Aqua male here,Will I ever find an adequate lady?

okay, so Ive recently become quite involved in this horoscope business and for the last week Ive read everything to do with what it is to be an Aquarian male. and I gotta say, it describes pretty damn good.

Yes, im that guy who lacks the emotion you crave, Im the intellect and the humanitarian.. blah blah we know my traits..
anywho, Im 22, and have been in just one serious relationship that ended over 3 years ago.. in large part, due to my 'friendship first attitude' that left my aries' gf feeling 'forgotten' orrr whatever. at the end she had made a new guy friend to attempt to make me jealous. i was cool with it cause i was doing my own thing when she was.. lo and behold, she left me for em! lol but o well, no cryin over spilt milk.
I came here for answers.. yea yea.. talking to a computer screen about my emotions because i dont got the balls to talk to a real person about it, o well, the computer screen dont stare into your eyes when your talking about this sappy shit! lol
Ever since that relationship, I find myself finding the slightest of imperfections to be reason enough to end a potential relationship. anytime its getting to the point where a girl and I will become 'exclusive/dating' i find a reason to look elsewhere. whether its her being too 'clingy' (yeah, i tend to like my space) or something else, Im just picky i guess

my question to the reader is have you or have you known someone whos happily entrenched in a relationship with someone of my 'kind'? lol am I expecting to much out of a girl? should i be ignoring these little things so early in a relationship/friendship?
hook me some advice please! cause contrary to the belief. I actually aint scared of the committed relationship, Im just scared of being in one with someone whos scary.. 🙂

lol, i did it, not really sure what all the numbers means!?

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=Jamie+Quirk&sex=t&d1day=9&d1month=2&d1year=1989&d1hour=23&d1min=0&citylist=St+John% 27s% 2C+Newf+island+% 285% 29% 2C+Canada&lang=en

and yea, good to know im not the only one🙂

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Aquarius 21.20 Ascendant Libra 25.45
Moon Aries 13.35 II Scorpio 23.06
Mercury Capricorn 27.01 III Sagittarius 25.58
Venus Aquarius 8.00 IV Aquarius 2.39
Mars Taurus 12.29 V Pisces 6.32
Jupiter Taurus 26.49 VI Aries 4.05
Saturn Capricorn 10.02 VII Aries 25.45
Uranus Capricorn 3.56 VIII Taurus 23.06
Neptune Capricorn 11.21 IX Gemini 25.58
Pluto Scorpio 15.11 Midheaven Leo 2.39
Lilith Libra 0.15 XI Virgo 6.32
Asc node Pisces 4.53 XII Libra 4.05

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Square Jupiter 5.29 -9
Sun Trine Ascendant 4.24 31
Moon Square Saturn 3.33 -80
Moon Square Neptune 2.14 -69
Mercury Trine Jupiter 0.11 127
Mercury Square Ascendant 1.16 -63
Mercury Opposition Midheaven 5.39 -60
Venus Square Mars 4.29 -23
Venus Opposition Midheaven 5.21 -57
Mars Trine Saturn 2.26 73
Mars Trine Neptune 1.07 48
Mars Opposition Pluto 2.42 -103
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 6.07 163
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 1.19 313
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 7.26 51
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3.50 4
810 -464 346

lol is that useful to you?😉

@annabella
I dont agree with that Aqua-Aqua statement.
I've tried making it work with aqua females but they just dont feel me. Its probably just me but i always catch them doin some dumb-sneaky-fake shxt like giving another man her # on facebook knowing i can see her status, or hearing anotha nigga in the background while im talking to her on the phone. Things like that...and just recently i tried to recruit two aquarius sisters (twins) into my circle of girlies and one of them tried to play me but i did it first...
Long story short, i really think Aqua-Aqua relationships wouldnt work because we're too much alike and we get bored easy

@TasteOfChaos, wow, lol, that little chart is like a novel about eveything to do with me.. to you! haha i see what you mean about picking me apart now :p
sorry we frustrate youu! lol im rockin google now, the ascendant thing seems to be correct too, lol Ive recently moved back to the place i was born and all my relatives call me the 'laid-back surfer' lol so i suppose aloof is a good adjective! and no worries, the scattered info is giving me lots to surf on the net while I tackle this boredom🙂

@starfish225, thankyou for the good luck wishes, i may need em! lol your msg really made me think,.. and its nice hearing that im too young to be worrying about these things, thats for sure, lol and I'll do my darndest in this "accepting girls for who they are" concept😉, thanks again!

