The Aqua Ex

Okay so my ex contacted me. He was funny and flirty. It felt like old times. Not too long before that he had wanted to see me but we didn't see each other (that's another story lol).

So 9 days after he reached out to me I finally took the initiative to contact him. I called him and left a voice mail saying I wanted to talk to address the elephant in the room (we never really called it quits we both were just dumb and sent mixed signals to each other and drifted apart). Well that was a few days ago and no response. I'm confused and shocked that he would ignore me like that...

Just last week he seemed interested and now absolutely nothing? Wth?

Patience. That's all I can tell you.

well lets see here...

you waited 9 days to contact him...

then you randomly say that you need to address the elephant in the room aka we need to talk...

could be way off but I would be afraid you're going to tell me some bad news. Usually when someone says that they need to talk bad news follows.

just wait. i'm sure he'll come around.

Posted by sultrykitty
Patience. That's all I can tell you.

Thanks. I want to but it's just hard :/. I can't help but think he's toying with me or just doesn't have the gut to tell me he's not interested...

Posted by leodilemma19900730

Posted by sultrykitty
Patience. That's all I can tell you.

Thanks. I want to but it's just hard :/. I can't help but think he's toying with me or just doesn't have the gut to tell me he's not interested...

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Stop thinking about it (I know it's hard). Aqua guys do this to Leo women. When we feel "it", we don't waste a minute debating whether to go all in or not. Aqua is the total opposite, and that's when communication breaks down. We feel played with while they're enjoying pushing our buttons. If you think back to your relationship in the past, you might notice that pattern.

You both enjoyed the evening. Don't get too ahead of yourself about what should happen next. 🙂

Posted by dannmann1992
well lets see here...

you waited 9 days to contact him...

then you randomly say that you need to address the elephant in the room aka we need to talk...

could be way off but I would be afraid you're going to tell me some bad news. Usually when someone says that they need to talk bad news follows.

just wait. i'm sure he'll come around.

so you don't think he's toying with me or just doesn't have the guts to tell me he's no interested?

Posted by leodilemma19900730

Posted by dannmann1992
well lets see here...

you waited 9 days to contact him...

then you randomly say that you need to address the elephant in the room aka we need to talk...

could be way off but I would be afraid you're going to tell me some bad news. Usually when someone says that they need to talk bad news follows.

just wait. i'm sure he'll come around.

so you don't think he's toying with me or just doesn't have the guts to tell me he's no interested?

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No. He's just in self preservation mode right now.

Posted by dannmann1992

Posted by leodilemma19900730

Posted by dannmann1992
well lets see here...

you waited 9 days to contact him...

then you randomly say that you need to address the elephant in the room aka we need to talk...

could be way off but I would be afraid you're going to tell me some bad news. Usually when someone says that they need to talk bad news follows.

just wait. i'm sure he'll come around.

so you don't think he's toying with me or just doesn't have the guts to tell me he's no interested?

No. He's just in self preservation mode right now.

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Thanks. Sorry for all the questions lol but if he thinks he's going to get rejected then why would try to reach out again?