Are Aqua's forgiving?

Are Aqua's forgiving?

of course they are. Well as people, as an individual. Yes. It helps to release any pain, suffering that's done to you in the past. To forgive yourself as much as forgiving others. Forgiving yourself because...could be many reasons.
That if someone has caused you severe harm, abuse, as an example, allowing it fester is like a disease, a cancer. Like, for example, i had forgiven my ex's, without even talking/contacting them. Just forgiveness in my heart, releases a lot, and for some invisible reason, it seems to release a lot of terrible darkness that was formed. I was by no means perfect either but wished them happiness.
You have to wish others happiness, you want them to enjoy all the rainbows of the universe, because swirling around in the darkness all the time is too painful. because like everything written in every religious transcript or philosophy, whether you can follow it or not, life is too short. It goes so very fast. Unexpectedly, next week or next year, people you love aren't here to hold you, or be with you. Life everyday close to them. You just never know.

Thank you Lisa. I ask bcus a recent turn of events has me questioning if they do-even though I know the answer. I hurt my ex Aqua and he told me I was a liar and to never contact him again. Thing is...we have put each other through more than the recent event and we have forgiven each other each time. 🙂

It depends on the person and reason. If u are in my inner circle then I might give u the benefit of the doubt. If you are not as important to me, then I cut you off.
Thats when my ice goes up.
I will give those close to me second chances, depending on what it was, but I have my limits. When im done im done. Once I reach a certain point, I ice you out. Sometimes I can even forget your name.

Posted by aqua86
i'm always pretty forgiving, as long as i believe that someone's sorry for hurting me and isn't likely to do it again. it's logical--i make mistakes and then regret them, so it's understandable if others do too.

Agreed. If one can prove they are sorry, then by all means my forgiveness is extended. Recently however it is getting harder to do such. Due to the constant heart I have for people around me (Pisces in Venus). I'm sick if people walking on me for being generous and kind natured. Not to sound conceited.

I forgive but never forget. Its amazing how easily i can forgive considering all my scorp planets, but i do. Carrying grudges is a waste of time imo, so much load for nothing. But i must be honest, there are some rare cases where i just cant forgive and have to cut them off, ie. cheating.

I don't blame others for my pain, so there's nothing to forgive there. I don't need apologies, but I may accept them out of courtesy and I'm too lazy to explain why they don't have to apologize. When I'm hurt, the only person I get angry at is myself. I don't need their apology. I need to apologize to me.

As for giving chances, everyone gets a second. Or rather, I always give myself a second chance. No more.

Its easy for me to forgive even though it makes me very awkward when ppl apologise to me I would prefer they dont piss me off in the first place its that fucking simple but yeh forgiveness is piss easy....however... my scorp moon has me as a very vindictive individual so i always exact my revenge on my ppl who seek my forgiveness somewhere down the road cos its the perfect time to get them.....nothing too sinister like spit in their sandwich or do something profound with their toothbrush. everything \s about balance with me can't stand someone having the upper hand with me...like the other day my boss yelled at me and made me feel like shit which i knew she did on purpose cos she was feeling like shit....which is fine because when i balanced the tills i did it in a way so that when she did them the next day she would be $ 50 under which would drive her crazy trying to find that money.....
what I'm getting at is if u want an aquas forgiveness be careful what u wish for mmwahahahahaahahah!!

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Thank you Lisa. I ask bcus a recent turn of events has me questioning if they do-even though I know the answer. I hurt my ex Aqua and he told me I was a liar and to never contact him again. Thing is...we have put each other through more than the recent event and we have forgiven each other each time. 🙂

You're welcome, Nikki 🙂
good luck.

Posted by coldwater
It depends on the person and reason. If u are in my inner circle then I might give u the benefit of the doubt. If you are not as important to me, then I cut you off.
Thats when my ice goes up.
I will give those close to me second chances, depending on what it was, but I have my limits. When im done im done. Once I reach a certain point, I ice you out. Sometimes I can even forget your name.

I agree with this. The Aqua I know though has never iced me out. Yet..anyway! lol

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Posted by aqua86
i'm always pretty forgiving, as long as i believe that someone's sorry for hurting me and isn't likely to do it again. it's logical--i make mistakes and then regret them, so it's understandable if others do too.

Agreed. If one can prove they are sorry, then by all means my forgiveness is extended. Recently however it is getting harder to do such. Due to the constant heart I have for people around me (Pisces in Venus). I'm sick if people walking on me for being generous and kind natured. Not to sound conceited.

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How do you "prove"?

Posted by WaterCup
I forgive but never forget. Its amazing how easily i can forgive considering all my scorp planets, but i do. Carrying grudges is a waste of time imo, so much load for nothing. But i must be honest, there are some rare cases where i just cant forgive and have to cut them off, ie. cheating.

