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My Sag man said that I was average looking...Pissed!
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What are you gonna do about it though?
To him you are, we all have preferences
He's a Sag...they are famous for their foot in mouth disease 😄
LOL Leo Moon at it's finest.
My friend wanted to stop dating a guy because he didn't tell her how pretty she looked when he saw her. 😆
Y'all love a good compliment.
He better not be your man no more 😆
The audacity!!
She didn't provide context though.
We don't know if she overheard this, if she asked him to give her an honest answer or if he blurted that out in an argument.
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
Why are you dating someone in Jail and how much time does he have left?
Will he be able to get a job and make his own money, once he's out?
Are you just doing it to pass the time and keep him up with him, since he has all the time in the world for you?
I know none of this is my business, but I am still curious 😄
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
Why are you dating someone in Jail and how much time does he have left?
Will he be able to get a job and make his own money, once he's out?
Are you just doing it to pass the time and keep him up with him, since he has all the time in the world for you?
I know none of this is my business, but I am still curious 😄
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To be honest, I have always had feelings for him since elementary school. I had always wanted to reach out to him, to find out how he was doing, and to see if he remembered me from our child hood, and once I finally reached him, we talk everyday now. I went to visit him recently, and he is very handsome. He was always good looking, but now a more mature good looking. I cannot really say that he and I are dating, as per his situation...But he is already claiming me as his woman, and I refer to him as my man...We are both seeing what will come of this.
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
Why are you dating someone in Jail and how much time does he have left?
Will he be able to get a job and make his own money, once he's out?
Are you just doing it to pass the time and keep him up with him, since he has all the time in the world for you?
I know none of this is my business, but I am still curious 😄
To be honest, I have always had feelings for him since elementary school. I had always wanted to reach out to him, to find out how he was doing, and to see if he remembered me from our child hood, and once I finally reached him, we talk everyday now. I went to visit him recently, and he is very handsome. He was always good looking, but now a more mature good looking. I cannot really say that he and I are dating, as per his situation...But he is already claiming me as his woman, and I refer to him as my man...We are both seeing what will come of this.
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Oh ok, I was just wondering. I've watched that show "Love after Lockup" So it always intrigued me about when the guy comes home and can't get work or the woman has found out that he was writing and talking to multiple women.
A woman can waste so many years on a man by staying by his side in jail/prison while he does hard time, and they spend way too much money on him.
If he has a long time ahead of him, don't waste your precious years on him, just cause he's pretty and showing you attention. Just my opinion, of course.
But as a friendship and keeping your options open in dating, it's nice that you are there for him, since he's down and needs friends from the outside world.
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
Maybe he was teasing?
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This maybe true. He likes to joke a lot. But I still wonder why he would say that... It was obvious that he is attracted to me, by the way that he kept staring in to my eyes.. Even the CO's noticed the tension LOL! They were watching us ; I could not help staring at him sexually, and him to me..
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
You should be offended and disgusted. He is being manipulative and playing with your self image and self-esteem by bringing up looks.
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
Damn!!! Ouch. Do you know his sign?
Average looking my arse!
Well, I don't know how you are looking, but what I do know is that we never lie when it comes to a girl's physical appearance. 😄 Although I would not say something like that to a girl because I do not like to hurt a girl's feelings.
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
This has me thinking hard......
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
Sometimes, unfortunately, I really think it has to do with who is willing to take care of him once he's out. Usually these jail/prison guys can't even get a job for close to 10 years after they've been released.
They are in jail, talking to whoever will have them and then get out and have the whole world to choose from. It's like having dessert every day, once they are out.
I don't think anyone should be loyal to someone in jail, unless they are already married and made the choice to stand by their spouse while they are inside.
Average looking my arse!
F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......
F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......
I am a Sag also... It's my Leo moon, that is offended..
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.
Interesting because I just shared this with a Sag male (also loaded with a lot of Sag energy in his personal planets) and his response was "nothing wrong with average. I've told a female she was average looking...I mean she wasn't bad...or good. She was average. Lol...."
He did add "we (I guess he's claiming to be the spokesperson for all Sags lol) don't say things like that to hurt you, just being honest". Either way, he probably didn't means anything offensive.
F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......
I am a Sag also... It's my Leo moon, that is offended..
