The Chase

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by nikkilove on Wednesday, July 16, 2014 and has 21 replies.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

My opinion...

If a man disappears for a short while - a day or two, a week is the maxiumum limit - he's recharging and needing some space.

If a man disppears for more than that or ignores you, then he's not that into you. A man who's into you will not disappear on you for long.

I'm not an aqua man, though.

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Becuase of these fine people on this site and my somewhat confusing aqua interactions.

They will always disappear to recharge BUT they will always come back.

Gotta give them space. If they come back then great, if they don't then move on.

Simple as that.

It's easier to remind yourself of that then wondering for eons wtf is his problem πŸ™‚

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@nikkilove
12 Years

I sent him a text yesterday...this is what I said (Hello sweetie!! Didn't want anything just saying hello. Hope all is well) How do you think he will take it? Again...I'm just trying to give him his space

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

When they are off then let them. Don't initiate. Let them initiate. Otherwise it'll reinforce the running after them thing.

I learned when they are busy leave them alone, then they come back wanting all of your attention and then they are gone again.

Its like in that other persons posts. They have an off switch, when its off then go away and leave them alone to do whatever they wanna do.

Otherwise youre making it worse lol.

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@IAmMystified
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by nikkilove
I don't bother him. He was the one calling me all the time. That was my first time texting on yesterday.

Well if that's the case then leave it at that...go do your own thing, hang out with friends or family go to work, go to class, go to church...

just live your life and if he calls he calls if he doesn't then he doesnt.

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@aquastyle15
12 Years

I agree w/ everything IAmMystified says. For me personally, I won't respond to messages, texts, or calls just b/c I don't feel like it at the time & feel no urgency. I wouldn't be worried if you don't get responses back for a few days. However, If it's weeks, then I'd be worried lol. For example, an old co-worker contacted me on Monday. I'll respond to her tomorrow (maybe). It's all good. On the other hand, I have an aqua male cousin whose been on "vacation" with friends for almost 2+ weeks & hasn't come home yet to his woman. He's done lol. It's a disgusting trait, but we all have our flaws. Hope that helped πŸ™‚

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@aquastyle15
12 Years

Posted by aquasnoz
I might point out the fact you are asking very vague questions and I've not practiced my internet-mindreading skills in quite a while.

That was funny, but rude. Looks like being a smart-ass supersedes being helpful for you