Would Aries have some traits

that you would most likely associate with Libra?

Libras def have positive traits but like for the unhealed ones, it's a whole lot of people-pleasing, fakeness and what i can only really see as manipulative tendencies.

this is obvi not a trait that i naturally equate with Aries but there's this lady i work with (Aries) who acts constantly like she feels bad for me for not attending more social team events or whatever those things i hate going to are.

but there's something about it i find really off, irritating, demeaning just downright fake whenever she goes on about it. because i don't go because i LIKE and PREFER not to but she frames it in a way as if i'm oppressed. the fact that it's even a point of conversation itself feels wrong to me. this is not the first time i've encountered an Aries lady like this.

then there's the fact that i've shared a specific opinion to her (a personal one, def not work-related) and suddenly the entire office knows like wtf. so now i literally avoid her as much as possible but she keeps trying to physically be around me like what?