Water-I didn't cheat 😉

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Its easy for me to forgive even though it makes me very awkward when ppl apologise to me I would prefer they dont piss me off in the first place its that fucking simple but yeh forgiveness is piss easy....however... my scorp moon has me as a very vindictive individual so i always exact my revenge on my ppl who seek my forgiveness somewhere down the road cos its the perfect time to get them.....nothing too sinister like spit in their sandwich or do something profound with their toothbrush. everything \s about balance with me can't stand someone having the upper hand with me...like the other day my boss yelled at me and made me feel like shit which i knew she did on purpose cos she was feeling like shit....which is fine because when i balanced the tills i did it in a way so that when she did them the next day she would be $ 50 under which would drive her crazy trying to find that money.....
what I'm getting at is if u want an aquas forgiveness be careful what u wish for mmwahahahahaahahah!!

LOL-reminds me of him! ;0

Nikki, in that case then ur forgiven, my princess.

Thank you doll! 🙂

What if you never blatantly lied about anything before? Then are you more inclined to forgive?

Aquarians are big on loyalty, well at least I am. I believe trust feeds into Loyalty. Its hard to have a good relationship when u introduce lying into it. It causes doubts and leads to mistrust. It also makes your partner wonder if youve lied before. Now one could argue that we have all told a "little white lie"
I am an awesome friend. With those closest around me, I tend to over give. Its in my nature and I do not mind if I feel appreciated and respected. I also, however, would like it reciprocated. Now, knowing my self worth, I definately expect my partner to acknowledge this "self worth" as well. Meaning...., if I treat u like I want to be treated and u treat me like some stranger in the streets, then I feel like u taking advantage of me. If I give you 100 percent, I want 100 percent back. If im honest with u and Im catching you in lies or a major lie, thats like you suddenly slamming on the brakes.

There are many scenerios that play into this. What u consider small might be major to him. Its all so relative to the person and situation. It all boils down to wether he feels that he wants to make it work...be it friendship or a relationship.If you have gone through worse in the past, then hopefully this will blow over and you guys can overcome this. If u have apologized then the balls in his court. I know its hard ,especially if you still have feelings for him. Try to maybe focus more on your friends to help u through it.

Posted by coldwater
Aquarians are big on loyalty, well at least I am. I believe trust feeds into Loyalty. Its hard to have a good relationship when u introduce lying into it. It causes doubts and leads to mistrust. It also makes your partner wonder if youve lied before. Now one could argue that we have all told a "little white lie"
I am an awesome friend. With those closest around me, I tend to over give. Its in my nature and I do not mind if I feel appreciated and respected. I also, however, would like it reciprocated. Now, knowing my self worth, I definately expect my partner to acknowledge this "self worth" as well. Meaning...., if I treat u like I want to be treated and u treat me like some stranger in the streets, then I feel like u taking advantage of me. If I give you 100 percent, I want 100 percent back. If im honest with u and Im catching you in lies or a major lie, thats like you suddenly slamming on the brakes.

There are many scenerios that play into this. What u consider small might be major to him. Its all so relative to the person and situation. It all boils down to wether he feels that he wants to make it work...be it friendship or a relationship.If you have gone through worse in the past, then hopefully this will blow over and you guys can overcome this. If u have apologized then the balls in his court. I know its hard ,especially if you still have feelings for him. Try to maybe focus more on your friends to help u through it.

The "lie" in question is based off a previous post of mine. I know some Aqua's (not generalizing in anyway here) are kinky when it comes to bedroom fun. After not speaking to him for a year and running into him at the gym (which he initiated conversation) we started to sleep together. To add to his-ahem-arousal, I weaved tales on how I played on our fantasies without him. At first it was exciting then he started asking alot of questions-showing a small inkling of his hurt.
I felt horrible at that point and did not continue the stories. At this point we became fwb-a first for us. The last time we were together though-was a WHOA PUT ON THE BREAKS MOMENT!

It was bittersweet, tender and the fist time in 2 years I heard him say to me, that he loved me. It was supposed to be our goodbye.

In turn he text me the following week-I ignored him. And again a few days later. I ignored him again. I replied on Sweetest Day t

this past weekend, and he in turn asked about my "fun" times.

I could not keep my secret from him anymore, so I told him the truth. He did not beleive me at first. I confirmed I was indeed telling the truth, and the next thing I know he is asking me to come over!!!

I didn't respond. After about 20 more questions-he called me a liar and told me to not contact him. I didn't. Now, the thing about me is, I would always respond to him when he told me that (I have heard this soooo many times before). But this time, I did not.

I love and respect this man, and no excuse I give will forgive what I did. On one hand I falsified my sexual actions with others to benefit him (and to keep him thinking of ME) and second, I did it to protect myself. I am the one at fault here, for hurting him.

I have already apologized....so now I be patient. Thoughts?

Cheeky-Could be short lived. With the exception of the goodbye (I was told that was it-the end *sigh I will always cherish it, tender and bittersweet for sure) but then contacted me a week later. LOL 🙂

Your not a downer 😉 If he could make up his mind, we would be in business. LOL