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Who Is Compatible With This Libra-Dominant Chart
Individuals with compatible signs like Gemini, Aquarius, or Leo tend to complement Libra's air and balance. Friendship and romantic compatibility depend on shared values and communication styles. Understanding her chart highlights strengths and potential challenges in relationships.
Do you have houses?
How is your personal relationship with her?
How is her relationship with the most prominent male figure in her life?
She's 18. She should have plenty of options based on her age alone, with little worries about sign compatibility.
To answer, good luck with that. There's a cheating culture now with the young generation and no one wants to commit in this age group, from what I've seen.
Too many options and ways to not have to meet up to a boys expectation. Girls just don't care to cater to a guy anymore.
They want the freedom to do what they want.
With that sun/moon/mercury combo, she is probably a little social butterfly. Let her fly!
Posted by Lostthoughts
Do you have houses?How is your personal relationship with her?
How is her relationship with the most prominent male figure in her life?
Sun in V
Moon in I ASC
Mercury in V
Venus in IV
Mars in V
Jupiter in V
Saturn in III
Uranus in X MC
Neptune in IX
Pluto in VII
Lilith in II
N Node in XII
we have a good relationship, very open. Her dad is in her life, but we split up when she was 1, she has always lived with me. Her dad is around, but they don't have a close relationship. My fiance and her have a good relationship. She see's how he treats me and how a woman is supposed to be loved. She also as a good relationship with her step grandpa who is around.
Posted by saggurl88
She's 18. She should have plenty of options based on her age alone, with little worries about sign compatibility.To answer, good luck with that. There's a cheating culture now with the young generation and no one wants to commit in this age group, from what I've seen.
Too many options and ways to not have to meet up to a boys expectation. Girls just don't care to cater to a guy anymore.
They want the freedom to do what they want.
With that sun/moon/mercury combo, she is probably a little social butterfly. Let her fly!
I totally agree. This young generation is out of their minds lol social media has ruined them
Fortunately, she wants to get married sooner than later and wants to have 2 to 3 children. I hope she can find a great masculine man.
Posted by CDL
She's going to be a charmer. She should get two phones, one for fun and the other for flirting
oh goodness NO! LOL
Posted by StubbornSag
You missed the important part - rising. Because that says who she will attract and what kind of people attract her. Her ascendant determines which signs she finds attractive and her descendant says what she looks for in a relationship and what kind of men she wants. Btw she has very similar chart to my ex😂 same sun, moon, merc and venus, even same NN
her rising and ascendant is in Gemini
Posted by cersei
You don’t happen to have her natal chart? It’s hard to say without seeing aspects and houses
Sun Libra 11°17' I ASC Gemini 6°30'
Moon Gemini 16°45' II Cancer 0°46'
Mercury Libra 10°04' III Cancer 23°06'
Venus Virgo 0°32' IV Leo 17°36'
Mars Libra 5°03' V Virgo 18°04'
Jupiter Libra 1°58' VI Libra 26°23'
Saturn Cancer 26°14' VII Sagittarius 6°30'
Uranus Pisces 3°28' R VIII Capricorn 0°46'
Neptune Aquarius 12°44' R IX Capricorn 23°06'
Pluto Sagittarius 19°52' X MC Aquarius 17°36'
Lilith Cancer 6°56' XI Pisces 18°04'
N Node Taurus 2°04' XII Aries 26°23'
Sun Trine Moon 5°28' 30
Sun Conjunction Mercury 1°13' 316
Sun Conjunction Mars 6°14' 59
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 9°20' 20
Sun Trine Neptune 1°27' 49
Sun Square Lilith 4°21' -14
Sun Trine I ASC 4°48' 20
Sun Trine X MC 6°19' 11
Moon Trine Mercury 6°42' 28
Moon Trine Neptune 4°01' 55
Moon Opposition Pluto 3°07' -131
Moon Trine X MC 0°51' 80
Mercury Conjunction Mars 5°01' 195
Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 8°06' 99
Mercury Trine Neptune 2°41' 67
Mercury Square Lilith 3°08' -38
Mercury Trine I ASC 3°34' 44
Mercury Trine X MC 7°32' 5
Venus Opposition Uranus 2°55' -68
Venus Trine N Node 1°31' 24
Venus Square I ASC 5°57' -0
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 3°05' 213
Mars Trine Neptune 7°41' 2
Mars Square Lilith 1°53' -29
Mars Trine I ASC 1°27' 34
Jupiter Square Lilith 4°59' -9
Jupiter Trine I ASC 4°32' 22
Saturn Square N Node 5°50' -1
Uranus Trine Lilith 3°28' 17
Uranus Sextile N Node 1°24' 29
Uranus Square I ASC 3°02' -15
Neptune Trine I ASC 6°15' 4
Neptune Conjunction X MC 4°52' 41
Pluto Sextile X MC 2°16' 11
No way in hell you old enough to have an 18 year old.
