@Anihp
7 Years
When a Scorpio moon likes someone
Understanding When a Scorpio Moon Likes Someone
A Scorpio Moon shows deep emotional attachment and intense feelings when they like someone. They may become insecure and emotionally sensitive, often thinking about the person frequently. They tend to wait for the other to initiate contact while feeling strong emotions beneath the surface.
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
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Sounds like personal problems.
Maybe you have some unresolved issues that you need to work out alone.
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Maybe, but I'm not interested in meeting ppl, I'd be fine if there's no one.
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Sounds like personal problems.
Maybe you have some unresolved issues that you need to work out alone.
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Like an trust issue? I was okay when I didn't feel for sb. romantically
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Kindness doesn't equal a relationship. If you like someone who doesn't let you know where you stand, that breeds lack of confidence in the situation.
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I see your point, but it's not a relationship, no?
So I can't give more, actually I've been thinking to draw a line, but I haven't figured it out yet...
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Kindness doesn't equal a relationship. If you like someone who doesn't let you know where you stand, that breeds lack of confidence in the situation.
I see your point, but it's not a relationship, no?
So I can't give more, actually I've been thinking to draw a line, but I haven't figured it out yet...
All of your eggs are in this basket that is not a relationship. That's my point.
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I know...but I didn't want to have any egg before :/
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Maybe, but I'm not interested in meeting ppl, I'd be fine if there's no one.
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So dump this zero.
Someone can't make you insecure. It was already there lying dormant. Whatever foolery this dude is dishin' reignited it. You don't ever want to attach your love/emotions to an individual who triggers insecurity. That's a RED flag. Work on yourself ❤️ Figure out WHERE this issue comes from and attract someone who brings out your joy, peace and self confidence ❤️
Hmm why are you talking to someone who makes you feel less confident?
He's kind but when he's not there, I suspect and worry, and such behaviour is due to lacking confidence, no?
Kindness doesn't equal a relationship. If you like someone who doesn't let you know where you stand, that breeds lack of confidence in the situation.
I see your point, but it's not a relationship, no?
So I can't give more, actually I've been thinking to draw a line, but I haven't figured it out yet...
All of your eggs are in this basket that is not a relationship. That's my point.
I know...but I didn't want to have any egg before :/
That's fine if he has a similar dating style . If he's playing the field and you're one of many, it will probably continue to make you feel insecure because you'll be spending way more time thinking about him than he will you.
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Don't really know his style as I prefer/expect him to share rather than being "questioned".
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Maybe, but I'm not interested in meeting ppl, I'd be fine if there's no one.
So dump this zero.
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Hope I'll get a clear idea after meeting him again.
I get insecure, lose the not so much confidence, become emotionally sensitive; think about him very frequently, want to share,
BUT I still wait for him to initiate at the same time.
Will meet him again in Sept. after separating last Oct., everything looks uncertain even now. I know I shouldn't let him affect my mood, yet it's just hard to do so ;/
Do you come from a conservative/traditional culture?
You Sound also young.
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Hm, it's probably my family, I'm not that young, just don't have much experience in this
I do feel that I'm "shaming" scorpio moon
Someone can't make you insecure. It was already there lying dormant. Whatever foolery this dude is dishin' reignited it. You don't ever want to attach your love/emotions to an individual who triggers insecurity. That's a RED flag. Work on yourself ❤️ Figure out WHERE this issue comes from and attract someone who brings out your joy, peace and self confidence ❤️
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If he hadn't been there almost daily (not in person), it'd be much more easier for me to care less.
Anyhow, I suppose I'm learning and getting tougher
Scorpio moons love to have control over their emotions, and caring about someone in a romantic way, shakes that control. Suddenly, your thoughts become less about keeping yourself together and more about wanting to merge with that person; this requires us to share and inquire, which brings up insecurities or doubts within ourselves that we don't pay much attention to otherwise. I don't think that you're acting much different from a lot of people when it comes to matters of the heart. We all have fears, we all have doubts, and especially so when it comes to emotional fears and doubts. Liking someone or loving someone can bring out our deepest demons, and it has nothing to do with that person not being worthy of our time or that person not making us feel good, it has every bit to do with us needing to acknowledge why these emotions are being provoked and how to navigate through them alone.
Yes, you like him and its bringing out a part of you that you're uncomfortable with, so take some time to self reflect and see where it takes you.
So inspiring!
I think I don't want to be rejected, so I don't ask questions or initiate anything.
We talked a little about my issue (one of them probably), and he said that I felt ppl wouldn't like me, then it became true.
He's mature, and most of all, the only one who "stays" for so long
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Sounds romantic to me.
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Well, if he wasn't in contact almost daily, I wouldn't care
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Sounds romantic to me.
Well, if he wasn't in contact almost daily, I wouldn't care
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You allow him to waste that much of your time speaks volumes.
Waiting 1yr for 1 guy. Desperate isn't a good look.
Sounds romantic to me.
Well, if he wasn't in contact almost daily, I wouldn't care
You allow him to waste that much of your time speaks volumes.
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He wastes not my time but my feelings
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I get insecure, lose the not so much confidence, become emotionally sensitive; think about him very frequently, want to share,
BUT I still wait for him to initiate at the same time.
Will meet him again in Sept. after separating last Oct., everything looks uncertain even now. I know I shouldn't let him affect my mood, yet it's just hard to do so ;/