Why is this Scorpio Man ignoring me

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So I met A Scorpio man online back in September

He was really sweet to me, would compliment me and talk to me every time I was online.

I deleted him because I was creeping and thought he wasn't over his ex. Turns out I was wrong.

I didn't tell him why, because my reason sounded crazy. So I just never apologized until recently. It was about 4 months since I spoke to him last...

I never said the real reason, I said it was because I had a bf and I felt like I was being inappropriate with you...

So fast foward to now, he doesn't talk to me on his main account... See the simple answer is it's been 4 months he's over you.

But the thing is, ever since I deleted him, I've had multiple fake accounts try to become my friend. I'm not even popular on the game. Sometimes the fake account slip up, and revealed they knew I was from Canada, stuff like that. Stuff only he and 2 other girls (who i'm still friends with) know. I knew it was him. Sounded, acted, played just liked him. I would have my account hacked, just to have a friend added (and they had me added back). These accounts would be my friend and ask me a lot of personal questions to get info on me and would ask for my social media a lot too.



Anyway, I really feel like it is him...... So assuming that it is...



Why does he chase me on alt accounts, but won't talk to me on his main?



I once yelled at him saying I think the accounts are him...



Is he trying to distance himself from the accusation (even though I said to him I don't believe it's him anymore)

Does he hate me for taking months to apologize and feels like I don't care about him

Does he think I'm disloyal because I said I had a bf when I was messaging him and he doesn't trust me

Is it all of the above—?

I'm really confused here. I reached out to him twice, once to apologize, and again because I forgot to re-friend him.... I feel like I did what I had to do, and if I started another convo it would look desperate. I don't understand this cold act at all ;-;

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Posted by femme

Stop talking to fake accounts! And change your password girl, use capital letters and throw some numbers in there.

If it's really him playing games, definitely don't respond until he uses his main account. Maybe then he'll tell you how he really feels.


I tried to ignore but I fed into it :/ I stopped I did /silence mod so I can't get messages from random accounts. He's silent on his main account which is confusing me, ah
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Posted by nikkistar

Sounds more like hackers trying to take over your gaming account, then some dude that hasn't talked to you in 4 months.

Hackers don't make friends with you. They just take your account.

Edit: I guess I should say, in my experience. Maybe there is a lonely breed of hacker out there.
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No, they will take over your account and start adding "friends" to it. Seen it happen more often than not in the 20+ years I have been gaming. The amount of wow account I have seen, that got a bunch of China Farming bots added to the friends list. Same with league of legends, with people paying for levels. It's not uncommon in a lot of games nowadays.
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Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar

Sounds more like hackers trying to take over your gaming account, then some dude that hasn't talked to you in 4 months.

Hackers don't make friends with you. They just take your account.

Edit: I guess I should say, in my experience. Maybe there is a lonely breed of hacker out there.

No, they will take over your account and start adding "friends" to it. Seen it happen more often than not in the 20+ years I have been gaming. The amount of wow account I have seen, that got a bunch of China Farming bots added to the friends list. Same with league of legends, with people paying for levels. It's not uncommon in a lot of games nowadays.

Interesting. I've had weird activity on my gaming accounts before and even been locked out, but no one tried to talk to me or knew stuff about me in real life.
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My husband, bless his heart, got spyware on my PC from clicking on some stupid gaming article. I ended up getting a lock out virus, and they gained full access to all my documents on my PC, as well as all of my emails. I had to get a whole new hard drive because of it.

I've had folks get their WoW accounts sold to other people by hackers, and so you see a live person behind it.

I've seen it all. But with OP, I think she is exaggerating, and is likely getting those spam messages from bots with links and shit that checks your cookies. People who get their accounts compromised, usually have the same passwords to everything.
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Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar

Sounds more like hackers trying to take over your gaming account, then some dude that hasn't talked to you in 4 months.

Hackers don't make friends with you. They just take your account.

Edit: I guess I should say, in my experience. Maybe there is a lonely breed of hacker out there.

No, they will take over your account and start adding "friends" to it. Seen it happen more often than not in the 20+ years I have been gaming. The amount of wow account I have seen, that got a bunch of China Farming bots added to the friends list. Same with league of legends, with people paying for levels. It's not uncommon in a lot of games nowadays.

Interesting. I've had weird activity on my gaming accounts before and even been locked out, but no one tried to talk to me or knew stuff about me in real life.

