what does it take to commit?

What It Takes for An Aquarius to Commit

Aquarians typically need to feel a deep sense of trust, intellectual connection, and independence before committing. They value their freedom and individuality and seek a partner who respects these qualities. Commitment for an Aquarius involves gradual trust-building and shared values that align with their unique personality.

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moonchild8
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so, what does it take for an aqua to make a real commitment to someone in a relationship? what are the key factors that you look for in the relationship or in the other person?
i am asking this because it seems that all aquas i know are commitment phobes in some way...i mean, it takes a lot for them to settle down with someone...they are stubborn about losing their freedom and individuality and commitment seems to freak them out.
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so, what does it take for an aqua to make a real commitment to someone in a relationship?

If I believe in something or someone I will commit but if I waver in some way, if I question myself too much then I won't, so as someone says it takes ALOT of time.

if you know in your heart that Aquas are stubborn and committment phobes well then you don't leave much room for the latter, you will just keep experiencing people that will mirror back your thoughts, meaning you have to change your MIND, you have to create a vision of the type of man/relationship you want and open up space for that to show up, its not about him, its about you and what you believe you deserve or don't deserve, right now your dwelling on the negative things, dwelling on things that may or may not impact your relationship in a negative way in the future all of this is FEAR and theirs no joy in that.

Change your mind, be determined that you have a good man and send him positive energy in your thoughts, right now I sense fear and fear shuts people down, love opens them up, theres alot you can do while your waiting on your Aqua and just know this, he may not be the one BUT the good thing is, when your sending out all that energy of love and positivity it will come back to you, be ready to LET GO if he's not the one so something beautiful can come in and take his place but in the mean time HAVE FAITH and TRUST your decision to be with this guy.
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Sorry P....

It is on the way out.

I spend a lot of time communicating with people in relationships - ALL of them are very happy and content with living with their partner and believe it or not....most of them have children.

They have realized that relationships are learning experiences...no one wants to be forced to be with someone when they no longer are meeting each others needs and that is what "marriage" is to these people.

What I find is really neat is that they have wonderful relationships that are flourishing because of their chosen living arrangements.

One woman said to me, "one cannot make a promise to love another person till death...that is a lie, when you look at that other person you are lying to their face."

Interesting thought.......
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