The most complicated sign...

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by NZAqua on Sunday, May 8, 2011 and has 28 replies.

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@DUNCE
15 Years500+ Posts

Me Aqua. . .complicated-ALL WATER SIGNS!

Cancers-I just don't know what these people REALLY want..or who they REALLY are or what they REALLY mean sometimes. . .ect. ect

Pisces-These people can take something & RUN with it,they can make something autta nothing with ease,we get along great but just not quite there all the way with them,but it isn't too bad,I actually like them.

Scorpio-THE WORST,sometimes i jus wanna take a bat & knock them upside the head!I JUST DONT GET THEM AT ALL,sometimes. . .like AT ALL

All of the water sighns can be SO freakin frustrating at times because it really hard to read them at times,because alot of the times these are the ppl who like to use other people or manipulate there emotions...i just dnt know what makes these sighns "click"...like there sweet spot or w/e...dnt get me wrong I love a mystery,but these signs are extreme cases.lol

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Me - Leo

I find virgos to be the most complicated in romantic situations. Every one i've dealt with in that way have been so overwhelmed that they don't know what to do with or about me.

In general I find gems and aquas to be complicated. We get on well but their flightiness and adhd-like behavior is confusing and a little frustrating for me.

Cancers are complicated but I find them to be easy to work with. Just be mushy, sentimental, happy and they're fine. They will mirror you. Be stable and they will be stable.

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@PrettyMe
15 YearsAquarius

Me- Aqua
i find leos complicated when in love. taurus and those mood swings have me thinking im in the twilight zone. last but not least vigos and the my way or the highway attitude has me driving 100mph to get some alone time.

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@DUNCE
15 Years500+ Posts

Posted by NZAqua
Posted by janettam
why are cancers difficult am i missing something—

Because they talk so indirectly that they rarely say what they want to say.

Call it "Fear of life and living".

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Oh THANK GOD u put it into words!I have been trying to for the longest,thats EXACTLY what they do.This is why we dnt mesh..unless they are comfortable talking to me,we just dnt click..oh then theres the mood swings.........& overbearingness......but besides that ..oh & secrets..lemme jus say they are something else lol

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@NZAqua
17 Years500+ PostsAquarius

Posted by DUNCE
Posted by NZAqua
Posted by janettam
why are cancers difficult am i missing something—

Because they talk so indirectly that they rarely say what they want to say.

Call it "Fear of life and living".

Oh THANK GOD u put it into words!I have been trying to for the longest,thats EXACTLY what they do.This is why we dnt mesh..unless they are comfortable talking to me,we just dnt click..oh then theres the mood swings.........& overbearingness......but besides that ..oh & secrets..lemme jus say they are something else lol

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I love Cancerians - the women have huge hearts and can be SO passionate about things, the men have huge hearts and are mostly hilarious and intelligent (from my experience) but yeah, the whole indirect thing can be tedious. The mood swings I USED to take personally but now I just let them get on with it - it's not usually personal and I don't make a big deal out of them - they pass and the sun shines again.

I find them strong in many areas, but pretty weak on the emotional front. Cool people though, very cool 🙂

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@DUNCE
15 Years500+ Posts

Posted by NZAqua
Posted by DUNCE
Posted by NZAqua
Posted by janettam
why are cancers difficult am i missing something—

Because they talk so indirectly that they rarely say what they want to say.

Call it "Fear of life and living".

Oh THANK GOD u put it into words!I have been trying to for the longest,thats EXACTLY what they do.This is why we dnt mesh..unless they are comfortable talking to me,we just dnt click..oh then theres the mood swings.........& overbearingness......but besides that ..oh & secrets..lemme jus say they are something else lol

I love Cancerians - the women have huge hearts and can be SO passionate about things, the men have huge hearts and are mostly hilarious and intelligent (from my experience) but yeah, the whole indirect thing can be tedious. The mood swings I USED to take personally but now I just let them get on with it - it's not usually personal and I don't make a big deal out of them - they pass and the sun shines again.