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Ah, your Leo moon explains it then (being Leo moon myself), cause I'm also like that in those situations. Although, if some rare girls/women do not like my looks, I just know that they have a bad taste when it comes to men and just move on...their loss. 😄
F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......
I am a Sag also... It's my Leo moon, that is offended..
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I know hon. Clearly you don't get a pass from Sags brand of communication despite being a part of the astro family lol.
He really probably didn't mean it in a bad way. Like my last post said, he was just being honest in his opinion, and it's just that his opinion. My boyfriend thinks I have a fat bumpa, while my ex thought it was meager. Meager mi rass....the next man can hold on to it then.
Similarly, the next (or last) man sees more when he looks at you. I do truly think your Sag was just sharing his piece and didn't mean it as a slight.
F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......
I am a Sag also... It's my Leo moon, that is offended..
I know hon. Clearly you don't get a pass from Sags brand of communication despite being a part of the astro family lol.
He really probably didn't mean it in a bad way. Like my last post said, he was just being honest in his opinion, and it's just that his opinion. My boyfriend thinks I have a fat bumpa, while my ex thought it was meager. Meager mi rass....the next man can hold on to it then.
Similarly, the next (or last) man sees more when he looks at you. I do truly think your Sag was just sharing his piece and didn't mean it as a slight.
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I believe so too...He then followed up with "you are beautiful...No blemishes on your face"...LOL!
Yeah that would have not sat well with me either. I'd definitely be over thinking that for a minute and start to pull away. I'm a Leo Sun, Venus, Mercury, and Jupiter so....
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
Damn!!! Ouch. Do you know his sign?
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Nope, but I would guess a Virgo or Gemini from appearance and mannerisms. I only met him twice.
If the puss is above average he aint going nowhere 🤭
F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......
I am a Sag also... It's my Leo moon, that is offended..
I know hon. Clearly you don't get a pass from Sags brand of communication despite being a part of the astro family lol.
He really probably didn't mean it in a bad way. Like my last post said, he was just being honest in his opinion, and it's just that his opinion. My boyfriend thinks I have a fat bumpa, while my ex thought it was meager. Meager mi rass....the next man can hold on to it then.
Similarly, the next (or last) man sees more when he looks at you. I do truly think your Sag was just sharing his piece and didn't mean it as a slight.
I believe so too...He then followed up with "you are beautiful...No blemishes on your face"...LOL!
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I'd still be highly skeptical of him. Based on how you reacted he knows that bothers you and he had the audacity to say it in the first place and early on.
What if a few months or years down the road he starts saying stuff like "oh and you're fucking average btw" (as in you're replaceable or you're just whatever) every time he's upset. He'd be manipulating you and controlling your behavior by devaluing you, in order to get you to always be on his good side and agree with him. Otherwise he'll punish you with emotional and verbal abuse.
Is he above “average?”
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
But when you’re in jail,
Beggars can’t be choosers
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
But when you’re in jail,
Beggars can’t be choosers
He was joking around...I had a heart to heart with him today...
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
Damn!!! Ouch. Do you know his sign?
Nope, but I would guess a Virgo or Gemini from appearance and mannerisms. I only met him twice.
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This is definitely a proceed with caution story if I ever heard one...SMH.
If the puss is above average he aint going nowhere 🤭
That it is...Lol!
If the puss is above average he aint going nowhere 🤭
That it is...Lol!
Is he above “average?”
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Unfortunately yes...He is fine.
My Sag friend waited 4 years for her man to get out of prison. While he was away she bought "Christmas" for his kids, and paid his bills. When he was ready to get out she threw a big party, invited all of his loser friends and had bought everything that he likes to eat, drink, smoke or snort. A month later she found out he had already knocked up some school teacher and ended up marrying her within 6 months of being out.
Damn!!! Ouch. Do you know his sign?
Nope, but I would guess a Virgo or Gemini from appearance and mannerisms. I only met him twice.
This is definitely a proceed with caution story if I ever heard one...SMH.
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Definitely proceed with caution - my first love, first sex was with a Sag and he tore my heart to pieces. Never dated another one. Good luck.
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
Or 85% of the population is just too broke to get plastic surgery
He clarified to me yesterday, that he said that because he cannot have me walking around with my head all big, because he knows that I am beautiful...He said that I thought that you could take a joke...
Is he above “average?”
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Unfortunately yes...He is fine.
