Aquarius lady finally reply since 2014 christmas

here is our conversation, need more expert to advise;
Aquarius : Who is this ?
Aries : OW
Aquarius : Please stop finding me.
Aries : why
Aquarius BLOCK ARIES... no longer can be in touch with her anymore

im Aries, should i give up? What is in her mind? hate me or ...... she being nice or ... ...

Hi Rambunctious 76,We had a big fight on business and love relationship last year during Christmas. Aquarius just walked away without saying a word. She kept ignoring every message and block me from all social media, till yesterday she finally replied.

You're just not getting the hint.

Hi Magic Powas, she replied my message "hi" that i sent to her yesterday, 5th Sep 2015. after her silent for 9 months.

i sent her message first... than she replied.

OK Cool thanks for the advise : )

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here is our conversation, need more expert to advise;
Aquarius : Who is this ?
Aries : OW
Aquarius : Please stop finding me.
Aries : why
Aquarius BLOCK ARIES... no longer can be in touch with her anymore

im Aries, should i give up? What is in her mind? hate me or ...... she being nice or ... ...

She tells you to leave her alone and to stop finding her! In other words you are stalking her!

Yet you have to ask us if she likes you?!?! Are you kidding me?

Leave her alone! She's asked you to stop and blocked you, what more do you need?

Let bygones be bygones. Aries very simple, Aries just want it to be clean and clear. you just have to tell Aries " I don't love you anymore, we break up!" simple as it is? Then, Aries will walk away without looking back. I just don't understand Aquarius, why can't she play the card straight ? Wasting time to beat around the bush ? Aries don't like to beg for love nor to be a stalker. Aries are not that type of person... ... Aries are COOL and straight forward !!!

Posted by ow
Let bygones be bygones. Aries very simple, Aries just want it to be clean and clear. you just have to tell Aries " I don't love you anymore, we break up!" simple as it is? Then, Aries will walk away without looking back. I just don't understand Aquarius, why can't she play the card straight ? Wasting time to beat around the bush ? Aries don't like to beg for love nor to be a stalker. Aries are not that type of person... ... Aries are COOL and straight forward !!!

I call bs! The fact she had to ask who it was tells me it was a fake name she was not familiar with( if social media site) or a blocked number/friends number so yes you are stalking.

She has told you straight up- she said leave her alone and to stop. How is that not clear lol

Just walk away man!

as aqua rising, when i cut someone off, i mean for good. i dont need hangers on coming back years later, trying to spark a fire in me. it's not good and it's annoying. please, just move on. she's already asked you to not contact her. so there is no need to ask us any questions regarding this. she means it. leave her alone and move on with your life.

some people are just bad at handling when things are over. she was straight forward. you just refuse to accept it. that's the only problem, and it's on your end. not hers.

Posted by ow
Let bygones be bygones. Aries very simple, Aries just want it to be clean and clear. you just have to tell Aries " I don't love you anymore, we break up!" simple as it is? Then, Aries will walk away without looking back. I just don't understand Aquarius, why can't she play the card straight ? Wasting time to beat around the bush ? Aries don't like to beg for love nor to be a stalker. Aries are not that type of person... ... Aries are COOL and straight forward !!!

I am an Aries female and I second this. The whole Aquarius silent treatment nonsense is such bullshit to me. They can't expect people to understand their constant 180s and read their minds when they refuse to explain their actions. It's just immature. If you want to cut someone off, discuss the matter, and move on, rather than leaving the other party in the dark. It's undeserved torture to someone who cared.

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Posted by ow
Let bygones be bygones. Aries very simple, Aries just want it to be clean and clear. you just have to tell Aries " I don't love you anymore, we break up!" simple as it is? Then, Aries will walk away without looking back. I just don't understand Aquarius, why can't she play the card straight ? Wasting time to beat around the bush ? Aries don't like to beg for love nor to be a stalker. Aries are not that type of person... ... Aries are COOL and straight forward !!!

I am an Aries female and I second this. The whole Aquarius silent treatment nonsense is such bullshit to me. They can't expect people to understand their constant 180s and read their minds when they refuse to explain their actions. It's just immature. If you want to cut someone off, discuss the matter, and move on, rather than leaving the other party in the dark. It's undeserved torture to someone who cared.

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And so many of you people in this forum are honestly just giving ignorant advice lol. I don't even know if asking for people's advice on a situation is worth it when only the OP knows exactly what happened, and what kind of Aqua they're involved with. Like your advice is based on an idea of what you think the situation is and not the reality of it. Whether, or not I am making sense, idk but I just wanted to state that.

Btw Aquas usually have a hard time articulating their emotions, hence the silence treatment. I think they were silent for so long because they were experiencing a lot of emotions. Now that they've responded, I think they are in a more rational place.

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Btw Aquas usually have a hard time articulating their emotions, hence the silence treatment. I think they were silent for so long because they were experiencing a lot of emotions. Now that they've responded, I think they are in a more rational place.

You're just being a silly bitch dear. You go on about us being ignorant, but it's kinda obvious that the Aqua wants to be left alone by this creeper, and you AND his silly ass sit here and claim that she isn't being clear enough?

You both were dropped on your heads as children, weren't you.

Stop talking while you're somewhat ahead, dear. You're dumb as a box of rocks.

Hi all, let make this clear.... I have already moved on... I just want to be peacefully just be her friend. After her 9 months silent. I didn't use others people ID nor number to contact her. I used whatapsps, register under my own name.

She asks who am I, after I sent her " hi" on 6th Sep 2015.
I guess the only reason will be; 1) she deleted my contact and name, 2) she pretends that she doesn't know me (because we are both from different nation. She only has 2 friends in the country that I live.)

Well, all this really doesn't matter anymore. I love her and still... but I will not disturb her or contact her anymore, because I respect her decision. I will give her all my blessing.

I come to this column, Yes, I refuse the accept the silent treatment was the sign of break up... so I come here for a second opinion.
Thank you everyone, it does help a lot.