I find them strong in many areas, but pretty weak on the emotional front. Cool people though, very cool 🙂

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Lol i've had both men & women as friends,they do have big hearts & can be very comforting to talk to,but a long term friendship just never works out...& u know what,AFTER each relationship ends I feel 10x more free than ever ..for some reason ..so im not regretful of it...I take it as learning experience,,they are definitely an interesting group lol

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@candyapples88
15 Years

Sign - Scorp

It's a tie between Scorp and Aqua.

Aqua because I feel we're so similar but yet so completely different...

Scorp because when I meet other scorps...I realize we're not the easiest people to get to know.

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@happykitsune
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm a sagi

I find capricorn the most complicated? o.O

Idk I've just known a lot of diff types. Dominant, workaholics, funny partying types, crazy bitches, cry babies... I mean wtf o.O

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@nats
16 Years500+ Posts

I am a Gemini (obviously :p)

Find complicated:

Aqua - too distant at times, hard to get them to open up, hard to get close to them, requires too much patience
Pisces - too emotional.. Cant comprehend how they behave purely based on emotions and the whole victimization episodes I CAN NOT stand!
Scorp - hard to get them to open up, hard to REALLY know them deeply, feel like they are always watching you...

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@candi3bb
15 Years500+ PostsAquarius

^^^ haha nats i feel the same with geminis! u think u know them but not really. you think they opened up but guess what its just the skim of the surface. requires too much patience toO!

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@happykitsune
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by nats
I am a Gemini (obviously :p)

Find complicated:

Aqua - too distant at times, hard to get them to open up, hard to get close to them, requires too much patience
Pisces - too emotional.. Cant comprehend how they behave purely based on emotions and the whole victimization episodes I CAN NOT stand!
Scorp - hard to get them to open up, hard to REALLY know them deeply, feel like they are always watching you...

I agree with all of this. Especially the scorpio one. And yes they are always watching

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@LibraSweetie88
15 YearsLibra

Me: Libra

Sign that I find complicated is in this order

Virgos. Ugh is all I can say.

Cancers. Esp the men. So fake and drama queens and kings

Aries they just rub me the wrong way everyone I have met they hit my irk button evertime

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

I'm an Aquarius.

I find Taurus to be the most complicated. And it's b/c Taurus needs to make up their freaking minds about us Aquas. On 1 hand, they are completely turned on that we're so different & that we don't bow down to them or think it's "cute" when they get moody or start tripping. But on the other hand, Taurus can't stand others who are not alot alike them.

They need to make up their minds! Are you ok with your opposite or not?! If you are, suck it up & take mesh well off the traits you DO share in common. If not, don't try to make us Aquas conform into what you want us to be b/c it won't happen.

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@deepcappy
15 Years

Capricorn
Complicated signs?
Gemini: Don't work on the issues they have, leave alone come back to it regularly. It's true duality I guess. Mind games that seem like being a fool, being open sometimes to shady behavior or not so decent behavior like stealing someone's husband or wife. Being open to it doesn't mean doing, but that sometimes happens too. I still love geminis.
Taurus: Not all taurses are equal, but some are pieces of work. They are selfish and manipulative to no limits. The ones I met are either great and very cool or devils.
Pisces: They condradict themselves and I don't understand their principle of loyalty. It's not the same as I understand, but that's just the pisces I met. However, I still like them, but they shock me with their actions or lack of sometimes.

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@HappyCappy
16 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

me capricorn most complex sign to me is scorp. i have a fellow worker who is a scorp. he is...a nutcase. no one likes him at work. i try and be friends and hang out but he comes off as hostile and he really doesnt seem to care that no one likes him. im the complete opposite. im liked and have no enemies. he wonders why lol. im good with the ladies when i wanna be all charismatic and docile. but yeah....female scorps are ok though. no probs there. most love my ass anyway.

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@DUNCE
15 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Skylark
Me: Scorpio
I find the most complicated sign to be: Aqua

They confuse me to no end. I want to get inside and understand what they are feeling, but they give me no signs and I can't read them. I start to think they don't give a shit about me so I pull back and close myself off trying to protect myself and then POOF...they move on. I miss my ex Aqua so damn much. I still wonder each and every day what I did to make him leave. I just stare at the picture of him and his new gf and wonder what she did differently? Sometimes I think I'll never get over him. 😢 I wish we could of had a better understanding of each other.

