Cheating on your AQUA :)

Hey... it seems like all aquas need thier SPACE and FREEDOM... hmmmm in that time gap when we do give them wings to FlY... do they even care if we are falling out of love with them or finding ourselves being attracted to someone else... or even the possibility of Cheating on them... i mean we give them their distance.. so how in the world will they even know what we are doing... all we have to do is act calm like them and pretend ahhh nothing has happened and when they do come back swallow the Canary... 🙂 .. are you Aqua's easy to fool — Hmmmm....

Hey... it seems like all aquas need thier SPACE and FREEDOM... hmmmm in that time gap when we do give them wings to FlY... do they even care if we are falling out of love with them or finding ourselves being attracted to someone else... or even the possibility of Cheating on them... i mean we give them their distance.. so how in the world will they even know what we are doing... all we have to do is act calm like them and pretend ahhh nothing has happened and when they do come back swallow the Canary... 🙂 .. are you Aqua's easy to fool — Hmmmm....

She's being ironic..I think.

Thank you Leo Kitten. I guess primegen has a complex. Direct question with no Direct answer... i just wanted to know if you aqua's are clever enough to figure it out....

Antibling.... i am just asking the question... as much as i love him i don't think i would have the guts to cheat on him with someone... it feels wrong and it does not matter who i flirt with or who talks to me.. at the end of the day my heart belongs to the aqua guy... i mean i tried to see if i would still feel anything and the bad part is i still do. So no matter what it seems my heart is fixed on this AQUA... WHY ? This has never happened to me before with anyother sign.. why AQUA — It's sickening.... grrrr 😢 I was just curious to know what the response would be... seems like i am going offfff into anothher tanget... i want to keep on this 90 degree angle... everyone keep posting... 🙂

Being ironic?? Not sure I'm following..if irony is such an indiscretion, than I must be a horrible person b/c I've long ago ceased to take myself too seriously (or many other things for the matter). All I sense from her post is frustration, not an intention to do anything. I could be wrong though; If she does intend to do something, what's the point of remaining in the relationship then? He's obviously not making you happy GraciousLioness.

i doubt an aqua would know if you were with someone else. they would have to stop concentrating on themselves long enough to understand....

lol..Speaking of irony...coming from a Leo and all.

The only time we leave is if we know you truly love us...

your not going anywhere 🙂

The only time we leave is if we know you truly love us.

Lady M ... ohhhh that is so not fair... but don't you aquas want to truly be loved or is it the mystery of not ever knowing that makes you stay —

bye bye bling!!

"Lady M ... ohhhh that is so not fair... but don't you aquas want to truly be loved or is it the mystery of not ever knowing that makes you stay —"

of course we want to be loved....we just want it to last.

Lady M... curious hmmm..... what would make it last for the AQUA ?

I dunno really....the other persons persistence....letting go of our own insecurities.

Sarcasm is better,in my very humble opinion

Yeah, sarcasm is actually better for relieving that pent up aggression. I'm in an ok mood so irony suits just fine now. Piss me off though, and that's a whole nother story, lol 😛

*suits me

Galileia428.. what is your sign ?

Thanks Lady M

The only time we leave is if we know you truly love us...

Lady M..please say that was a typo and what you really meant to say was "The only time we leave is when we don't know that you truly love us.."

Why the games? Is it really just a strategy of divide and conquer for aquarians.. "got her heart, next".

I'm a Pisces, GraciousLioness

"got her heart, next".
No. Its more like..."got he heart, what am supposed to do now...??"

No games.
Its not [you] at that point...its us.

"all about them and their needs and their space and their freedom....not a lot of attention to what their partner might need."

We dont make you stay...we arent scorpios...
😛

So what you really mean to say is that an aquarius will stick around until they are absolutely apprised of your feelings and then immediately run in the opposite direction.

No games.
Its not [you] at that point...its us.

Care to elaborate, hmm? I don't know why I'm asking..after the last aqua I dated, I've sworn off aquas for good (well, maybe, lol)

pretty much...confusion, on our part.

[not all, and it depends on the time frame, nature of your aqua and the relationship itself]

that was a good synopsis galileia. it is after all about them.

I'm just trying to break it down entirely, b/c it doesn't make an iota of sense to me

"then why do you get in relationships in the first place?"

good point! Well, its usually not us who insists.
Besides, why not take a risk sometime in your life.

Don't get me wrong Lady_M, I think at the heart of Aquas, they are good people (good, bad, that's all nonsense anyways), they just need to open themselves up more, if that's possible.