She would be compatible with someone who has significant air in their chart. She might be a little detached for earth and water signs
I see a witty smooth talker.😂
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.
I do feel like she's very surface level. Not really emotional
Posted by Libra4rmTX
No way in hell you old enough to have an 18 year old.She would be compatible with someone who has significant air in their chart. She might be a little detached for earth and water signs
haha thank you?? I'll be 39 in october 🙂
I don't see her with a water sign, but she is currently talking to a Pisces.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
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Why do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.
As an air dominant, this is the most accurate post.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
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I agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandI thought the parents are supposed to set the example for that. You want an 18 year old boy to try to teach her love? 😭
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I want her to date and figure out what she wants out of a man.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandWhy do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
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I'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
I'm just wondering who would be compatible with her regarding astrology, ya'll are too much.
she doesn't know I'm posting this. It is just something I'm curious about
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandWhy do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expandI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
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Get off your high horse
it's easy to comment and belittle people on here when you don't know shit 🙂 she is interested in astrology, she wants to get married and have children soon, like I mentioned before. Was looking to get some insight and opinions.
No wonder this site is going down the shitter
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandI agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
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thank you for this 🙂
I asked for compatibility regarding her chart and then I get opinions on how I am as a mother. I guess that's the internet, you can say whatever you want to me if it makes you feel better 🙂
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandWhy do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expandI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horse
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I can't, I'm a Sag remember! lol
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandI agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
thank you for this 🙂
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My only advice for her is
How you go about things does effect the outcome. It sounds like common sense to people who know this from life experience. However she is super young and sounds very focused. Basically take in the motto:
The journey is as important as the destination itself.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandWhy do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expandI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horse
click to expandI can't, I'm a Sag remember! lol
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.
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I'm not controlling her. Her want to get married and have multiple kids is on her. She doesn't want to work, she wants to raise a family. She's going to college to have something under her belt.
If her dad and I stayed together, I would have wanted more kids. Raising kids right now is definitely a big challenge, everything is so expensive and ass backwards. BUT, if you have a great compatible partner, maybe it wouldn't be so difficult. I'm learning that now with my Pisces. Things are so much smoother since we get along so well.
My fiancé and I are trying to get pregnant again after our miscarriage. I'll be 39 in October. That's going to be a big 'ol age gap between the 2 kids, I know. Maybe when she see's her baby sibling, it will make her wait a little longer to have children LOL I want her to be happy, if having a lot of kids makes her happy, I'm all for it. I'll be there to help babysit LOL
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandI agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
thank you for this
click to expandMy only advice for her is
How you go about things does effect the outcome. It sounds like common sense to people who know this from life experience. However she is super young and sounds very focused. Basically take in the motto:
The journey is as important as the destination itself.
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Love this! thank you.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandWhy do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expandI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horse
click to expandI can't, I'm a Sag remember! lol
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.
I'm not controlling her. Her want to get married and have multiple kids is on her. She doesn't want to work, she wants to raise a family. She's going to college to have something under her belt.
If her dad and I stayed together, I would have wanted more kids. Raising kids right now is definitely a big challenge, everything is so expensive and ass backwards. BUT, if you have a great compatible partner, maybe it wouldn't be so difficult. I'm learning that now with my Pisces. Things are so much smoother since we get along so well.
My fiancé and I are trying to get pregnant again after our miscarriage. I'll be 39 in October. That's going to be a big 'ol age gap between the 2 kids, I know. Maybe when she see's her baby sibling, it will make her wait a little longer to have children LOL I want her to be happy, if having a lot of kids makes her happy, I'm all for it. I'll be there to help babysit LOL
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It might be just me deflecting about the younger generation.
