How fucked is synastry if your moon squares her sun and her moon?

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It she has sun and moon in conjunction.....you are likely to feel more the pain of the square than her!

If her sun opposes her moon and both square your moon...these three planets form a T-square in synastry.

"A T-square stimulates drive and courage, but also tension and conflict. [...] Cardinal T-squares can be very impatient, but also enterprising and initiating. Fixed T-squares can be persevering, but also stubborn, unyielding, or they can hold on to problems and frustrations for too long. Mutable T-squares can produce much restlessness, frequent whims, and frequent changes of mind, but can be very adept at adapting to circumstances."
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Posted by Undine

It she has sun and moon in conjunction.....you are likely to feel more the pain of the square than her!

If her sun opposes her moon and both square your moon...these three planets form a T-square in synastry.

"A T-square stimulates drive and courage, but also tension and conflict. [...] Cardinal T-squares can be very impatient, but also enterprising and initiating. Fixed T-squares can be persevering, but also stubborn, unyielding, or they can hold on to problems and frustrations for too long. Mutable T-squares can produce much restlessness, frequent whims, and frequent changes of mind, but can be very adept at adapting to circumstances."


Interesting. I gotta quick question if you don't mind. I just checked both me and my partner's charts and she don't have sun opposite in anything. And I'm all cardinal T-square except I only have one mutable T-square.

So here's the question. What that mean?
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It she has sun and moon in conjunction.....you are likely to feel more the pain of the square than her!

If her sun opposes her moon and both square your moon...these three planets form a T-square in synastry.

"A T-square stimulates drive and courage, but also tension and conflict. [...] Cardinal T-squares can be very impatient, but also enterprising and initiating. Fixed T-squares can be persevering, but also stubborn, unyielding, or they can hold on to problems and frustrations for too long. Mutable T-squares can produce much restlessness, frequent whims, and frequent changes of mind, but can be very adept at adapting to circumstances."

Interesting. I gotta quick question if you don't mind. I just checked both me and my partner's charts and she don't have sun opposite in anything. And I'm all cardinal T-square except I only have one mutable T-square.

So here's the question. What that mean?
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If you have several T-squares in your natal chart, the "missing leg" would be a planet that transforms any of them into a grand cross (or grand square). This planet would "stabilise" the T-square. See if any planet of your partner's is the "missing leg" (aka a planet that opposes your focal planet caught in a double square). What does it mean, if this is the case? That you somewhat complete each other, for better or worse.
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It she has sun and moon in conjunction.....you are likely to feel more the pain of the square than her!

If her sun opposes her moon and both square your moon...these three planets form a T-square in synastry.

"A T-square stimulates drive and courage, but also tension and conflict. [...] Cardinal T-squares can be very impatient, but also enterprising and initiating. Fixed T-squares can be persevering, but also stubborn, unyielding, or they can hold on to problems and frustrations for too long. Mutable T-squares can produce much restlessness, frequent whims, and frequent changes of mind, but can be very adept at adapting to circumstances."

Interesting. I gotta quick question if you don't mind. I just checked both me and my partner's charts and she don't have sun opposite in anything. And I'm all cardinal T-square except I only have one mutable T-square.

So here's the question. What that mean?

If you have several T-squares in your natal chart, the "missing leg" would be a planet that transforms any of them into a grand cross (or grand square). This planet would "stabilise" the T-square. See if any planet of your partner's is the "missing leg" (aka a planet that opposes your focal planet caught in a double square). What does it mean, if this is the case? That you somewhat complete each other, for better or worse.
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I read this over and over about a dozen times and I'm still not understanding. I don't know what I'll be looking for in the chart. *looks dazed and confused*

But thanks anyway for the help. I know you tried. I can be a very complicating person to deal with.
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Dated a Virgo Sun/ Aries moon and it’s terrible because his moon fell into my 7th house.

All Aries moons make me feel like I want to marry them almost immediately. Like we can be together forever. Thank goodness I never say anything to them about it.

But I know it’s a bunch of bullshit and it’s mostly my feelings. A very unrequited feeling of longing and one sided love.

It sucks but I’m aware of it when someone has an Aries moon, so I expect it now and just ignore the feeling.
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Spent 6 years with the Aqua and all of my planets squared his moon. There are some misunderstandings and hurt feelings but in my experience it’s not the worst thing.

For me having the moon touch the others sun and moon is better than not aspecting at all.

What's ya moon—??

🧐🧐

Libra 🙇🏻‍♀️
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Libra moon squares everyone. It's fucked.
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Posted by saggurl88

Dated a Virgo Sun/ Aries moon and it’s terrible because his moon fell into my 7th house.

All Aries moons make me feel like I want to marry them almost immediately. Like we can be together forever. Thank goodness I never say anything to them about it.

