AQUARIUS MAN KEEPS BREAKING UP ( IM A PISCES)

We only dated for 3 months. the firs time he broke up was because I accidentally said I didn't have a boyfriend. since we never spoke about labels.. I did everything to fix my mistake now the second time around was because

one day after work we had planned to hang out I had my phone in silent and after 15 min of waiting outside he left to his house . I called him to let him know I had seen his missed calls that I was sorry for having my phone in silent . he threw a tantrum saying that I didn't care about him coming to get me. that I was too busy who knows doing what, that I wasn't prob home etc.. etc..

I had bought him a Colombian soup since he was getting a cold . So I decided to go over his house instead to drop off the soup . I didn't stay because we only live 7 min apart and he didn't ant to turn around to come get me after waiting for 15 min.

I went dropped off the soup wished him to get better and left.. After 15 min when I was home he calls to ssay he was outside .

so I explained that I didn't like the accusations he mentioned and that I was upset to just give me some time to cool down..
that I wasn't going home with him,..
he literally said to me, you either come now or we are done. I was shockeddddd. I told him im not making that decision you are and if you cant respect that I don't want to go home with you and break up .. like seriously. so he said yes. you either come or we are done.

so I got out his car( we were talking in his carr outside my house) I said goodbye I got out and went inside my house

I was hurt and upset he literally broke things off over nothing.

so its been 4 days and I haven't heard back from him.. the same night he blocked me on social media . now 2 days ago he unblocked me..

whats happening with this Aquarius guy?

Control

Posted by starwars
wtf he has no chill

lol

yeah the guys are control freaks

Only if they really like you though

don't give in to him

let him come to you

he will

Well did you want to go over his house ?

Posted by Twodrinks
Lmao this is funny. Yes, Aquas are bratty as shit. All fixed signs are stubborn asses. My Aqua tried to tell me "I think we need a break"....I said "nah, what you doing?" I don't even acknowledge his tantrums anymore. Hes very reactive but he's super easy to calm back down.

Obviously this is really shitty behavior bordering on emotional abuse. I don't really want to tell you how to proceed since I wouldn't ever suggest someone put up wih emotional abuse but he'll probably come back.

LOL you're past the initiation phase. Welcome sis!. 🙂

Sounds like an emotional mess. Break up with him & let him cool down first. This is very unhealthy & shouldnt be encouraged. Tell him honestly his jealousy is jeopardizing the relationship & give him alone time to reflect. If he comes back as a different person, accept him 🙂

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by Twodrinks
Lmao this is funny. Yes, Aquas are bratty as shit. All fixed signs are stubborn asses. My Aqua tried to tell me "I think we need a break"....I said "nah, what you doing?" I don't even acknowledge his tantrums anymore. Hes very reactive but he's super easy to calm back down.

Obviously this is really shitty behavior bordering on emotional abuse. I don't really want to tell you how to proceed since I wouldn't ever suggest someone put up wih emotional abuse but he'll probably come back.

LOL you're past the initiation phase. Welcome sis!. 🙂

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Unless you're seeing my man on the side. They're very similar from what I've seen. Hmmm. Imma think about this for a bit...

Posted by Twodrinks

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by Twodrinks
Lmao this is funny. Yes, Aquas are bratty as shit. All fixed signs are stubborn asses. My Aqua tried to tell me "I think we need a break"....I said "nah, what you doing?" I don't even acknowledge his tantrums anymore. Hes very reactive but he's super easy to calm back down.

Obviously this is really shitty behavior bordering on emotional abuse. I don't really want to tell you how to proceed since I wouldn't ever suggest someone put up wih emotional abuse but he'll probably come back.

LOL you're past the initiation phase. Welcome sis!. 🙂

Lol 😆 I tell him on a regular basis that he's a brat. His response is "but im your brat"

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I say that too...mine denies it, stomps out of the room and sulks for an hour, lol.

The 2 of u stop abusing the brittle aqua 😄

Posted by Angmodurian
The 2 of u stop abusing the brittle aqua 😄

It's strangely endearing. I think your strategy is to make is fall for you while simultaneously wearing down our resolve to get mad at your bs, lol.

Two Drinks is right...jist like a puppy! 😄

When he said "you either come now or we are done"

I'm not gonna lie...probably would've turned me on a bit...don't think I would've got out the car...smh

I would have made him make it up to me with some aggressive you know what...but that's just me

Well is day 5 and still no sign of him, not a call, not a text, notthing . NADA.

I wanted to go to his house but his stupid attitude killed my mood and I just wanted to stay away cause I tend to say crazy things when im upset I just turn mean and arrogant . so that was one of the main reasons I didn't go home with him
And also for him to validate my decisions as well. I usually just go with the flow but that night I wasn't gonna let him manipulate me using our relationship against me. Like I told him youre breaking up is your decision not mines and over nothing all im asking you is to go home and let things cool down I see you tomorrow, then hes like no you either come home with me or we are done... FCK OFF dude I have no time for your sh*t.

yea dont let him do you like that. foreal. stop being so nice to him

Well he messaged me today that hes very sorry for ruining things for us. he misses me .
hes asking to meet up.

I don't feel the need to meet up with someone who broke up with me twice for no reasons. I just think he will do it again and im turned off. Not planning on messaging back.