@virgoOPPP
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Would Aries have some traits
Posted by virgoOPPP
that you would most likely associate with Libra?Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?
Yes. Aries is looking to be needed.
The idea that you are a little lost bird who needs help to transform into a social butterfly appeals to this person.
They are gossipy. And unless you specifically say DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SHARE THIS ... they share what should be obviously personal. They are also very nosey.
They are not bad per say. It's just they are constantly looking for causes to heap their energy and empathy on.
Aries woman who is UNHEALED ...shows a a lot of traits of an unhealed cancerian. ( i know this will be an unpopular opinion).
Posted by virgoOPPP
that you would most likely associate with Libra?Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?
Yes. Aries is looking to be needed.
The idea that you are a little lost bird who needs help to transform into a social butterfly appeals to this person.
They are gossipy. And unless you specifically say DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SHARE THIS ... they share what should be obviously personal. They are also very nosey.
They are not bad per say. It's just they are constantly looking for causes to heap their energy and empathy on.
Aries woman who is UNHEALED ...shows a a lot of traits of an unhealed cancerian. ( i know this will be an unpopular opinion).
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Interesting take....
Posted by virgoOPPP
that you would most likely associate with Libra?Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?
Sure, not uncommon for Aries to have Libra or Taurus placements. I also hear how signs adapts traits of their opposite signs as they get older.
In terms of the Aries though, it kinda feels like she has a perception of you that she believes to be true, but you never corrected her. I personally would never use it a conversation point but I suspect it may have been brought up in conversation as attempts to relate to the person she's talking to.
Posted by virgoOPPP
that you would most likely associate with Libra?Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?
Yes. Aries is looking to be needed.
The idea that you are a little lost bird who needs help to transform into a social butterfly appeals to this person.
They are gossipy. And unless you specifically say DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SHARE THIS ... they share what should be obviously personal. They are also very nosey.
They are not bad per say. It's just they are constantly looking for causes to heap their energy and empathy on.
Aries woman who is UNHEALED ...shows a a lot of traits of an unhealed cancerian. ( i know this will be an unpopular opinion).
click to expand
Interesting take....
click to expand
Hmm maybe unhealed people of all signs share a lot of traits?
Posted by virgoOPPP
that you would most likely associate with Libra?Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?
Yes. Aries is looking to be needed.
The idea that you are a little lost bird who needs help to transform into a social butterfly appeals to this person.
They are gossipy. And unless you specifically say DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SHARE THIS ... they share what should be obviously personal. They are also very nosey.
They are not bad per say. It's just they are constantly looking for causes to heap their energy and empathy on.
Aries woman who is UNHEALED ...shows a a lot of traits of an unhealed cancerian. ( i know this will be an unpopular opinion).
click to expand
Interesting take....click to expand
Hmm maybe unhealed people of all signs share a lot of traits?
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How do you differ traits of another sign due to being unhealed versus traits of another sign due to placements in that sign?
I don't know about your last part because I've never been able to fully relate to water signs as far as I can remember, even despite the cancer rising.
She sounds like a bit of a Karen. And aries energy is more or less, "I couldn't care less as long as you're fast". But then again, aries tends to just say stuff and not think about it. But their intent is almost always innocent. I wonder if she can take what she dishes out. That's kind of an Aries thing too, combativeness is an option.
Posted by virgoOPPP
that you would most likely associate with Libra?Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?
Yes. Aries is looking to be needed.
The idea that you are a little lost bird who needs help to transform into a social butterfly appeals to this person.
They are gossipy. And unless you specifically say DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SHARE THIS ... they share what should be obviously personal. They are also very nosey.
They are not bad per say. It's just they are constantly looking for causes to heap their energy and empathy on.
Aries woman who is UNHEALED ...shows a a lot of traits of an unhealed cancerian. ( i know this will be an unpopular opinion).
click to expand
Interesting take....click to expand
Hmm maybe unhealed people of all signs share a lot of traits?click to expand
How do you differ traits of another sign due to being unhealed versus traits of another sign due to placements in that sign?
I don't know about your last part because I've never been able to fully relate to water signs as far as I can remember, even despite the cancer rising.
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Unhealed toxic traits tend to look the same in most people.
I mean addiction or lying or over sensitivity are never positive are they?
That is ok you dont need to be able to relate to everyone that isn't a moral failing on your part or a bad trait on water signs. Unless you have been troubled by water signs in which case im sorry. But not all types of people can click.
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that you would most likely associate with Libra?
Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.
this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.
but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.
then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?