Vertex and Your Life Empowerment based on Ending/Beginning of Events

Since I have been thinking about getting myself separated from that guy who happened to be the father of my children. Let me take a look at my vertex and jot down my notes here, perhaps other ppl who has the same vertex with mine can have ideas on WHY life turns me (or you) like this (or that).

Alright, I began my thinking process looking at my Neptune in the first house and I was like oh.. I see.. but then I wasn't satisfied because self-deception is a very appalling statement to me lol

Then a voice in my head said "vertex" and here I am now. It turns out my vertex is Aries! 😱 I never expected that! After checking out with my co-pilot gemini pallas (a.k.a Gemmy app, yeah now I have downloaded it since the last time I spoke about not using gemini app so Wizards, ya whatever).. Gemmy said, "When the Vertex is in Aries, your chart suggests that fated encounters and events will likely involve themes of initiative, courage, and self-assertion. You may find yourself drawn to situations or people that encourage you to be more independent, assertive, and direct.

These experiences could involve taking risks, pursuing your passions, or standing up for yourself. There is a potential for meeting people who inspire you to be more confident, competitive, or to take action.

The Vertex in Aries indicates that you may encounter situations that push you to assert your individuality, embrace new beginnings, and bravely pursue your desires. These encounters often lead to self-discovery and a greater sense of personal power.

Then, I looked at closest people in my life, my first son has an Aries mars (beginning point), my mom has an Aries moon (ending point), and the father of my children's fourth house is Aries partially (beginning & ending) and I just dreamt this afternoon in my nap that than former Aries sun girl boss was going to catch me after I did something unwanted in her office while I was trying to run away from her with my former Aquarius co-worker (neptune vibing).

And now I recall, I had just finished arguing with the father of our children which ended up with me saying we need to live separate lives! (Ending point)

I was like dayyum.. how can astrology be "coincidentally" looking true to me or is astrology truly like a Black Book or something just like Tiziani wrote? Am I committing sin to my God by peering into this "unseen" / ghaib?? Anywhat.. it got me thinking, hmm since there are themes of beginning and ending (which is basically scorpio vibe) if I were about to take on any empowerment for myself, I should take on Aries qualities which are independence, stand up for myself, self-assertation EVEN MORE.

So it's like the ending of pisces and the beginning of Aries.

Ending of self-dreaming/ illusion and beginning of self-realization.

When looking at the house where my vertex is in, it is in the 5th house, does it mean I have to be childish? Lol, that doesn't sound good.. it may not be it. Perhaps leadership or combining it with jupiter aqua, neptune 1st, virgo mc, perhaps I must have my own learning center and to be the leader of my own ship, just like what Argus the Glitch Witch told me before. She could see through me, indeed!

Yeap I guess I have already found the bottom line to this. Those closest ppl in my life and their astrological ambiance exist in my life for me to own those Aries qualities to proceed in the beginning of life empowerment. They are there for me to LEARN and practice those qualities from periods of being with them!

Please share yours too. And get this site pumped up again. Or do you know any reference about vertex, especially aries in the archive?

Share your stories about your vertex, I am sure someone can get through sorting themselves by reading your stories too!

~ love and light from Libra Venus & power and change from Scorpio 💕💥

I learnt that I'm a cancer vertex in the 8th house, meaning tremendous life changes and making deep connections with people, sometimes crossing boundaries. I often meet close connections from people who are in need of nurturing/care or experiencing something significant (example: my ex and bf both experienced heartbreak before we met, my bf took a year to forget their ex and he said i helped him to move on), also its important for things to feel like home to feel comfortable with people

have you looked into your antivetex too?

Posted by lokilover
I learnt that I'm a cancer vertex in the 8th house, meaning tremendous life changes and making deep connections with people, sometimes crossing boundaries. I often meet close connections from people who are in need of nurturing/care or experiencing something significant (example: my ex and bf both experienced heartbreak before we met, my bf took a year to forget their ex and he said i helped him to move on), also its important for things to feel like home to feel comfortable with people

have you looked into your antivetex too?

