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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.
I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.
Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.
The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.
Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.
We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague. We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.
We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.
That's all I can think about at the moment.

And teddy bears too. In addition to big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

That whole cancer venus/ mars thing whichever one it is I can relate to. Good interpretations.

I saw him on Wednesday it was a good date and we opened up to each other. We decided we’ll see each other on this weekend (tomorrow or Sunday). Now he says he can’t, I kinda feel bummed out. I wanted to see him and he is traveling the entire month of august :/

Looks like this ship may not sail

Hm maybe another cancer venus and Mars man might come your way I reckon.

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Yeah, im not committed to anyone so i still have my dating apps
We will see

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Posted by SeaLion
Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.
I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.
Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.
The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.
Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.
We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague. We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.
We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.
That's all I can think about at the moment.

And teddy bears too. In addition to big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

That whole cancer venus/ mars thing whichever one it is I can relate to. Good interpretations.

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I saw him on Wednesday it was a good date and we opened up to each other. We decided we’ll see each other on this weekend (tomorrow or Sunday). Now he says he can’t, I kinda feel bummed out. I wanted to see him and he is traveling the entire month of august :/

Looks like this ship may not sail

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Posted by Gem03

Posted by SeaLion
Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.
I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.
Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.
The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.
Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.
We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague.
We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.
We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.
That's all I can think about at the moment.

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if i like a man, i don't mind it if he is clingy tbh

Also this man has cancer venus and he deff loves physical touch and cuddling. Its adorable.
I also love how open he is with his emotions. A stark contrast to the last virgo i dealt with lmao

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Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

Lmaoooo
Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?

Courtship I'm shy at first. And I mean VERY shy. Of course I'm not the first to talk so a woman need not look for that to happen. It takes lots and lots of patience and hard work to gain my romantic interest. And no I don't open up that early. I honestly couldn't tell you how long exactly it would take for me to open up on a date. There first has to be trust on both our ends. Too many trust issues this way.

As far as what I like in a woman. Um I might have to come back later to reply to that when I unfog my cloudy brain cells. It's too early in the dawn and right now I can't think clearly just yet.

yeah no problem lol

I recommend coffee ☕️

What I can say is as a cancer venus I like em to be pretty but not one that I'm prettier than. I like one that would give me my space and freedom. Not one that stalks my every mood to check to see if I'm gone cheat. It probably would help if she can cook too in case I get too lazy to cook myself for the two of us. But even still I like to be the one to wear the pants in a relationship. I don't get this "a woman's place is in the kitchen" balony. As an eater I like the kitchen to be MY place.

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ahh thank you for the insight. He is a gentleman for sure, always respectful and wants a family+kids.

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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

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Posted by Gem03

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

Lmaoooo
Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?

Courtship I'm shy at first. And I mean VERY shy. Of course I'm not the first to talk so a woman need not look for that to happen. It takes lots and lots of patience and hard work to gain my romantic interest. And no I don't open up that early. I honestly couldn't tell you how long exactly it would take for me to open up on a date. There first has to be trust on both our ends. Too many trust issues this way.

As far as what I like in a woman. Um I might have to come back later to reply to that when I unfog my cloudy brain cells. It's too early in the dawn and right now I can't think clearly just yet.

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yeah no problem lol

I recommend coffee ☕️

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

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Lmaoooo
Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?

I have another date with him this weekend

Also,

I had my second date with him last night and he opened up like a lot. About his family previous relationships, and so did I. It was a bit heavy for a second date but i liked it.


Is this normal for someone with his placements?

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Posted by Weeds
my condolences.

what do you mean "my condolences"?????

Is it that bad? Why is it bad?

Posted by Jan12girl
Watch out for cancer mars

Wait what do you mean watch out for cancer mars?? Yall are scaring me

Posted by SphinxFinks
Defenders of home, defenders of children and loved ones, but if a persons Sun or Moon or the child's placements are Sun or Moon in Cancer, he will not have the patience nor depth to understand them and will inflict damage.

Moon is friendly to Mars only in a personal chart as it ramps up the ego self and ability to survive on ones own merit, but in synastry a very explosive combination.

Sun and Mars together create big ego conflicts. Mars especially will want to fight the natural expression of the Sun in Cancer.

I only have 2 experience of Mars in Cancer, my father and a friend, and well my ego don't like my father and my friend always tried to out strength me not understanding my personal Mars placement which ended up in him getting hurt in the end.

what about in romance?

This is my first time dealing with a cancer venus man.

Him: Virgo sun, Aries Moon, Libra mercury, Cancer mars+venus

He has his shit together (finances, job, family-oriented). We have been talking for 2 weeks now, all day everyday. We went on date 1 on sunday, it was nice. Our second date is tomorrow.

Anything i need to watch out for? What are men with cancer mars+venus like?

ok update

a couple days ago I ended up unblocking him (moment of weakness/i missed him): He asked me "do you love me?" I told him yes then he asked "why?" I told him why. I asked him if he loved me then he said "i think yes, because even though Im unsatisfied I still find myself talking to you"

I asked him to elaborate and he said no.

I don't understand this man. I haven't said anything since then bc tf

so last year in august a virgo man and i mutually blocked each other EVERYWHERE.

We were seeing other people and all that jazz, then in january i reached out to him on WhatsApp (he has an account but he basically never uses it so thats probably why i was not blocked on there). He unblocked me everywhere in 2 minutes, and somehow also pouted that I was gone for 4 months lmao

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He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?
What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

He didn’t say that he no longer cares, he said “I’m not here to cause stress in anyones life and I don’t need it in mine either so I am going to gracefully bow out and stay out this time”. 🙄🙄🙄 he said it after I called him out on some bullshit. A year ago I would have tried to change his mind and make things right but I’m no longer fighting for people who are fighting against me. I’m tired of men who cannot deal with conflict like adults and are constantly running away from problems So I told him I wish him the best and to take care of himself and we haven’t spoke in a month.

Same here!!! I shared my concerns with him that had been going on for months and that id like him to try and that im at my limit. He responded with "I've been at my limit, so i no longer care. Patience ran out."

I would be like “say no more!” ✌🏼

That’s the one thing I’ve learned from dealing with this Pisces. I didn’t even realize how much I’ve always been that girl that tried to change a man’s mind about me.. (I blame my overachieving/service-oriented Virgo Venus) 🙄 if a guy told me something wasn’t working, I would try to fix things instead of accepting the situation for what it is. If he doesn’t want to try to work for it, why should I?

I’m never doing that shit again. 😑

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For me im the love em and leave em. My blocked list is longer than my contact list. I just don't care but when im emotionally attached its a tsunami of feelings and affection. I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus so taming me is hard and difficult.

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He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?
What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

He didn’t say that he no longer cares, he said “I’m not here to cause stress in anyones life and I don’t need it in mine either so I am going to gracefully bow out and stay out this time”. 🙄🙄🙄 he said it after I called him out on some bullshit. A year ago I would have tried to change his mind and make things right but I’m no longer fighting for people who are fighting against me. I’m tired of men who cannot deal with conflict like adults and are constantly running away from problems So I told him I wish him the best and to take care of himself and we haven’t spoke in a month.

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Same here!!! I shared my concerns with him that had been going on for months and that id like him to try and that im at my limit. He responded with "I've been at my limit, so i no longer care. Patience ran out."

Posted by ImperfectStorm
He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?
What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)