Hi I am a Scorpion female in love with this Aquarius male , We met through this friend of mine where he was the one to approach me as he heard about me through a friend saw my pictures and was very keen on meeting me , we then started talking daily he would send me good mornings and good nights and basically text and talk throughout the day and i reciprocated the same way everything was beautiful he gave me all the reasons to fall in love with him,this went on for 7 months until he went for a vacation and started pulling back we still chatted and he would reply back with interest then he got back i realized that he was not interested as much and stopped the daily texting and talking stopped calling me with words of endearment (baby babylove love ). i should add that we went 2nd base on our 3rd date . what shocked me is that i finally decided to tell him how i feel and sent him a text asking why he was behaving like that and confessing that im in love with him and want to give it a shot dating him , he replied back saying that he dint see this coming and was surprised he said that he had been in a marriage before which devastated him and could not connect emotionally with a girl anymore and he went on and on about he hurt he was and saying that its not me who has the problem its him. after that he dint reply and then next day he replied saying he was very sorry for hurting me and dint want to give me false hopes and said that he was sad that he hurt me... please tell me how can a person give so many signs of liking to a girl invest so much time and then say that they were emotionally unavailable.? it hurts me so bad coz i would never do that or even get so close to someone whom i dont see as a future prospect, It is shattering to see that matured adults still do that. im completely confused as to what i dint see or what went wrong and is there anyway he would realize and come back or should i just move onn, i love him . PS. i haven't replied back to him after his last message.