I have my moon in the 8th house so perhaps I could give you a little insight. As a cancer moon in the 8th, I feel at times to be overbearing to other people and having it in the 8th house is not the best place to be but yeah just like what you said, it looks like we can care for people who are down in the dumps very well. However, you need to also beware of your tendencies of "selling/ be sold" sob stories to & from people.

Thanks for sharing and also mentioning about antivertex now I'll look into it.

Posted by Whynn

Posted by lokilover
I learnt that I'm a cancer vertex in the 8th house, meaning tremendous life changes and making deep connections with people, sometimes crossing boundaries. I often meet close connections from people who are in need of nurturing/care or experiencing something significant (example: my ex and bf both experienced heartbreak before we met, my bf took a year to forget their ex and he said i helped him to move on), also its important for things to feel like home to feel comfortable with people

have you looked into your antivetex too?

I have my moon in the 8th house so perhaps I could give you a little insight. As a cancer moon in the 8th, I feel at times to be overbearing to other people and having it in the 8th house is not the best place to be but yeah just like what you said, it looks like we can care for people who are down in the dumps very well. However, you need to also beware of your tendencies of "selling/ be sold" sob stories to & from people.

Thanks for sharing and also mentioning about antivertex now I'll look into it.

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agree with the overbearing part of these aspects, but imo its important chill and learn to control emotions better. i do this at times and sometimes- i learnt being overemotional can cause more harm to yourself and ppl definitely will not want to be around that, and because things can become ugly really fast.. def better things happen when im chill

ty for pointing out vertex, i wouldnt have known about it otherwise. antivertex is also pretty interesting because apparently its about finding internal balance and self awareness from our interactions with the external world

Posted by lokilover

Posted by Whynn

Posted by lokilover
I learnt that I'm a cancer vertex in the 8th house, meaning tremendous life changes and making deep connections with people, sometimes crossing boundaries. I often meet close connections from people who are in need of nurturing/care or experiencing something significant (example: my ex and bf both experienced heartbreak before we met, my bf took a year to forget their ex and he said i helped him to move on), also its important for things to feel like home to feel comfortable with people

have you looked into your antivetex too?

I have my moon in the 8th house so perhaps I could give you a little insight. As a cancer moon in the 8th, I feel at times to be overbearing to other people and having it in the 8th house is not the best place to be but yeah just like what you said, it looks like we can care for people who are down in the dumps very well. However, you need to also beware of your tendencies of "selling/ be sold" sob stories to & from people.

Thanks for sharing and also mentioning about antivertex now I'll look into it.click to expand

agree with the overbearing part of these aspects, but imo its important chill and learn to control emotions better. i do this at times and sometimes- i learnt being overemotional can cause more harm to yourself and ppl definitely will not want to be around that, and because things can become ugly really fast.. def better things happen when im chill

ty for pointing out vertex, i wouldnt have known about it otherwise. antivertex is also pretty interesting because apparently its about finding internal balance and self awareness from our interactions with the external world

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Yes, my emotional outbursts could really damage. You are so right about the necessity of controlling emotions. Thanks for the reminder! It's just that I sometimes feel emotions so much that it can be overwhelming that I couldn't help myself. There were moments I was very ugly emotionally and dealing with other people with fire mars can really create explosions Like closest people in my life cannot expect what you be giving to them having unstable my emotional states because I absorb emotions of others as well! Sigh.. imo can a harsh placement because of that.

Also, one thing to note is that because it deals with other people's resources so it can make or break them.

I think we should be careful about cancer placement in scorpio house in general coz it is "case sensitive" but from the positive outlook, you care to protect and expand other ppl's resources.

Hmm, interesting! 🧐

What degrees does your Vertex fall on?

My Vertex is in Virgo 0’22” in the 7th house. I have a lot of “fated” connections.