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I hope you told him to do one 😡
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
i wanted to say the same thing, but girl, you are everything but average.
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That's sweet, but mostly looks can only get you so far.
There's men out here cheating with girls shaped like frogs cause they have better personalities then a pretty girl 😆
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
You're fit shut up 😄
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I can't stand to lose a few. 😛 I'm not skinny, just average.
He clarified to me yesterday, that he said that because he cannot have me walking around with my head all big, because he knows that I am beautiful...He said that I thought that you could take a joke...
This fools out here being reckless lol
Jokes on him, since you have the means and time to hang out with someone else. He needs to watch his joking tactics 😏, especially when it's a putdown.
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
You're fit shut up 😄
I can't stand to lose a few. 😛 I'm not skinny, just average.
If you say someone is "fit" in England it means good-looking/hot 😅 not actual physical fitness although obv the two go together most of the time
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Oh! Hahahaha! I didn't know that lol Thanks then. 💖
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
You're fit shut up 😄
I can't stand to lose a few. 😛 I'm not skinny, just average.
If you say someone is "fit" in England it means good-looking/hot 😅 not actual physical fitness although obv the two go together most of the time
Oh! Hahahaha! I didn't know that lol Thanks then. 💖
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This song! AND it was popular—!!
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Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
You're fit shut up 😄
I can't stand to lose a few. 😛 I'm not skinny, just average.
If you say someone is "fit" in England it means good-looking/hot 😅 not actual physical fitness although obv the two go together most of the time
Oh! Hahahaha! I didn't know that lol Thanks then. 💖
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This song! AND it was popular—!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeh The Streets back in the day were rly popular. This is like their worst song but it reminded me of you ! 😂😂😂😘
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Hahahaha! Thanks! I'll take it! 💋💋💋💋💋
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
i wanted to say the same thing, but girl, you are everything but average.
That's sweet, but mostly looks can only get you so far.
There's men out here cheating with girls shaped like frogs cause they have better personalities then a pretty girl 😆
but whatever, hot woman is a hot woman. calling yourself an average will only make you look as someone fishing for compliments, and like you have issues.
yeah, almost as a rule. tho my ex went for a hotter woman. tho she is lovely as a person too.
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It just makes a person humble.
Usually women that are attractive get told they are and it can get old. There is more to a person other than looks. Looks fade and what's left is what people have to deal with for the rest of their life. Lets hope they aren't just an empty shell of a person or bitter because their looks didn't take them where they expected to be.
I meant what I said, that most people are average. I don't compare myself to others and can't tell what I look like compared to my friend group. Yes I think I'm attractive, but that doesn't mean everyone else in the world has to. I have confidence in myself, I don't need validation or to fish for compliments just because I said most are average and included myself in the mix.
Hate to say it but about 85% of the population is average, myself included. If you’re not making money off your looks, you are most likely average. No matter what your self esteem tells you.
There’s nothing wrong with it.
i wanted to say the same thing, but girl, you are everything but average.
That's sweet, but mostly looks can only get you so far.
There's men out here cheating with girls shaped like frogs cause they have better personalities then a pretty girl 😆
but whatever, hot woman is a hot woman. calling yourself an average will only make you look as someone fishing for compliments, and like you have issues.
yeah, almost as a rule. tho my ex went for a hotter woman. tho she is lovely as a person too.
It just makes a person humble.
Usually women that are attractive get told they are and it can get old. There is more to a person other than looks. Looks fade and what's left is what people have to deal with for the rest of their life. Lets hope they aren't just an empty shell of a person or bitter because their looks didn't take them where they expected to be.
I meant what I said, that most people are average. I don't compare myself to others and can't tell what I look like compared to my friend group. Yes I think I'm attractive, but that doesn't mean everyone else in the world has to. I have confidence in myself, I don't need validation or to fish for compliments just because I said most are average and included myself in the mix.
i get it. i have a sag friend, she is a like a hotter version of sheron stone. said the same thing. she is also stronger than most of the men lol. love her but she is crazy as hell.
just don't say you are average cause it's a fact that you are not. the brain? well we are all crazy here. cool ppl.
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I still think that's your perspective, while I appreciate the compliment, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty standards differ depending on where you live in the country.
I also included myself so I wouldn't come off as an arrogant, self-absorbed douche 😄
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Average looking my arse!