Young people have to prepare themselves for kids nowadays more then ever because of how expensive life has become.
Hell we as adults can barely prepare for it, so to be restricted and saddled with parenthood so young is scary,IMO.
It was way easier to slide by as a young parent in the previous generations.
Luckily she wants a degree. I hope she finds what she is looking for. She will need to marry someone old and settled or with a very high paying job to be able to be a stay at home mom. Or earn money working from home.
Good luck on your pregnancy journey as well. I know it's tough raising kids with all the societal pressures of today. I couldn't imagine it.
Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expandWhy do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expandI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horse
click to expandI can't, I'm a Sag remember! lol
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.
click to expandI'm not controlling her. Her want to get married and have multiple kids is on her. She doesn't want to work, she wants to raise a family. She's going to college to have something under her belt.
If her dad and I stayed together, I would have wanted more kids. Raising kids right now is definitely a big challenge, everything is so expensive and ass backwards. BUT, if you have a great compatible partner, maybe it wouldn't be so difficult. I'm learning that now with my Pisces. Things are so much smoother since we get along so well.
My fiancé and I are trying to get pregnant again after our miscarriage. I'll be 39 in October. That's going to be a big 'ol age gap between the 2 kids, I know. Maybe when she see's her baby sibling, it will make her wait a little longer to have children LOL I want her to be happy, if having a lot of kids makes her happy, I'm all for it. I'll be there to help babysit LOL
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She should probably find a man with a earth dominant chart. Someone fairly grounded and work oriented. She can be the fun one in the relationship.
Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.
As an air dominant, this is the most accurate post.
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As another air dominant, I also agree.
Although I will say, connecting with someone on a deep level just isn't common. You come across people like this two or three times a decade if that. You don't meet a new bestfriend every couple months.
Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.
As an air dominant, this is the most accurate post.
As another air dominant, I also agree.
Although I will say, connecting with someone on a deep level just isn't common. You come across people like this two or three times a decade if that. You don't meet a new bestfriend every couple months.
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OMG! Another accurate post! I’m 37 and I’ve only came across one guy that I had that rare connection with (physical, mental, and emotional trifecta) and I decided to date him because the connection was insane! Prior to him, I never dated because I didn’t find it. Since I found it once, I have hope that I can find it again. So once in a lifetime kind of rare. Hence, why I’m still single and will happily remain single until I find that rare connection.
Whoever her mother is - she is close to her. Or better said, her mother has had a strong influence in her life - the Moon near ascendant & Venus in 4th. Oh yeah, she is creative - or she needs to be creative in some way. Yet she is also detached off of herself.
Was her father a musician or creative type? She could be attracted to a creative type - ruler of descendant in 5th, masculine planets there, too. She could easily fall into an abusive relationship (or stale, not growing/going anywhere relationship). Pluto in 7th and ruler of the moon's south node - and nodes are intercepted, too. Ya, she may be drawn to the water signs - best Pisces & Cancer, creative types, worst Scorpio, aggressive controlling type.
She has my same houses except I have Aries and Libra intercepted in the 11th and 5th. Look at that Aquarius in 10th with Aquarius's planet right there too (Uranus). Ya she can be detached - but she has much to offer to the world in some way. Probably all of that Venusian energy/5th means in a Venusian way.
She wants to speak but is careful about it. I bet she would make a good news reporter especially covering something creative/sports.
Ya, relationships could bring caution for her.
Ya, the 5th house activities could be related to having children - especially with Venus behind it in the 4th house. The 5th ruler in the 4th (motherhood).
Oh you are her mother - good job. Coaching makes sense - 5th house, creative, speaking, Aquarius up on top, children, ......
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This is my daughter's chart. There is a lot of talk about Libra being the worst sign LOL she has a lot of air. Any luck for her? She's 18. I, of course, think she's great 🙂
Sun - Libra
Moon- Gemini
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Virgo
Mars- Libra
Jupiter- Libra
Saturn- Cancer
Uranus- Pisces
Neptune- Aquarius
Pluto- Sagittarius
Lilith- Cancer
N Node- Taurus