Aquas is this cause "I'm special" or do you do this for anyone?

Platonic and not? I'm sick and the Aqua offered to bring me some things tomorrow after work and mentioned she's gonna be on my side of town anyway. I think it's so sweet, and heartwarming because no one ever does that for me. Except ONE aqua who isnt in my life anymore; We were platonic friends. And she came and dropped off supplies when I was sick. Granted we were involved 6 years prior but we were strictly platonic 6 years later no feels. But I was also one of her confirmed "best friends". I cut her off because she was a racist.

But anyway this Aqua. Im trying to gauge if shes going out of her way because Im "special". Or are Aquas just like that? Asking for research.

They're just like that. Some do it from the heart. Others may give, to get something in return.

Additionally, don't place your worth in the hands of what someone does for you. Understand? If this person values you, then why wouldn't she go above to help you while sick? You know? That's what friends are for 🤷 and more 🙂 Just be sure to show gratitude for her kindness, ofcourse.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

They're just like that. Some do it from the heart. Others may give, to get something in return.

To get something in return —😂😂😂

Have u actually known an aqua ??

Dont make false statements.

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"Have I known an actual Aqua?" Umm, obviously. And I stand behind what I've shared. Nothing funny about it. In fact, many Aquas claim to be humanitarians 🤔 Now, that's funny 😂🤣

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Additionally, don't place your worth in the hands of what someone does for you. Understand? If this person values you, then why wouldn't she go above to help you while sick? You know? That's what friends are for 🤷 and more 🙂 Just be sure to show gratitude for her kindness, ofcourse.

I try my best to show her how grateful I am! Essentially I was rather neglected as a child so when I receive such treatment it takes me back a little and I’m not sure what to make of it.

Posted by Epiphanes

Nah, we do that kind of stuff for anyone if we can without too much hassle.

So it’s nothing “special” toward me per say. Just who she is (which makes it more special to me) but I’m just curious on what to look for in an aqua when they realllly like you

Posted by tink999

I am an Aquarius, and I do things like this for my favorite people. My loved ones. I don’t do it for just anybody, and I definitely don’t do it to get anything In return.

Ahhh ok I was wondering. Cause she is SUCH a busy person. Like woah mavric. Studying for mcats. Work. School. All the things. And still makes that time to help me. I was curious

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Nah, we do that kind of stuff for anyone if we can without too much hassle.

So it’s nothing “special” toward me per say. Just who she is (which makes it more special to me) but I’m just curious on what to look for in an aqua when they realllly like you

I have no real answer to this as that usually is highly variable from person to person but chances are that, if she is super busy and still takes the time to interact with you, she at least likes or trusts you to some degree.

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Haha I mean we sleep together sometimes so I’d assume to some degree lol. Just wondering what degree, because I know a lot of old aqua friends of mine had sexual partners, or pretend partners just to keep them occupied. But that they seen no future with and didn’t necessarily even like that much. But I don’t know, doesn’t really seem she has time to pussy foot around for no reason

Posted by tink999

yeah, in my opinion, if she’s THAT busy, I’d say she sees you as special. No matter how busy I am , I will find time for someone I care about. I like to spoil them. BUT, that’s just me. Not every Aquarius is the same.

Spoil how?

Posted by tink999

Do things that show that I care. If your sick , I’d make tea and soup. If you needed anything I’d go and get it. Make a meal... that sort of thing. Coddling

Awww yeah she’s like that. Always making sure I’m okay and comfortable. I definitely treat her while we are out. Like ask her if she wants a coffee when I’m getting one for my self. Or a few nights ago we spontaneously went to get margaritas on me. Or I’ll buy her chips when she’s studying. And when I’m with her she offers me dinner. Cuddles me and makes me feel super safe (she’s a Pisces dominant too so super extra on the feels which is good for my cancer self). ALWAYSSS asks me if I’ve eaten. I’ve yet to get the super special “I made you soup” treatment. But she has definitely made me a meal. She just loves when I cook for her. Because I enjoy doing it and cooking in general, and she said no one ever does that for her. I like spoiling her in that way too like she does for everyone else. So far we both I think have shown one another gratitude in so many ways. And everything is light and fun rn. Neither of us wanted to rush in to anything. But getting extremely close and vulnerable at the same time. No expectations. Just fun and LOTS of communicating. I love aquas for that. Can’t say the same for my other fellow water signs. Luckily for me I’m a libra rising and sag moon so it works

I'm a water dominant aqua and no, I wouldn't do that kind of things for just anybody. Maybe she's one of the super-sweet humanitarians, for me it would mean stepping out of my routines and comfort zone and making extra place and effort for somebody. That would be a huge sign for: I care a lot. Enjoy your time together!

Posted by waterbearer_fem

I'm a water dominant aqua and no, I wouldn't do that kind of things for just anybody. Maybe she's one of the super-sweet humanitarians, for me it would mean stepping out of my routines and comfort zone and making extra place and effort for somebody. That would be a huge sign for: I care a lot. Enjoy your time together!

Awwww yeah she is the cutest! And definitely makes time for lil ol me. Just last night.... we’ll all I’ll say is that she admitted i make her feel “lightening”’in her chest. It was the cutest thing. She is so cute and I would have held her all night if I didn’t need to work