Thats crazy..kinda sad..I have a Scorpio sis..& we click on & off..sometimes I feel like she really "gets" me & then she goes & does somthing that makes me want to completely stop dealing with her,making me believe she never understood me..which is a BIG no no in my book,especially when I share a great deal of myself with you..its not something to be played with..maybe thats what happened with the Aqua guy..to me Aqaus aren't that complicated...yeah we do off the wall stuff sumtimes but theres usually a reason,i dnt c y ppl dnt get that..now SCORPIOS u guys nit & pic at EVERY flaw & can come autta nowhere being moody & bitchy,just for the hell of it...u guys can be completely resistant to somthing good,without a REAL or logical reason..it blows my mind!& then theres ur humor..tell me why poking fun @ sumbody in whichever way,is supposed be funny?All Scorpios ive met do that. . .I dnt get it....I feel like Scorps just want ppl to feel insecure about themselves,why else would they highlight the negative aspects in ppl.??.I dont dislike u guys,but wen things start to take a turn in the negative direction,like as mentioned above,I take flight lol

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@candyapples88
15 Years

Posted by DUNCE
Posted by Skylark
Me: Scorpio
I find the most complicated sign to be: Aqua

They confuse me to no end. I want to get inside and understand what they are feeling, but they give me no signs and I can't read them. I start to think they don't give a shit about me so I pull back and close myself off trying to protect myself and then POOF...they move on. I miss my ex Aqua so damn much. I still wonder each and every day what I did to make him leave. I just stare at the picture of him and his new gf and wonder what she did differently? Sometimes I think I'll never get over him. 😢 I wish we could of had a better understanding of each other.

Thats crazy..kinda sad..I have a Scorpio sis..& we click on & off..sometimes I feel like she really "gets" me & then she goes & does somthing that makes me want to completely stop dealing with her,making me believe she never understood me..which is a BIG no no in my book,especially when I share a great deal of myself with you..its not something to be played with..maybe thats what happened with the Aqua guy..to me Aqaus aren't that complicated...yeah we do off the wall stuff sumtimes but theres usually a reason,i dnt c y ppl dnt get that..now SCORPIOS u guys nit & pic at EVERY flaw & can come autta nowhere being moody & bitchy,just for the hell of it...u guys can be completely resistant to somthing good,without a REAL or logical reason..it blows my mind!& then theres ur humor..tell me why poking fun @ sumbody in whichever way,is supposed be funny?All Scorpios ive met do that. . .I dnt get it....I feel like Scorps just want ppl to feel insecure about themselves,why else would they highlight the negative aspects in ppl.??.I dont dislike u guys,but wen things start to take a turn in the negative direction,like as mentioned above,I take flight lol

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I understand your frustration with Scorps. I am one, and I'll admit that I will easily take out my moods on my Leo brother. I feel bad about doing it...but I also feel there's a point when you should 'get' when we want to be alone and not bothered. If you want it to get better, just call her out and tell her not to take her moods out on you...works for me when my bro does it, I end up feeling bad and apologizing (sometimes) 😉 However, I'm extremely close with my bro....so I care about upsetting

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@BeatrixBecks
16 Years

I'm an Aqua and most complicated sign is Cancer for me.I'm currently in a relationship with a cancer,and it's really difficult 😛

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@fatal1234
15 Years

Posted by krysrenee7
I'm an Aquarius.

I find Taurus to be the most complicated. And it's b/c Taurus needs to make up their freaking minds about us Aquas. On 1 hand, they are completely turned on that we're so different & that we don't bow down to them or think it's "cute" when they get moody or start tripping. But on the other hand, Taurus can't stand others who are not alot alike them.

They need to make up their minds! Are you ok with your opposite or not?! If you are, suck it up & take mesh well off the traits you DO share in common. If not, don't try to make us Aquas conform into what you want us to be b/c it won't happen.

I agree.. Im an aqua

and I find scorpios as well as taurus complicated. Scorpios only when they test you and sting you till "you've made it" and taurus because they never seem to understand me! They are also so black and white.