Moon and venus in 12th house

Hi guys, I hope you can give me insights on these placements.

I'm a scorpio sun cancer moon mother of a baby who has a scorpio moon and venus in his 12th house. According to vedic astrology.

Does it mean I'm a distant mother to my son? Or am I mostly absent in his life?

I can imagine it though coz I feel too busy working.

His father though, is a capricorn and my baby's first house is in capricorn which has mercury, sun and southnode there.. does it mean, he will be very close to his father?

His north node is in the 7th house gemini which is exactly the same with mine except for mine has chiron instead.

Can you predict the dynamics between my son and I and in relation to his father and everything else?

I'm actually open for paid professionals who can read through my son's natal birthchart.

So if you're one or you know someone, please let me know.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

My Venus is in the 12th house and I had a lovely relationship with my mom. 🤷‍♀️

Look, don’t let predictive astrology give you anxiety about your sons future. Isn’t he just a baby?! Girl there is enough stuff outside of astrology that will make you lose sleep at night worrying about your child. Don’t add astrology to the list. If you’re concerned about being a “distant mother”, just be more intentional about spending time with him.

Yes.. you're right, especially the last part. It's a gentle reminder. But that doesn't help with the curiousity. I'm super and absolutely curious lmao

Should I just give up trying to "look into" his chart so that probably I can get the very questionable future predictions? Oh man, I'm super super curious..

I'm thinking to anticipate things.. coz I don't like surprises, really..

You know whether you are a distant mother or not. Don't pay too much attention to astrology.

Astrology is useful with parenting and gaining an understanding of your child. I’d not have been so informed about our lad’s issues had I not have studied his chart when he was a child. The information I gathered on the 6th house and Chiron was invaluable and helpful

in creating a healthy relationship and guiding him through the challenges.

It’s all in the chart!

Posted by MyStarsShine

Astrology is useful with parenting and gaining an understanding of your child. I’d not have been so informed about our lad’s issues had I not have studied his chart when he was a child. The information I gathered on the 6th house and Chiron was invaluable and helpful

in creating a healthy relationship and guiding him through the challenges.

It’s all in the chart!

Can you help me understand my son's chart?

Posted by Subliminals

Posted by MyStarsShine

Astrology is useful with parenting and gaining an understanding of your child. I’d not have been so informed about our lad’s issues had I not have studied his chart when he was a child. The information I gathered on the 6th house and Chiron was invaluable and helpful

in creating a healthy relationship and guiding him through the challenges.

It’s all in the chart!

Can you help me understand my son's chart?

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I’ll try but I’ve only studied western, not Vedic. If you’re open to that, give me his date, year time and place of birth and I’ll post his chart here if that’s okay?

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Posted by Subliminals

Posted by MyStarsShine

Astrology is useful with parenting and gaining an understanding of your child. I’d not have been so informed about our lad’s issues had I not have studied his chart when he was a child. The information I gathered on the 6th house and Chiron was invaluable and helpful

in creating a healthy relationship and guiding him through the challenges.

It’s all in the chart!

Can you help me understand my son's chart?

I’ll try but I’ve only studied western, not Vedic. If you’re open to that, give me his date, year time and place of birth and I’ll post his chart here if that’s okay?

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Yeass. Sure!

December 13, 2020 at 06.05, in Tangerang - Indonesia

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I purchased this for my grandkids as a gift to their parents when they were born. I thought it was pretty good insight for them.

https://www.astro.com/prod/pr_tk_e.htm

Thank you!

Posted by ImperfectStorm

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Posted by ImperfectStorm

My Venus is in the 12th house and I had a lovely relationship with my mom. 🤷‍♀️

Look, don’t let predictive astrology give you anxiety about your sons future. Isn’t he just a baby?! Girl there is enough stuff outside of astrology that will make you lose sleep at night worrying about your child. Don’t add astrology to the list. If you’re concerned about being a “distant mother”, just be more intentional about spending time with him.

Yes.. you're right, especially the last part. It's a gentle reminder. But that doesn't help with the curiousity. I'm super and absolutely curious lmao

Should I just give up trying to "look into" his chart so that probably I can get the very questionable future predictions? Oh man, I'm super super curious..

I'm thinking to anticipate things.. coz I don't like surprises, really..

I completely understand where you’re coming from.. I have a 6 year old Scorpio. I looked at his chart because as a Scorpio myself, I know how complicated life can get for us. Lol so I looked at my sons chart, he’s a Scorpio sun/Venus with a Gemini moon.

