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@Whorpio
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New muse
I initially approached him to be FWB’s to help me relieve work stress.
But as we’ve been spending more time together than I usually do with fwb’s, I’m becoming intrigued. His personality is very similar to mine; I sense he is an ESFP (but more introverted than I am, so maybe an ISFP or introverted entertainer?) We have fun together and do cute-sy things; he’s doing that puppy-dog-love thing my gem ex did when we first started dating.
We’ve been seeing each other for 3 weeks now.
I’m definitely physically attracted to him; he’s sooooo good in bed and I think he’s hot. I like his personality for the most part (sometimes he talks about things that bore me, but all men do).
Since our first date he’s been asking me to go on a trip with him after Christmas.
Last year, my Pisces sugar daddy at the time had been making similar plans and came up with some bullshit drama to cancel the trip, so I’m reluctant to fully agree to (or even believe he actually wants me to) attend until it gets closer.
One concern I’d say I have is doubts about him being genuine, that maybe he’s just running a game on me. There isn’t much evidence to support this, other than the fact that we do have similar personality style s (and it’s very easy for me to play people, so I’m just kind of assuming if he’s anything like me, it’s easy for him too). But I do acknowledge there are key differences between us as well, and when I try to find the reason he’d be playing me I come up with nothing. We haven’t talked about being serious/monogamous/committed, but I kind of sense it’s heading that direction, and it’s making me nervous. I’m scared of how much I could end up investing in this man, perhaps a fear of losing myself.
Anyways, if anyone has advice on how to get outside of my head and enjoy the ride, that would be great. Maybe some optimistic input on how fun it is to date a Gemini (I mean, speaking from experience I know it is fun, but I’m just scared of committing). How can someone with a fear of commitment give themselves a little push to be more open to certain possibilities? Does this indicate things are moving too fast for me?
Sorry this thread is scattered. On one hand I’m super into this guy; on the other, I’m nervous this is going somewhere I’m not sure I’m ready to go.
But as we’ve been spending more time together than I usually do with fwb’s, I’m becoming intrigued. His personality is very similar to mine; I sense he is an ESFP (but more introverted than I am, so maybe an ISFP or introverted entertainer?) We have fun together and do cute-sy things; he’s doing that puppy-dog-love thing my gem ex did when we first started dating.
We’ve been seeing each other for 3 weeks now.
I’m definitely physically attracted to him; he’s sooooo good in bed and I think he’s hot. I like his personality for the most part (sometimes he talks about things that bore me, but all men do).
Since our first date he’s been asking me to go on a trip with him after Christmas.
Last year, my Pisces sugar daddy at the time had been making similar plans and came up with some bullshit drama to cancel the trip, so I’m reluctant to fully agree to (or even believe he actually wants me to) attend until it gets closer.
One concern I’d say I have is doubts about him being genuine, that maybe he’s just running a game on me. There isn’t much evidence to support this, other than the fact that we do have similar personality style s (and it’s very easy for me to play people, so I’m just kind of assuming if he’s anything like me, it’s easy for him too). But I do acknowledge there are key differences between us as well, and when I try to find the reason he’d be playing me I come up with nothing. We haven’t talked about being serious/monogamous/committed, but I kind of sense it’s heading that direction, and it’s making me nervous. I’m scared of how much I could end up investing in this man, perhaps a fear of losing myself.
Anyways, if anyone has advice on how to get outside of my head and enjoy the ride, that would be great. Maybe some optimistic input on how fun it is to date a Gemini (I mean, speaking from experience I know it is fun, but I’m just scared of committing). How can someone with a fear of commitment give themselves a little push to be more open to certain possibilities? Does this indicate things are moving too fast for me?
Sorry this thread is scattered. On one hand I’m super into this guy; on the other, I’m nervous this is going somewhere I’m not sure I’m ready to go.
Posted by CosmicCunt
Do you have a moment to talk about our lord amd savior Jesus Christ? It may just change your life..
Jesus Christ will ruin my life. No thanks 💅
Posted by BOREDAF
and be upfront about what u want
what if I want the benefits of a relationship without the commitment or title 😬
Posted by BOREDAFPosted by WhorpioPosted by BOREDAF
and be upfront about what u want
what if I want the benefits of a relationship without the commitment or title 😬
can i be brutally honest violent ?click to expand
Oui
Posted by WhorpioPosted by BOREDAFwhat if I want the benefits of a relationship without the commitment or title 😬
and be upfront about what u wantclick to expand
Lmfao this sounds like me at times
Posted by StubbornSag
He sounds...too young. But then again, Gemini men have a fetish for older women. Until they don't. Again, two personalities, two of everything🤷🏼♀️ enjoy the moment and don't get attached. He has a lot of world to see yet
I’ve been telling my friends “he’s just a kid” (he’s 25) because I’ve been [sugar] dating men 2x my age this year, and I have no experience dating men younger than me (I do have experience fornicating with them, of course) 🤣 My friends remind me I’m closer to his age than the people I have been dating, and that I’m technically still a kid too even though I’ve seen more of life than most people my age.
I do agree he has so much of the world to experience, though I don’t think that interest has been awakened in him yet. He seems to be a Type A personality and has his life/time highly organized in a way to fit his current priorities/goals. Almost like he can’t start living until he has established himself (my last gemini was like this too).
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
This is good to know. Should I not RSVP for the Christmas vacation then?
He’s sure to mention it every time we see each other, but I’m skeptical (due to past experiences with other ppl) and don’t want to get my hopes up LOL.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by LuckyLibra7
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
This is good to know. Should I not RSVP for the Christmas vacation then?