But I know it’s a bunch of bullshit and it’s mostly my feelings. A very unrequited feeling of longing and one sided love.

It sucks but I’m aware of it when someone has an Aries moon, so I expect it now and just ignore the feeling.

I could have written this myself.
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Posted by saggurl88

Dated a Virgo Sun/ Aries moon and it’s terrible because his moon fell into my 7th house.

All Aries moons make me feel like I want to marry them almost immediately. Like we can be together forever. Thank goodness I never say anything to them about it.

But I know it’s a bunch of bullshit and it’s mostly my feelings. A very unrequited feeling of longing and one sided love.

It sucks but I’m aware of it when someone has an Aries moon, so I expect it now and just ignore the feeling.

I could have written this myself.
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About squares in general or moons falling in your 7th house?
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Posted by GenXgem
Posted by Arinoaqua
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by Arinoaqua
Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Arinoaqua

Spent 6 years with the Aqua and all of my planets squared his moon. There are some misunderstandings and hurt feelings but in my experience it’s not the worst thing.

For me having the moon touch the others sun and moon is better than not aspecting at all.

What's ya moon—??

🧐🧐

Libra 🙇🏻‍♀️

Libra moon squares everyone. It's fucked.

Mine really does because it’s 0 degrees so not only do I square late degree cardinals I also square early degree mutables 🤦🏻‍♀️ And just piss everyone off.

Can it get any worse than having a cringe-worthy Leo moon? 😬
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I seriously wonder why Leo moons get such a bad wrap. I get along fine with them and have never had issues.

They just want the world and people need to give it to them. Start with small gifts. 😜😎
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Posted by GenXgem
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by GenXgem
Posted by Arinoaqua
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by Arinoaqua
Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Arinoaqua

Spent 6 years with the Aqua and all of my planets squared his moon. There are some misunderstandings and hurt feelings but in my experience it’s not the worst thing.

For me having the moon touch the others sun and moon is better than not aspecting at all.

What's ya moon—??

🧐🧐

Libra 🙇🏻‍♀️

Libra moon squares everyone. It's fucked.

Mine really does because it’s 0 degrees so not only do I square late degree cardinals I also square early degree mutables 🤦🏻‍♀️ And just piss everyone off.

Can it get any worse than having a cringe-worthy Leo moon? 😬

I seriously wonder why Leo moons get such a bad wrap. I get along fine with them and have never had issues.

They just want the world and people need to give it to them. Start with small gifts. 😜😎

Awww I haven’t even met you but I love you! Lol 🤩

Start with compliments and go from there 😹
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😍🥰🥰🥰❤️

Yes. So True. You look beautiful today, btw 😋🤣😅

My Leo moon friend used to tell me I needed to practice giving out compliments to her 🤣🤣
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Posted by GenXgem
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by GenXgem
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by GenXgem
Posted by Arinoaqua
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by Arinoaqua
Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Arinoaqua

Spent 6 years with the Aqua and all of my planets squared his moon. There are some misunderstandings and hurt feelings but in my experience it’s not the worst thing.

For me having the moon touch the others sun and moon is better than not aspecting at all.

What's ya moon—??

🧐🧐

Libra 🙇🏻‍♀️

Libra moon squares everyone. It's fucked.

Mine really does because it’s 0 degrees so not only do I square late degree cardinals I also square early degree mutables 🤦🏻‍♀️ And just piss everyone off.

Can it get any worse than having a cringe-worthy Leo moon? 😬

I seriously wonder why Leo moons get such a bad wrap. I get along fine with them and have never had issues.

They just want the world and people need to give it to them. Start with small gifts. 😜😎

Awww I haven’t even met you but I love you! Lol 🤩

Start with compliments and go from there 😹

😍🥰🥰🥰❤️

Yes. So True. You look beautiful today, btw 😋🤣😅

My Leo moon friend used to tell me I needed to practice giving out compliments to her 🤣🤣

Yessssssss!! 🥰😘

We only like people who like us 💅

God help you if you dare not to like us lol
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pride is the only thing that’s sensitive with Leo moons.

You guys are the sweetest as long as it’s not hurt.

I don’t mind the bossiness. At least you guys know what you want!
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by saggurl88

Dated a Virgo Sun/ Aries moon and it’s terrible because his moon fell into my 7th house.

All Aries moons make me feel like I want to marry them almost immediately. Like we can be together forever. Thank goodness I never say anything to them about it.

But I know it’s a bunch of bullshit and it’s mostly my feelings. A very unrequited feeling of longing and one sided love.

It sucks but I’m aware of it when someone has an Aries moon, so I expect it now and just ignore the feeling.

I could have written this myself.

About squares in general or moons falling in your 7th house?
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