DRAMA? or just trying to change someones mood?

recently, bff (AQUA) told me how she was aggravated w/ a certain topic at work & then went home to find her hubby ignited by same topic so she played a (mean) practical joke on him to shut it down. I grew up w/ Aqua mom and find that she acts similarly - does things for dramatic purposes - like just to change someone's mood or stir up s***.
Do y'all really like to do this stuff on purpose?

My son is an aqua and he LOVES to stir the pot and get reactions! Of course he's 4 so that might explain some things...

can't help it.

I'll admit it...Sometimes I do it just for the sake of seeing how much of an effect others will allow me to have on them. Ever heard the saying, "No one can make you (blank) without YOUR consent?" I thrive on this saying, that's why I never really feel bad/guilty when someone allows me to bring them tot he reaction they gave me.

Sometimes when I say/do things that others are too afraid to say/do, that's me really just being myself. Other times, I'll purposely do things for shock-value just to see other's reactions.

I like controversial topics/things, but not b/c I like seeing drama start...No, it's moreso that I feel you can always see the hidden/true colors in someone when you've caught them off guard & put them in certain positions. I like seeing that other side of someone, even though I probably didn't have to do much to get them to bring that side of themselves out!

I'm not mean/cold-hearted though. I don't go around purposely saying/doing crazy things like a child who needs lots of attention. Every blue moon I'll purposely throw people off just to see their reactions. Sometimes I'm dead serious, other times I'm just jerking your chains =) It's quite fun, actually

YES.

We looove the drama,but to an extent ...& we love seeing reactions of people it's so funny when somebody does something totally autta there "character" lol 🙂

I love the honesty here 🙂

Booo you aqua females and your shock tactics! Boooooo lol my girl does this sometimes, like we could be meeting up and i'll simply ask "where are you" and she'll turn it into a guessing game, very frustrating sometimes. But as long as she's having fun...i'll just say "oh nvm i see you" then hang up, lol.

what do u classify as mean?
its good to stir the pot sometimes it reduces stagnation...

..and who cares if its mean"? aquarian people are well known to induce evolution.....testing people is another way I illustrate this principle.

Yo, Clairey Wairey Woo

For 'Induce evolution', read 'aid it by dying before they can breed'. 😛