Having a crush🤔

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Usually girls having a crush on me and me being emotionally unmoved at all.

I was in love two times in my life and never cared about any girl except these two, doesn't matter how sexy i found a girl or was attracted to her.



Shes the new employee in a local store i visited.

Immediately i noticed the chemistry between us and we smiled interacting with each other.Tonight i visited the store again being my stoic self and noticed her being very nervous and awkward around me, it was hilarious how she gave me the change and put my groceries in the bag, couldn't look me in the eyes at all.

Shes taller than me or my height, blonde, shes very beautiful and i felt such nice energy about her,in other words this girl is special.

Shes maybe a taurus or pisces🤔



Just a random post, you can give your opinion in the thread if you like also you can guess what sign could she be, seemed sweet and just a good person, i couldn't sense any bad vibes or insecurities which is rare.
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Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.

Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.

A reason to open that door you have closed.

What are you scared of?



idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
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Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?

well assuming you show the same consideration,

Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
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Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?




idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand

Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?

well assuming you show the same consideration,

Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?
click to expand



tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
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First off before I give my answer to what sign I think she could be I need to know how do you know she was crushing on you? And who was doing the crushing? You or her? Or both of you? Like how do you know if she was only just being nice? Just because a girl was all smiles and being nervous and awkward doesn't mean she's crushing on you. She was probably just being nice because her job as a bagger girl requires it. Also don't put too much trust in those blondes. I had a few blondes myself. I ain't gone get too deep in to that. Since yall interacted with each other maybe you should ask for her status. You know like if she's married, single, or have any kids and whatnot. I say you were on the right track interacting with her. I hadn't had a crush since high school.

And now let's get on with the question. I think she might be a scorpio or a Pisces. If you plan on seeing her again and want her your only hope is that she's a Pisces. I sense water sign for her.
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First off before I give my answer to what sign I think she could be I need to know how do you know she was crushing on you? And who was doing the crushing? You or her? Or both of you? Like how do you know if she was only just being nice? Just because a girl was all smiles and being nervous and awkward doesn't mean she's crushing on you. She was probably just being nice because her job as a bagger girl requires it. Also don't put too much trust in those blondes. I had a few blondes myself. I ain't gone get too deep in to that. Since yall interacted with each other maybe you should ask for her status. You know like if she's married, single, or have any kids and whatnot. I say you were on the right track interacting with her. I hadn't had a crush since high school.

And now let's get on with the question. I think she might be a scorpio or a Pisces. If you plan on seeing her again and want her your only hope is that she's a Pisces. I sense water sign for her.


i am experienced in girls having crushes on me so i can tell, happens all the time

i think pisces too, shes very sweet

probably nothing gonna happen between us, i am a hardass and f shit up cuz am complicated af
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Posted by Neno1
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?




idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand

Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?

well assuming you show the same consideration,

Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?



tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
click to expand



Elaborate. Add you age and income
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?

idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand



There is always someone out there waiting for you. Take the first step by being friends.

If you can become great friends at first, it will add so much value to the relationship. It also strengthens your bond.

If it's meant to be, you will know.
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?

idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?
well assuming you show the same consideration,
Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?




tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
click to expand

Elaborate. Add you age and income
click to expand



its not about age or income, its about personality

serious relationships take a lot of sacrifices
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?
idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand

There is always someone out there waiting for you. Take the first step by being friends.

If you can become great friends at first, it will add so much value to the relationship. It also strengthens your bond.

If it's meant to be, you will know.
click to expand



i am thinking going to the store every night to buy things, be stoic and ignore her except if she asks me something
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?

idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?
well assuming you show the same consideration,
Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?




tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
click to expand

Elaborate. Add you age and income



its not about age or income, its about personality
serious relationships take a lot of sacrifices
click to expand



No they don't.

Cooperation, even some compromise but sacrifice?
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?

idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?
well assuming you show the same consideration,
Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?

tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
click to expand
Elaborate. Add you age and income




its not about age or income, its about personality

serious relationships take a lot of sacrifices
click to expand

No they don't.

Cooperation, even some compromise but sacrifice?
click to expand



sacrifices absolutely, takes lot of work
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Posted by Neno1
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?
idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
There is always someone out there waiting for you. Take the first step by being friends.
If you can become great friends at first, it will add so much value to the relationship. It also strengthens your bond.
If it's meant to be, you will know.
click to expand

i am thinking going to the store every night to buy things, be stoic and ignore her except if she asks me something
click to expand



Aww, you don't have to ignore her, lol.

I would definitely greet her.

I hope something good comes out of this. 🙂
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?
idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
There is always someone out there waiting for you. Take the first step by being friends.
If you can become great friends at first, it will add so much value to the relationship. It also strengthens your bond.
If it's meant to be, you will know.
click to expand
i am thinking going to the store every night to buy things, be stoic and ignore her except if she asks me something
click to expand

Aww, you don't have to ignore her, lol.

I would definitely greet her.

I hope something good comes out of this.
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yes, i want 3 kids
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Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?

idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?
well assuming you show the same consideration,
Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?

tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
click to expand
Elaborate. Add you age and income




its not about age or income, its about personality

serious relationships take a lot of sacrifices
click to expand

No they don't.

Cooperation, even some compromise but sacrifice?



sacrifices absolutely, takes lot of work
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No not sacrifices. Thays not how healthy relationships work at all. At least as far as mentality goes.

What do you consider a sacrifice specifically?

Also curious what experiences or things you have seen that shaped this view of it being sacrificial?
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Neno1
Posted by Lostthoughts
Chemistry and complementary vibes. Lucky you, that's rare.
Both those are always mutual and just a matter of choice on each both sides.
A reason to open that door you have closed.
What are you scared of?

idk if relationships are for me, i am a complicated person
click to expand
Oh so you're not perfect like everyone else?
well assuming you show the same consideration,
Ever think there are people who would appreciate those things?

tbh i think i am awesome but also that i am not good enough for a serious relationship
click to expand
Elaborate. Add you age and income

its not about age or income, its about personality
serious relationships take a lot of sacrifices
click to expand
No they don't.
Cooperation, even some compromise but sacrifice?




sacrifices absolutely, takes lot of work
click to expand

No not sacrifices. Thays not how healthy relationships work at all. At least as far as mentality goes.

What do you consider a sacrifice specifically?

Also curious what experiences or things you have seen that shaped this view of it being sacrificial?

click to expand



its just how life works, you cant live just on love and feelings, much need to be sacrificed to gain something else, relationships take a lot of work, its just logical