He’s sure to mention it every time we see each other, but I’m skeptical (due to past experiences with other ppl) and don’t want to get my hopes up LOL.click to expand
You can enjoy your time with him. My Gem Mars still pops in to see me after knowing each other a few years. They're fun, it's just they need to be sure you're the one. God knows how long that can take or let alone who it is.
Idk, I always think of Tristan Thompson as the face of Gem Mars lmao.
Posted by AcutelyUnaware
Lol your name suits you well whorpio.
I got that dog in me
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Posted by WhorpioPosted by StubbornSagI’ve been telling my friends “he’s just a kid” (he’s 25) because I’ve been [sugar] dating men 2x my age this year, and I have no experience dating men younger than me (I do have experience fornicating with them, of course) 🤣 My friends remind me I’m closer to his age than the people I have been dating, and that I’m technically still a kid too even though I’ve seen more of life than most people my age.
He sounds...too young. But then again, Gemini men have a fetish for older women. Until they don't. Again, two personalities, two of everything🤷🏼♀️ enjoy the moment and don't get attached. He has a lot of world to see yet
I do agree he has so much of the world to experience, though I don’t think that interest has been awakened in him yet. He seems to be a Type A personality and has his life/time highly organized in a way to fit his current priorities/goals. Almost like he can’t start living until he has established himself (my last gemini was like this too).click to expand
What makes you think he will allow you to lose yourself in him?
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
I think younger men are kinda eager to please and less risk of running game unless he's got serious Saturn aspects, and looks like his Saturn-Venus conjunction is wide enough to be safe.. plus his Pisces SN may help. As a Scorpio, you should keep him well enthralled
I was going to say that Rahu Ketu is a bitch and will ruin her.
Saturn Venus semi conjunction is a huge red flag so you’re on the money there.
Sag pluto will be the fwb generation (sag pluto) that have 10 people on rotation at any moment in time till they are 50 years old. It will be the same fwb links too.
Posted by AntiAnti2023
I was going to say that Rahu Ketu is a bitch and will ruin her.
Saturn Venus semi conjunction is a huge red flag so you’re on the money there.
Sag pluto will be the fwb generation (sag pluto) that have 10 people on rotation at any moment in time till they are 50 years old. It will be the same fwb links too.
Do these same rules apply to autists? 😬 Asking for a friend.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by AntiAnti2023
I was going to say that Rahu Ketu is a bitch and will ruin her.
Saturn Venus semi conjunction is a huge red flag so you’re on the money there.
Sag pluto will be the fwb generation (sag pluto) that have 10 people on rotation at any moment in time till they are 50 years old. It will be the same fwb links too.
Do these same rules apply to autists? 😬 Asking for a friend.click to expand
Tell your FRIEND I know everything and thanks for taking the bait.
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
How many Gem Mars do you know?
I'm a Gem Mars, Moon, Saturn. I deliver... good and bad, LOL.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by LuckyLibra7This is good to know. Should I not RSVP for the Christmas vacation then?
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
He’s sure to mention it every time we see each other, but I’m skeptical (due to past experiences with other ppl) and don’t want to get my hopes up LOL.click to expand
His Gemini Moon and Mars are only 1 degree in... will more likely to act more like Taurus. His personal planets look like they were almost all Taurus.
Posted by AntiAnti2023
Tell your FRIEND I know everything and thanks for taking the bait.
This is lowkey hilarious, I LOL’d. Not sure if that was your intent but well done 😂
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LuckyLibra7
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
How many Gem Mars do you know?
I'm a Gem Mars, Moon, Saturn. I deliver... good and bad, LOL.click to expand
Not to discredit any one, but I will say this man had said he was going to buy baby oil so he can give me an ass massage. Fast forward to when the baby oil gets broken out and some how I’m the one giving him a massage??
My gem ex would pull similar antics: example, I’d ask for the cuticle clippers so I could do my cuticles, he’d hand them to me but stick his hand out so I could trim his cuticles instead. His mars was leo so I think this is more of a Sun sign thing.
Geminis have the antics to keep my mind stimulated LOL.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by AntiAnti2023
Tell your FRIEND I know everything and thanks for taking the bait.
This is lowkey hilarious, I LOL’d. Not sure if that was your intent but well done 😂click to expand
I’ve been trolling archived topics knowing his bitch ass would be flagged.
Lol at your blood panels honey cos we all know you’re pushing it.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LuckyLibra7
Gemini mars always has an angle and they promise more than they can deliver.
They're a disappointment, but entertaining nonetheless.
How many Gem Mars do you know?
I'm a Gem Mars, Moon, Saturn. I deliver... good and bad, LOL.
Not to discredit any one, but I will say this man had said he was going to buy baby oil so he can give me an ass massage. Fast forward to when the baby oil gets broken out and some how I’m the one giving him a massage??
My gem ex would pull similar antics: example, I’d ask for the cuticle clippers so I could do my cuticles, he’d hand them to me but stick his hand out so I could trim his cuticles instead. His mars was leo so I think this is more of a Sun sign thing.
Geminis have the antics to keep my mind stimulated LOL.click to expand
Sounds awfully venusian... Run his Pullen.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Sounds awfully venusian... Run his Pullen.
I don’t have the birth time for the current one.
I will say my ex was Sun dom, and Capricorn dom (crazy because he only had 2 Capricorn planets!) Gemini was his 2nd dominant sign.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by VenusAquariusI don’t have the birth time for the current one.
Sounds awfully venusian... Run his Pullen.
I will say my ex was Sun dom, and Capricorn dom (crazy because he only had 2 Capricorn planets!) Gemini was his 2nd dominant sign.click to expand
I'm Venus dominant and I'm an Aries. So is my Virgo. Venus is #1 planet for us both.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm Venus dominant and I'm an Aries. So is my Virgo. Venus is #1 planet for us both.
Would you say that makes you softer than most aries women?
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Sun Gemin
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