. I didn't even know if I'd be alive tomorrow.

Yeah cancer placements love to talk about putting a baby in you lol

Nope

talked about anniversary plans this weekend with my cap bf and he was like 'okay, yeah.'

but i had to change my mind and cancel coz i feel like crying about something that he did last year

that's life dealing with me

Posted by virgoOPPP

talked about anniversary plans this weekend with my cap bf and he was like 'okay, yeah.'

but i had to change my mind and cancel coz i feel like crying about something that he did last year

that's life dealing with me

is that something you wanna talk about or ?

i realized how emotionally-unstable i am when i got with a capricorn

Sag moon and mars here. I have to be with someone a long long time before getting married to them and they have to be 30 yrs and up

I've seen too much to want to jump into marriage. Also in california the spouse gets half. Unless I have a kid with them aint no way they are getting half of my money.

Also Ive seen a lot of couples break up in quarantine being around each other all the time. Im leary of living with someone be it a friend or a girlfriend. Familiarity breeds contempt period You get sick of dealing of someone 24/7 no matter who they are

At this point in my life I dont want to deal with a lot of drama. It would be a slow road to moving in together.

I get along well with females with cancer moons but them wanting kids is a deal breaker. Im beyond dumb founded with covid getting new strands that people are still gung ho about deliberately having kids right now That is beyond stupid.

Posted by Gem03

Damn, then are the virgo sun+moon+venus+mercury men the exception— Because we were more than friends for 7mo but he never committed (no we never did anything remotely sexual so we were not fwb) 😢

Hmm...You were more then friends for 7 months but never did a serious. Intimate relationship milestone like sex? Sounds like best friends.

Is it the aqua moon or the cap Venus/mars? lol

I’m just not very emotional at first. I have to trust you & also have to actually decide to feel the emotions. So ya aqua moon.

Now if there is lots of chemistry.. sag sun throws the rest out the window!! 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ But it’s still not love dammit 😂😂

Posted by MysteriousDreamer

Eh I’ve been dating a Cancer Sun/Moon for almost 4 months now and he is nowhere near ready to commit. He claims we are more than fwb, but not quite in a relationship. WTH is that nonsense?

its probably the fact that he is a cancer man, Ive known many cancerian men who run away from commitment.. they come on strong and then get scared

I would think mars is the placement that affects how you pursue a relationship.

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Posted by MysteriousDreamer

Eh I’ve been dating a Cancer Sun/Moon for almost 4 months now and he is nowhere near ready to commit. He claims we are more than fwb, but not quite in a relationship. WTH is that nonsense?

its probably the fact that he is a cancer man, Ive known many cancerian men who run away from commitment.. they come on strong and then get scared

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I’ve known a few too like this .....

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Posted by Arinoaqua

Talking about settling down and marriage and kids is foreplay for cancer placements. Nothing more. I’m not saying they can’t or don’t want to settle down but I would take it with a grain of salt if you’re newly dating. This is their weird seduction techniques and the reason there’s so many cancer man threads. They get off on talking about your future.

Such a disgusting thing to talk about on a first date

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I'm an air sign through and through, even i would run if they talked about this in the first couple dates. I understand being like "I want something casual/to fuck" or "I want something serious/long term"

I know plenty of cancer moons that don’t settle down. Most have been hurt too many times, from what they tell me.

my Sag guy with a Cancer moon has just asked me to be his girlfriend recently but he wants to see me all the time !! and its overwhelming me a little im scared of everything just crashing .

I’m a Libra moon, Taurus Venus, Cap Mars and I’m aggressive when I like someone. Also, extremely loyal and commit quickly.