But as someone who struggles with anxiety in general, my mind is constantly focused on the future, worrying about the what-ifs, etc. the problem with that is, when you’re focused on the future you’re not living in the present, and these days will fly by faster than you know. I also have a Scorpio sun/cancer moon and we are naturally nurturing and emotionally supportive. I highly doubt you have anything at all to worry about with your son. Instead of worrying about the “maybes” in his chart, focus on your strengths as his mother and build on those. I have no doubt you’re doing an excellent job mama ❤️

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Do you think as a gemini moon boy, he has been mentally anxious?

I think scorp sun/ gem moon combo is fascinating!

How does that play out in your son's personality or behaviour so far?

This is the western chart. Can you check details to see if they’re correct. It’s different to the Vedic one so it may contradict and confuse some?

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This is the western chart. Can you check details to see if they’re correct. It’s different to the Vedic one so it may contradict and confuse some?

I swear that I have already seen this chart and gave some information on what jumped out to me about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Can you find it?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

This is the western chart. Can you check details to see if they’re correct. It’s different to the Vedic one so it may contradict and confuse some?

I swear that I have already seen this chart and gave some information on what jumped out to me about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Can you find it?

https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/astrology/can-i-ask-what-you-think-about-this-natal-chart--14621987/

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Thanks....your memory is good!

We’ve both already commented so hopefully OP will see this...

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Posted by Subliminals

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Posted by ImperfectStorm

My Venus is in the 12th house and I had a lovely relationship with my mom. 🤷‍♀️

Look, don’t let predictive astrology give you anxiety about your sons future. Isn’t he just a baby?! Girl there is enough stuff outside of astrology that will make you lose sleep at night worrying about your child. Don’t add astrology to the list. If you’re concerned about being a “distant mother”, just be more intentional about spending time with him.

Yes.. you're right, especially the last part. It's a gentle reminder. But that doesn't help with the curiousity. I'm super and absolutely curious lmao

Should I just give up trying to "look into" his chart so that probably I can get the very questionable future predictions? Oh man, I'm super super curious..

I'm thinking to anticipate things.. coz I don't like surprises, really..

I completely understand where you’re coming from.. I have a 6 year old Scorpio. I looked at his chart because as a Scorpio myself, I know how complicated life can get for us. Lol so I looked at my sons chart, he’s a Scorpio sun/Venus with a Gemini moon.

But as someone who struggles with anxiety in general, my mind is constantly focused on the future, worrying about the what-ifs, etc. the problem with that is, when you’re focused on the future you’re not living in the present, and these days will fly by faster than you know. I also have a Scorpio sun/cancer moon and we are naturally nurturing and emotionally supportive. I highly doubt you have anything at all to worry about with your son. Instead of worrying about the “maybes” in his chart, focus on your strengths as his mother and build on those. I have no doubt you’re doing an excellent job mama ❤️

Do you think as a gemini moon boy, he has been mentally anxious?

I think scorp sun/ gem moon combo is fascinating!

How does that play out in your son's personality or behaviour so far?

He does have anxiety and it breaks my heart 😩 it’s not extremely bad but he does worry about things that a 6 year old shouldn’t worry about. He asked me one time why I don’t have a mom and I told him that my mom passed away before he was born. So now he is convinced that I am going to die young too

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Oh noo.. he shouldn't be thinking about that. But yes, some kids can think and worry about stuff too. I hope you can work that out so he will understand that there's nothing to worry about!

Posted by MyStarsShine

This is the western chart. Can you check details to see if they’re correct. It’s different to the Vedic one so it may contradict and confuse some?

Yes this is correct.

Posted by bmoon8

Posted by MyStarsShine

This is the western chart. Can you check details to see if they’re correct. It’s different to the Vedic one so it may contradict and confuse some?

I swear that I have already seen this chart and gave some information on what jumped out to me about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Yes you did! And I still remember what you mentioned about the second house and his tendencies to indulge in stuff like drinking or drugs or somekind..

You said he's going to be lucky in finance but wise about it too. I remember.

But I want to see on the relationship aspect with his parents.

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Posted by bmoon8

Posted by MyStarsShine

This is the western chart. Can you check details to see if they’re correct. It’s different to the Vedic one so it may contradict and confuse some?

I swear that I have already seen this chart and gave some information on what jumped out to me about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yes you did! And I still remember what you mentioned about the second house and his tendencies to indulge in stuff like drinking or drugs or somekind..

You said he's going to be lucky in finance but wise about it too. I remember.

But I want to see on the relationship aspect with his parents.

Can you go here and go to the Child Report?

https://grupovenus.com/main.htm

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Thank you!

Btw do you believe in past life?

i have moon and venus in the 12th. best thing my parents did was allow me to be myself and never push shit on me.