A Walking Contradiction

Sometimes I feel like Aquarians can be two sides of a spectrum. One minute we can fight tooth and nail for one thing...yet at the same time we can still speak in defense of the other (although that does not mean we are switching sides). Is it that Aquarians can be that complex? Are Aquarians sometimes a walking contradiction?

Pour out your thoughts

I was giving that some though recently...I think I do it...actually I dont think it's a good trait...

though=thought

yeah I can fight or believe in something strongly and then join the darkside jus to get another perspective and then flip back to the other side b/c thats my comfort zone...weird

But not everyone sees it that way. Some people will go as far as shouting hypocrite. They observe and think make up your mind.

But not everyone sees it that way. Some people will go as far as shouting hypocrite. They observe and think make up your mind.

funny thing that you mention it, although no one can see it, I have chosen, my heart hasn't changed about it but it doesn't prevent me from going to the otherside anyway. It all depends on the situation at hand, for example I pride myself on being a straight up kinda girl in relationships but I might join the dark side to see what its all about and flip it up a bit, of course this is jus an example but I have found myself on both sides of the fences in certain situations, not often b/c the issue has to be something I intrinsically enjoy being involved with, although it may not look as though I have chosen, I really have, I'm jus playing around on the other side for a bit *giggling*

If I go to the other side, its well thought out..I already know I will teeter with it a bit and come back to my comfort zone when it suits me.

I know I'm good by nature and sometimes I feel like my identy stems from this very fact and I lose a sense of what I am the more I live thru this identity, so I teeter on the darkside to be able to appreciate and respect the good qualities in me, is it the most mature way of behaving...probably not but I feel like I can't be boxed in, I take truth as life presents it and when life changes more truth is revealed, nothing is static, everything changes so why box myself in with other peoples thought patterns and ways of life. Sometimes I do things so I can relate to the good in the world and the bad, I don't dismiss one as if it doesn't exist, they both play significant parts in the world we live in and they both are in me.

I'm not an extremist, I won't go out and hurt people jus for the hell of it, I usually back out when I feel things are moving in that direction, the initial energy I get from the other side is enough for me to say whoa, I'm done with that.

I think it is because we have an open mind and we can relate and accept both sides sometimes and it just depends on the mood. I'm not so sure this is a sign specific trait. I think it is common amongst people who are willing to embrace all ideas and give them merit until proven otherwise.

Dr.jekyl and Mr.hyde

we feel at home in both cases.haahaa

DTN...in that new pic of yours you look A LOT like my aqua bf...only he has a shaved head! so, if you were to take the hair out of your pic, you could be my bf's twin!!! pretty crazy, considering you two sound like you are the same person according to your personality descriptions...

hey^^^ i just realized that it says i am 29 yrs. old and my birthday is not until Sunday...so, technically i am still 28! what's up with that? LOL...

o really?

haahaa
now i don't want to lose my hair,so the difference remains.😛

i guess then astrology works.😉

yeah, he is receding pretty far back on both sides of his head (and he is only 28), so he just shaves it...but, he pulls it off really well.

o i see,otherwise i have seen we aquarians are hair obssessive,so i was wondering how come he went without it.

hmmm, ok see in that pic of you with the 3 girls you don't look like my aqua at all!

haahaa
optical illusions then?😛

i have seen pics of my aqua with hair, and he was absolutely gorgeous!!! i mean, he is still incredible looking, but with hair, omg...

i guess if i still looked like him in the other pic...would you not be a little concerned then?

different angle i guess...

no...my bf wouldn't have 3 girls surrounding him ...LOL!

is one of those girls your girlfriend?

no,none of them are,they are just friends.heehee

more gf's of my other friends.haahaa

edit-more like gfs of my friends


drr i am typing horrendiously today

geez...you have all kinds of pics going on...

haahaa
to confuse you further.😛(jk)

i was just tinkering with my pics,as i don't have that many on my computer usually,so its novelty,and i am playing with them🙂