Sooooo I'm messing with this Aquarius girl

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by virgoking on Tuesday, November 18, 2014 and has 25 replies.

Understanding Aquarius Women Traits and Behaviors

Aquarius women are known for their independence, intelligence, and strong personalities. They can be possessive or jealous at times but also value freedom and honesty in relationships. Their touchiness and headstrong nature are common traits reflecting their confident and free-spirited attitude.

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

This girl works at my job very beautiful women inside and out I never dated or mess with an Aquarius before she very smart and head strong. She a lil jealous sometimes or possessive is that normal for you guys. I like that she not trying to pressure me into a relationship or anything. She seem to be very to touch freely which is cool to me is that also normal. Tell me about your virgo man Aquarius women stories..

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

The Best people in my life are Virgos _ male and female!

I do get possessive vs jealous as an Aqua but not typically with the Virgos. They get that Aquas need...no crave "me time" and don't get upset/ offended when that happens. I invest a lot into my friendships and can be demanding of their time and effort... As in if you are giving 100% I will give 120% . It can be unhealthy if it remains unchecked. It's not typically jealousy thou..but yes I can be possessive lol!

If she's touchy-feely that's a very good sign, for me I don't appreciate someone touching me if its not just a passing interest. The best way I explain it is "this is my space----> that's your space" unless I like you, than it doesn't matter and honestly the closer the better! I'm not a typically Aqua however... More saggie/virgo πŸ˜„

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by aquaninja44

Posted by IAmMystified
Why do people on this form that live in 1st world countries type like they aren't educated.

That's why I want to know LOL

Lol, read your post!

Sorry, haha

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right. Kettle meet pot. πŸ˜†

Why not contribute something to the thread IAmMystified; oh wait you can't. You are neither Aqua or Virgo... πŸ˜›

@OP.. how are things going?

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by justagirl
The Best people in my life are Virgos _ male and female!

I do get possessive vs jealous as an Aqua but not typically with the Virgos. They get that Aquas need...no crave "me time" and don't get upset/ offended when that happens. I invest a lot into my friendships and can be demanding of their time and effort... As in if you are giving 100% I will give 120% . It can be unhealthy if it remains unchecked. It's not typically jealousy thou..but yes I can be possessive lol!

If she's touchy-feely that's a very good sign, for me I don't appreciate someone touching me if its not just a passing interest. The best way I explain it is "this is my space----> that's your space" unless I like you, than it doesn't matter and honestly the closer the better! I'm not a typically Aqua however... More saggie/virgo πŸ˜„

thanks for the info I like that she gives me my space you know Virgo men need our space. One thing is she dose not have as much stamina in the need bed room as I do.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by virgoking

Posted by justagirl
The Best people in my life are Virgos _ male and female!

I do get possessive vs jealous as an Aqua but not typically with the Virgos. They get that Aquas need...no crave "me time" and don't get upset/ offended when that happens. I invest a lot into my friendships and can be demanding of their time and effort... As in if you are giving 100% I will give 120% . It can be unhealthy if it remains unchecked. It's not typically jealousy thou..but yes I can be possessive lol!

If she's touchy-feely that's a very good sign, for me I don't appreciate someone touching me if its not just a passing interest. The best way I explain it is "this is my space----> that's your space" unless I like you, than it doesn't matter and honestly the closer the better! I'm not a typically Aqua however... More saggie/virgo πŸ˜„

thanks for the info I like that she gives me my space you know Virgo men need our space. One thing is she dose not have as much stamina in the need bed room as I do.

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awww, build it up πŸ˜› Her stamina that is. Maybe she is just used to the wham bam thank you ma'am! LOL

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@sassafras
12 Years

Head strong, yep. Jealous, can be. Usually for good reason. Possessive, yes. I tend to say the person is "mine" or "my (insert guys name)". I'm even possessive of which seat is mine in a car. I'll intensely stare someone down and tell them "You're in my seat.". Kinda like Sheldon on Big Bang Theory. But we're not HUGELY possessive like how some people are saying things like "You're mine and mine alone and you can't ever hang out with anyone else because I'm everything you need blah blah crazy crazy".

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by justagirl

Posted by virgoking

Posted by justagirl
The Best people in my life are Virgos _ male and female!

I do get possessive vs jealous as an Aqua but not typically with the Virgos. They get that Aquas need...no crave "me time" and don't get upset/ offended when that happens. I invest a lot into my friendships and can be demanding of their time and effort... As in if you are giving 100% I will give 120% . It can be unhealthy if it remains unchecked. It's not typically jealousy thou..but yes I can be possessive lol!

If she's touchy-feely that's a very good sign, for me I don't appreciate someone touching me if its not just a passing interest. The best way I explain it is "this is my space----> that's your space" unless I like you, than it doesn't matter and honestly the closer the better! I'm not a typically Aqua however... More saggie/virgo πŸ˜„

thanks for the info I like that she gives me my space you know Virgo men need our space. One thing is she dose not have as much stamina in the need bed room as I do.

awww, build it up πŸ˜› Her stamina that is. Maybe she is just used to the wham bam thank you ma'am! LOL

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Yeah at first I was thinking it was because we are different race from each others at least that what she says. Doesn't really bother me I like her personality more than I like her sex it's good don't get me wrong but that's not all I like. I'm just taking it slow with her we both have drama in our life.