I think aguas wish they could change, but the amity with one's emotions that other signs feel so comfortable with, always alludes them. They just dont know how to handle feeling certain ways. They can't stand the vulnerability that goes along with giving their heart to someone, esp. if they've been hurt in the past. Estrangement from one's feelings is probably no more common for another sign than it is for Aquas. At least that's what I gather.

This has to be the most tired excuse of the last 2 centuries.

Agreed. I am not making excuses for them, what reason would I have for doing that. More important than qualifying a person's behavior though, is understanding it. For every action of a person, there is something underlying it. And I really do believe that when most (not all) aquas get into relationships, they do so with the whole-hearted intention/hope that things will be different.

Doesn't change the fact that the point should be made, you did not keep him regardless of your opinion of it now.

That's not very nice Primegen.

Hey, I take that back. As I recall, LeoKitten is always hatin on Pisces.

Honestly, I know, most of the time why people do crappy things, but I simply don't care. all I care is that they did it, and any explaination as to why they did it is totally lost on me.

Yeah, well, living according to that same principle would make my life a lot easier, and def. a lot simpler..but, I just can't seem to. Maybe I'm just too analytical, always asking, "but, why?".

perhaps LK should've added 'in disguise' after blessing for branh...your taking it too literal dear.

alrighty then.

Blessing? Sorry, I was not an english major, but I don't think that is how you spell "rebound".

No he didn't, lol.

Rebound Sex, now that's how I spell M-I-S-T-A-K-E, lol.

lol, true.

This is why I hate dating.. its like going on an interview not to get a job but to eventually get naked lol

I am.. I was trying to break the tension..

maybe, maybe, you just talk to a different kind of woman than i can relate to.

Amen LeoKitten, lol. I went out with this guy once, and we had such a nice evening, can't remember all we talked about. But half-way through the date he commented on how it was very rare to go out with a woman and not have to hear about stupid shit like shopping and manicures. I mean, who the hell would place enough value on something so trivial in the first place, little alone, make it the topic of conversation with someone else, no less a man? For the life of me, I can't understand. But, maybe you just know how to pick em, lol.

galileia! stop it...if you keep up with anecdotes like that you will ruin the fun of ganging up on me and maligning all womenkind in one felt swoop!

oops, I realize the damage I've done..not intended. I should have appended my post with a statement in regards to how it's not all women (or even most) just the few that men like my date that evening and others (maybe some guys on this forum) choose to go out with. To make things fair, I once went out with a guy that tried to convince me that humans had been genetically engineered by aliens (that was after he spent some time informing me of his ex girfriend's jealous tendencies and her affinity for sharp objects like butcher knives, lmao!

Do you guys even know what you're arguing about any more?

galilea-- it is just a general antipathy toward me on display right now. the thread of the argument is unimportant

But look at leokitten..she looks soo sweet and innocent, who would want to cause her any harm?

🙂

a heehee

:shock & awe:

dont mind me...just here for the free entertainment.

I feel so sorry for leokitten. She is going to be alone for a very, very long time.

What did she say that was so unforgivable? Guys, you all are acting like judge and jury here. I didn't realize this was the inquisition, lol.

Is this your first encounter with kitten??

Umm, nope. I just don't like seeing anyone cornered, esp. anyone as cute and defenseless- looking as her avatar suggests, lol.

Primegen...I am a happy dreamer and i believe in love... i think your problem is you are scared to admit you need anyone else in your life.. you seem to have a here today gone tomorrow mind... and you aquas can be bossy and domineering the only thing is you guys are so damn moody... you guys believe in triangles.. keep a few friends around.... you want intimacy but when you have you run from it... what in the world is a leo to do...sit and get old and keep wondering while you aquas are conquering the world... I DON"T THINK SOOOOO !!!! your weakness and i bet you aquas are so afraid to admitttt this is simply you know you are more vulnerable where love is concerned... the key is never let you feel insecurity.. 🙂 just keep on smiling like we are best friends !!! but see when it's just "FRIENDS" it gets kind of BORING.... i can have a million friends and so can you... so what actually makes the relationship special — Answer that !!!

Why do you want to change someone you (I'm assuming) fell in love with as they are?

Ok, well, you know those commitaphobes; since I'm not about to share my man with anyone, I had to lay down the law. And yes, they did come around, sort of. The Gemini I dated called me a few months ago and told me that his wife was having a baby...and that when she mentioned to him what she wanted to name the baby, his first thought was of me. Not really a good sign, so I guess he wasn't entirely reformed.