@annabella, thanks for the kind words, definitely prefer your view, that we just dont settle for less than what we want, although perhaps im seeking someone whos perfect, is a model/doctor as my future bride having a little too high expectations? 😉 haha and really!? i would of never thought aquas together would be successful, Most the girls Ive been involved with were aries, leo or cap.. altho there is one aqua. but were good friends.. she dated my best friend for 4 years so no assuming she'll be the 'friend' i fall in love with! although, when they were on a break, before they broke up,, her and I had been fooling around a lil and we just seemed to be tempted by eachother. But My friend had a feeling something was going on and he was heartbroken, soo the flame quickly fizzed out. but even if that wasn't the case. theres just something about her to me that makes me think theres no way we could date eachother, like we would clash, yet, I couldnt stop her from throwing her tongue down my throat whenever my friend(and her ex) wasnt around.
Is that kinda lust between same signs common??

yeah, i think id hafta agree with ayblynk. too many similarities

PS: tasteofchaos, your english aren't you!? lol "couldnt be assed" haha🙂 Im canadian and very much so jealous of your accent

Posted by jquirk
yeah, i think id hafta agree with ayblynk. too many similarities

thx jquirk.
All you need to do is find a gurl who's willing to except you for you & you have to except her for her. You'll be fine.;

lol! thanks guys, the advicewas welcome! and who knows why i was worrying. I just started reading up on the this astrology stuff and started thinking about it! lol the mind races ya know😉

ahh, the land down under! thats awesome!

@ellessque, awhh,.. my equal😉

indeed, but the best source is an unbiased one.. one who doesnt know me well enough to pass biased advice. lol imma smartass🙂
and wishful for whom?😉

also, 'meh' to living in LA, Imma canadian boi, needta see that white stuff they call snow everyonce in a while🙂

Oh man, sounds like you're talking about me, only the opposite! lmao

Well, okay, here goes:

Being in a committed relationship has it's scary side for anyone. As you say, it's not the committment, it's being committed to a scary person. However, use your Aqua logic here and remind yourself that there's no law says if you realise the one you're with is a bit nutty you have to stay with her. You can end it at any point.

Thing is, I feel you're looking for, or expecting too much. Reason? You want the ground work to be done before you commit. This is quite normal - except it takes time to get to know another person and this IS your groundwork. There may well be plenty of lovely women for you to be in a relationship with but you're looking at every tiny flaw because, simply put -nyou ain't ready yet, my friend.

Best advice i can give, especially for an Aqua who is already on another universe when it comes to emotions - stay single for a while. Get to know YOU again and then look. Two reasons - it's great to do your own thing and also it's unfair to put such pressure on these lovely women you're hanging with.

P.s "this sappy shit" lmao, oh come on, you KNOW you'll be coming here more regularly from now on...because astrology is wicked interesting and yes, us Aqua's ARE romantic - we just rarely admit it cos it doesn't fit our image.

🙂

lmao. 'already on another universe' i dont think i like you too much🙂 haha!
and hey , i dunno about that, if the socalled 'one' appeared right now, i think id be ready! just as ready as ill be 10 years from now anyways. i dont foreee any changes with the way i am, lol!

and yea, you right, this is my new pasttime, tis a close second to baseball

LOL, will do🙂

Aqua sun?Aries moon?Aqua Venus?Cap in Mercury?Ayyyeeeeee!Me two..thanks for the thread this will help me aswell lmao

ohh snap! haha!

Now that ive read the thread im just going to say,dnt ever settle for less!Idk about u but im pretty damn picky when it comes to love & I KNOW when a girl is going to go the distance with me..even if its not forever or even if shes the not THE one..but I know each failed relationship only brings me closer to whoever she is...im single now & I HATE not being in a relationship because when ur in one ,,u feel like everything is RIGHT with the world..even if the relationship isn't at its best...but yeah when im not in a relationship, I just dnt think about it..I think that if you put urself out there too much,ull never pick the right ones.imo the real ones will come to you & you will know its them when u see em.

ouch! lmao, this is getting quite vicious! lol I propose a mud wrestling match to settle your differences.. in bikinis of course, at a neutral site.. perhaps my backyard😉

and no, your post didnt offend me, altho referrin to me as 'the kid' and 'lil dude' dont do too much for my confidence 😢 ya sheethead! lol!

lol! now now, i aint pickin sides,.. but then again, you aint aqua! gotta back the fellow aquarians🙂

oops.. who said that!? :0

hahaha, damn, i had no idea this site could be so entertaining! Is it always like this? lmao

i think i love annabella.. lol!
did some careful research andcame to that conclusion😉

I'm a female Aquarius who also endures the Venus in Aquarius experience. It's tremendously difficult - one day you enjoy the other person's company, the next you wish they would just LEAVE. YOU. ALONE. And why do they text so often? (Although realistically it's only once every few days.) And why do they need to see you every single night? (Although realistically it's only every few evenings.) And... the list goes on. Essentially, as what I suppose one would deem a double Aquarius, I'm looking to be alone together with someone. You do your life, I do mine, and we overlap when it's mutually convenient. It seems so simple, yet has proven tremendously difficult to obtain.

Point being... keep searching; it's out there.

Ive met an aquarius man and as a capricorn to be honest its a relief to meet someone who doesnt want to talk on the phone every day saying Im missing you or just phoning out of an obligation feeling. Basically its more honest. To be doing things as a chore or ettiquette is being false and not true to your own heart. If someone has a blunt honesty about what they want and you give them what they want..and you know your not making them do things they dont want to do...imagine how awesome that feels. rather than a relationship filled with riddles and chores and false behaviour.

What will impress is honesty and innovation as well as a promise of mental stimulation. not doing a big song and dance that is false ..becoming an actor trying to impress by pretending to be something yo are not..but looking deep within yourself ..finding the honesty, innovation and mental interests and then sharing them

Libra rising and venus in aqua hahahahhaah ouch!