Posted by Antiphates
Yes, the ones I know are married to Aquas.
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I don't really know him yet.
Twll him that you’ve heard Leo’s have an inflated ego...trust me! Do it!
I will tell him how humble he is
Don’t start with lying. Why do you need Leo anyway? Can you handle Leo? My Leo friend can’t handle her Leo husband...well...she can but it’s been a battle...
Well only one way to find out!
What are they like?
Balls of fire. Eternal showmen. Energizer Bunny on speed.
You definitely can't handle a Jed. You need an Aries stellium for that.
A Leo will drive you insane. You definitely can't handle it longterm.
I can assure you ..i do not want your gay boyfriend.
I'm the fully gay one. He's the adventurous one who discovered prostate massaging with an erect penis feels REALLY good.
And I said A Jed, as in someone like him. A Leo. You'd be a total mismatch. You got a very thin skin, and he would tear it to shreds. Not intentionally, but just by being who he is. You don't have the tools to turn the Lion into a little kitty.
yeah i still don't want him....click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by TruScorp
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
Next time lead with the full story since context is everything. I'll say this first, this Leo is insecure. @Rising nailed it all on the head it seems, but I'll throw in my 2 cents having dealt with Scorpios before. This guy either isn't confident in himself, afraid of getting hurt, OR is playing hot/cold games to gain the upper hand. Either way, it's all due to insecurity.
Scorpios can be difficult to read since you choose to hide so much of your true intentions on a consistent basis. Leo's only want someone who can be direct/upfront. While we can be forgiving, we are prone to distancing ourselves from potential pain. If we see something we don't like, we may retaliate by doubling down and walking away. Emotions take energy and unlike Scorpio, we derive no pleasure when emotions run foul. We're a sign of passion, not intensity. Keep that in mind.
Furthermore cancelling five hours before a date is terrible. You don't know what plans he had to move around to see you. It's obvious that you weren't being honest with him since everyone knows their schedule five hours prior. Unless an emergency happens last minute, canceling last minute sends a signal that you don't respect the other person's time. It makes you look fake. This definitely painted his initial idea of you. If you already told him that you canceled because of nervousness, that helps, but doesn't mean that he believes you.
I had someone cancel on me last minute once because of some excuse. She apologized and tried rescheduling. I let her know that I'm a busy guy, so if she wanted to see me she'd have to reconfirm and pay for dinner. She agreed and I still managed to show up 45 minutes late. I only kept the date because I already knew her prior. Otherwise I would not have made the time for her in my schedule. Leos are busy people, so a lot of us don't have time for games.
If I had to guess, while the Leo was busy trying to "appear" confident, you were trying to chip away at his facade. I imagine there's another side to this story in which you were "testing" him and he doubled down to prove that he could push you away. Again this is all miscommunication, but Leos tend to have a reason for what we do. We are not a subtle sign. When he said, "...if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him," it was him being drunk/stupid. However in his mind, since you were already teasing him, he probably thought that you were trying to make him jealous.
Again this is his own insecurity and he should have handled that better. Yet I've personally known Scorpios who will use manipulation to get under someone's skin in order to see the "real them". This of course is only a good tactic for finding someone's negative attributes. What you seek, you will find. That's not to say this is all your fault or anything, I'm just trying to give you context.
As for your last interaction with him, it sounds like he shut down because of the drama. Calling him drunk to say that you opened up due to alcohol probably didn't translate well with him. A common misconception is that Leos like drama. The truth is we can find other people's drama entertaining, but unless we are severely lacking in emotional fulfillment, we tend not to like our own drama that much. It's also possible that he missed you and got jealous when you called him drunk, feeling as if the only time you're honest with him is when something is wrong or when alcohol is involved. Again that's his own insecurities at play. It just sounds like the communication has been off and he may be taking that to heart. He'll need to understand if he's dealing with a Scorpio that he can't take everything personally.
Also it doesn't sound like you've known this guy long. Understand that the ups and downs of this situation may be intriguing to you, but could be a clear sign this guy isn't emotionally mature.click to expand
Posted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
i say call him! us Leos are suckers for a good apology.
another thing: leos and scorps can be powerhouses together!!! IF they can play by the rules. they're both strong leaders in different ways. So teasing totally allowed, but banter opens the door to competition and none will back up from it.
i was married to a scorp for many years, and when we were good, we were THE BEST, but during times when we fought, all hell broke loose, quite literally. some scorps like to banter and poke the leo as an upper hand kinda thing. leo can be playful enough to take it, once twice.....three times already too much!
there's a fine line between teasing and banter, banter is a whole new territory for these two
i made lots of good friends scorps, but i had to learn their language. and it depends on each one and their level of emotional maturity. but i would take a mature scorpio over anybody any day! they know what the freak they want and they stick with it.
but most of all, if i learned anything is to be my freakin self!!!
if i want to call i will, if i don't then i won't
if he cannot handle who you really are at your core, then what you gonna do for the rest of it?!?! try to guess what he wants!?
ask him sytraight up: did i offend you? didn't mean to!! and then bring up the stuff you like about him, all the stuff you said here about your date with him!!
all the best
100% appreciated what you had to say 100% ...Ty. Update, I fixed it by telling him the truth, I was totally joking and didn’t mean anything by it. We started talking again.... I am 100% interested in this guy....doesn’t happen often. I managed to piss him off again. I left him an apology and sent 1 text. I think this is it...Sigh
Are Leo’s forgiving twice in a row? I’m so disappointedclick to expand