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@justagirl
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lol

aren't you the aqua that had the scorp bf & caught him almost cheating, dick pic or something? I don't know everything that happened but think back to that time and how it went down. How you felt and what you shared on here.... if that's not you then nm

Aquas can get possessive not every aqua (I try to stay away from blanket statements) but yes it is/can be part of our sign.. especially when feelings are involved. We do not invest those lightly in others.

we want to keep the shiny new thing and never let it go...oh wait, maybe not πŸ˜›

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by sassafras
Head strong, yep. Jealous, can be. Usually for good reason. Possessive, yes. I tend to say the person is "mine" or "my (insert guys name)". I'm even possessive of which seat is mine in a car. I'll intensely stare someone down and tell them "You're in my seat.". Kinda like Sheldon on Big Bang Theory. But we're not HUGELY possessive like how some people are saying things like "You're mine and mine alone and you can't ever hang out with anyone else because I'm everything you need blah blah crazy crazy".

yes! I've done the stare down too.. its like, dude WHY would you take my spot. I always sit in that spot! πŸ˜†

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by justagirl
lol

aren't you the aqua that had the scorp bf & caught him almost cheating, dick pic or something? I don't know everything that happened but think back to that time and how it went down. How you felt and what you shared on here.... if that's not you then nm

Aquas can get possessive not every aqua (I try to stay away from blanket statements) but yes it is/can be part of our sign.. especially when feelings are involved. We do not invest those lightly in others.

we want to keep the shiny new thing and never let it go...oh wait, maybe not πŸ˜›

i was going to say.

yeah i am very possessive myself and i'm NOT ashamed to admit that. damn right im possessive, jealous and all the nasty evil things emotions of the dark side get. I will start getting really evil like too!! I imagine a big giant KNIFE and i want to cut off some balls and the rest of the male genitals.
It's EVIL.

i must have been a Lorenna Bobbit alternative universe or something.
*smh*

women who aren't jealous of their mates in my opinion mean that they don't give a fuck. They're probably thinking, so the fuck what if they go off and do stuff to other women, go on ahead, i don't give two fucking shits. You wanna grab that butt? GO on then.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

^^

i read that post last year when your guy left the diary open for you to read.

I did think that was suspicious that he left it OPEN like that. It's like, "here you go, tempting you."

what guy keeps a diary anyway?

well at least my guy doesn't.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

you should have bought yourself a diary.

Then write FAKE shit in there and have it open everyday for him to read.

Monday: bought tampons. on my period.

then he'll read that and go, Oh, well guess no sex.

lol

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by aquarius78

Posted by justagirl
lol

aren't you the aqua that had the scorp bf & caught him almost cheating, dick pic or something? I don't know everything that happened but think back to that time and how it went down. How you felt and what you shared on here.... if that's not you then nm

Aquas can get possessive not every aqua (I try to stay away from blanket statements) but yes it is/can be part of our sign.. especially when feelings are involved. We do not invest those lightly in others.

we want to keep the shiny new thing and never let it go...oh wait, maybe not πŸ˜›

That has nothing to deal with jealousy. Feelings such as pain and hurt exist when some one cheats on you. Jealousy is envy or wishing that some thing was based around you....none of jealousys feelings are related to being cheated on. Get a brain.

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okay, not going to drag all that back up...was just curious if it was you. I just found it ironic with what you said in your post to the OP. for him to run from females that show jealousy/possessiveness.

Jealousy is a human emotion, I think we have all experienced it at 1 time or another and it is okay to feel it.
As long as you don't become some pyscho crazed person lol *sideeyes the knife wielder* πŸ˜›

Besides I think most of us are talking about being possessive over being jealous, at least I was. But I will admit at times I have gotten jealous, its all in how one deals with it and reacts when that happens.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by aquarius78

Posted by justagirl

Posted by aquarius78

Posted by justagirl
lol

aren't you the aqua that had the scorp bf & caught him almost cheating, dick pic or something? I don't know everything that happened but think back to that time and how it went down. How you felt and what you shared on here.... if that's not you then nm

Aquas can get possessive not every aqua (I try to stay away from blanket statements) but yes it is/can be part of our sign.. especially when feelings are involved. We do not invest those lightly in others.

we want to keep the shiny new thing and never let it go...oh wait, maybe not πŸ˜›

That has nothing to deal with jealousy. Feelings such as pain and hurt exist when some one cheats on you. Jealousy is envy or wishing that some thing was based around you....none of jealousys feelings are related to being cheated on. Get a brain.

okay, not going to drag all that back up...was just curious if it was you. I just found it ironic with what you said in your post to the OP. for him to run from females that show jealousy/possessiveness.

Jealousy is a human emotion, I think we have all experienced it at 1 time or another and it is okay to feel it.
As long as you don't become some pyscho crazed person lol *sideeyes the knife wielder* πŸ˜›

Besides I think most of us are talking about being possessive over being jealous, at least I was. But I will admit at times I have gotten jealous, its all in how one deals with it and reacts when that happens.

I dont think its your position to tell people they must have felt jealousy at some point in their life. Ive never felt it.

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my opinion, you don't have to like it. Cheers!

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@kaqual75
12 Years

VirgoKing, still with the Aqua? I've just recently (2.5 months) started talking to a Virgo male. I've heard aquas and virgos aren't compatible but it seems we are alike. Need space, don't show as much emotion, like to take our time. Aquas are often mistaken for being cold, unemotional and afraid of commitment but in reality, we just don't want to feel stifled in a relationship. If you don't smother us, we are very committed and loyal. I agree with the you give 100% we give 120