herlimbicmind
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Afraid of intimacy?
Whats his venus and mars ?
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollI honestly don't think so. I mean, I can't completely rule it out.
I'm being serious here. Is there a chance that he might be confused about his sexuality?
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollAhh. To be fair, he hasn't ever literally recoiled. He tends to seem very nervous and uncomfortable but doesn't necessarily pull away. And we haven't even kissed yet so I can't even go so far as to talk about sex.Posted by herlimbicmindOne of the reasons I asked is that you used the word 'recoil' to describe his reaction to actual sex with you. It's a pretty strong word.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollI honestly don't think so. I mean, I can't completely rule it out.
I'm being serious here. Is there a chance that he might be confused about his sexuality?click to expand
But we talk about sex normally. Like it is something that will happen between us.
Thus... I am perplexed. Do I just push past the nervousness and awkwardness or wait until he is more comfortable.
Ive never had to question if someone wanted me... Ever. So this is new ground for me.
I note you use the word friend. Sometimes it can be hard for friends to step over that line for fear of sabotaging the friendship.
Are you sort of seeing one another or are you as a friend trying to help him gain some experience?
Are you sort of seeing one another or are you as a friend trying to help him gain some experience?
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesRight up there with all the other recreational
eww sex
feel-good stuff you hate.
Asceticism is boring.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesWe are sort of seeing each other. We live quite a distance apart and therefore only see each other a few times a year but have been friendsforn many years and often discuss the topic of more. So, we are supposed to be seeing where it goes.
I note you use the word friend. Sometimes it can be hard for friends to step over that line for fear of sabotaging the friendship.
Are you sort of seeing one another or are you as a friend trying to help him gain some experience?
However, this hiccup is shaking my confidence.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHaha. Could it be that simple? You don't think that would send him running?Posted by herlimbicmindPosted by AliensusedourbogrollAhh. To be fair, he hasn't ever literally recoiled. He tends to seem very nervous and uncomfortable but doesn't necessarily pull away. And we haven't even kissed yet so I can't even go so far as to talk about sex.Posted by herlimbicmindOne of the reasons I asked is that you used the word 'recoil' to describe his reaction to actual sex with you. It's a pretty strong word.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollI honestly don't think so. I mean, I can't completely rule it out.
I'm being serious here. Is there a chance that he might be confused about his sexuality?
But we talk about sex normally. Like it is something that will happen between us.
Thus... I am perplexed. Do I just push past the nervousness and awkwardness or wait until he is more comfortable.
Ive never had to question if someone wanted me... Ever. So this is new ground for me.
You should ask him "so when are you gonna kiss me?"
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Posted by herlimbicmindhmm in that case... you only really have two options. Let him take the lead, which could take a very long time.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesWe are sort of seeing each other. We live quite a distance apart and therefore only see each other a few times a year but have been friendsforn many years and often discuss the topic of more. So, we are supposed to be seeing where it goes.
I note you use the word friend. Sometimes it can be hard for friends to step over that line for fear of sabotaging the friendship.
Are you sort of seeing one another or are you as a friend trying to help him gain some experience?
However, this hiccup is shaking my confidence.click to expand
Or just grab the bull by the balls and him by the nose so to speak. Make it romantic for him. Sex is scary business if you want to impress and those nerves get in the way 😄
Don't let it knock your confidence though, as he could be picking up on that and its like playing ring a roses over and over. Will just get worse
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollGood idea...Posted by herlimbicmindLol! I have no idea. If he runs, let him run. He'll be back. He could possibly run into the arms of another girl but that means he would have to start the process all over again. That's a drag to someone who has intamicy problems.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollHaha. Could it be that simple? You don't think that would send him running?Posted by herlimbicmindPosted by AliensusedourbogrollAhh. To be fair, he hasn't ever literally recoiled. He tends to seem very nervous and uncomfortable but doesn't necessarily pull away. And we haven't even kissed yet so I can't even go so far as to talk about sex.Posted by herlimbicmindOne of the reasons I asked is that you used the word 'recoil' to describe his reaction to actual sex with you. It's a pretty strong word.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollI honestly don't think so. I mean, I can't completely rule it out.
I'm being serious here. Is there a chance that he might be confused about his sexuality?
But we talk about sex normally. Like it is something that will happen between us.
Thus... I am perplexed. Do I just push past the nervousness and awkwardness or wait until he is more comfortable.
Ive never had to question if someone wanted me... Ever. So this is new ground for me.
You should ask him "so when are you gonna kiss me?"
The fact that you have more experience says to me you should lead in that area. By asking him "when are yougonna kiss me" it might give the illusion he is in control and therefore feel more comfortable. Just say it really really really sweetly with a sweet smile on your face.click to expand
I will give it a go.
he sounds sensitive and maybe you intimidate him - I would let him lead 100% - but that will mean you have to back off quite a bit and it may take him a lot longer so that is something you may need to think about
I can't speak for all but my bestie is a Aqua sun Pisces moon and he has not had a lot of partners and his ideal of the dream woman is one who is pure in the sexual sense and even though he doesn't admit it he looks down on women who are sexual and not virginal.
And he LOVES the waiting game. He didn't have sex with,his wife until after the I Do's.
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