My husband, bless his heart, got spyware on my PC from clicking on some stupid gaming article. I ended up getting a lock out virus, and they gained full access to all my documents on my PC, as well as all of my emails. I had to get a whole new hard drive because of it.

I've had folks get their WoW accounts sold to other people by hackers, and so you see a live person behind it.

I've seen it all. But with OP, I think she is exaggerating, and is likely getting those spam messages from bots with links and shit that checks your cookies. People who get their accounts compromised, usually have the same passwords to everything.

I need to use one of those password keeper things, because that is so me.
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Hahaha. I have 2 step authentication on all of my accounts that allow it.

But then my passwords are stupid long and complicated. It looks something similar to this h0r $ e $ h@t3M00m00cowz
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Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar

Sounds more like hackers trying to take over your gaming account, then some dude that hasn't talked to you in 4 months.

Hackers don't make friends with you. They just take your account.

Edit: I guess I should say, in my experience. Maybe there is a lonely breed of hacker out there.

No, they will take over your account and start adding "friends" to it. Seen it happen more often than not in the 20+ years I have been gaming. The amount of wow account I have seen, that got a bunch of China Farming bots added to the friends list. Same with league of legends, with people paying for levels. It's not uncommon in a lot of games nowadays.

Interesting. I've had weird activity on my gaming accounts before and even been locked out, but no one tried to talk to me or knew stuff about me in real life.
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Exactly!
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Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar

Sounds more like hackers trying to take over your gaming account, then some dude that hasn't talked to you in 4 months.

Hackers don't make friends with you. They just take your account.

Edit: I guess I should say, in my experience. Maybe there is a lonely breed of hacker out there.

No, they will take over your account and start adding "friends" to it. Seen it happen more often than not in the 20+ years I have been gaming. The amount of wow account I have seen, that got a bunch of China Farming bots added to the friends list. Same with league of legends, with people paying for levels. It's not uncommon in a lot of games nowadays.

Interesting. I've had weird activity on my gaming accounts before and even been locked out, but no one tried to talk to me or knew stuff about me in real life.

My husband, bless his heart, got spyware on my PC from clicking on some stupid gaming article. I ended up getting a lock out virus, and they gained full access to all my documents on my PC, as well as all of my emails. I had to get a whole new hard drive because of it.

I've had folks get their WoW accounts sold to other people by hackers, and so you see a live person behind it.

I've seen it all. But with OP, I think she is exaggerating, and is likely getting those spam messages from bots with links and shit that checks your cookies. People who get their accounts compromised, usually have the same passwords to everything.
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Exaggerating? I know the game has spam bots with links, those were not the messages I was getting from this person. It was a real conversation. Also my second account when I revealed I was playing on my side and said my real username, was then hacked and had another friend added. It had a different password. I've heard of accounts getting hacked on the game ofc, but my stats aren't that good, "noob" is the word they would probably use. I wouldn't ask for advice, if it wasn't something that was actually happening. They weren't spam bots lmao tyvm
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Posted by blissityblue
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Phantum
Posted by nikkistar

Sounds more like hackers trying to take over your gaming account, then some dude that hasn't talked to you in 4 months.

Hackers don't make friends with you. They just take your account.

Edit: I guess I should say, in my experience. Maybe there is a lonely breed of hacker out there.

No, they will take over your account and start adding "friends" to it. Seen it happen more often than not in the 20+ years I have been gaming. The amount of wow account I have seen, that got a bunch of China Farming bots added to the friends list. Same with league of legends, with people paying for levels. It's not uncommon in a lot of games nowadays.

Interesting. I've had weird activity on my gaming accounts before and even been locked out, but no one tried to talk to me or knew stuff about me in real life.

My husband, bless his heart, got spyware on my PC from clicking on some stupid gaming article. I ended up getting a lock out virus, and they gained full access to all my documents on my PC, as well as all of my emails. I had to get a whole new hard drive because of it.

I've had folks get their WoW accounts sold to other people by hackers, and so you see a live person behind it.

I've seen it all. But with OP, I think she is exaggerating, and is likely getting those spam messages from bots with links and shit that checks your cookies. People who get their accounts compromised, usually have the same passwords to everything.

Exaggerating? I know the game has spam bots with links, those were not the messages I was getting from this person. It was a real conversation. Also my second account when I revealed I was playing on my side and said my real username, was then hacked and had another friend added. It had a different password. I've heard of accounts getting hacked on the game ofc, but my stats aren't that good, "noob" is the word they would probably use. I wouldn't ask for advice, if it wasn't something that was actually happening. They weren't spam bots lmao tyvm
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