Okay , I am at a loss here and not sure what to do. I met my Aqua at school. We are in the same program and groups within the course we are taking. There is ALOT of sexual heat between us and we have hung out and talked on more than one occasion and had such a blast. One thing led to another and we ended up making love at my place one night and again a few nights after that. He didn't show up to school the next day and was very awkward around me the last time I saw him. I said hello and asked how he was and made a few jokes like I always did and he couldnt even look me in the eyes and kept fiddling with whatever was in his hands. The reason why I am at a loss here is because he was the one who kept telling me how much he was into me and how he really liked me. I told him that i liked him to but wasnt looking for too too much in so many words. Maybe that scared him off I dont know. But Id rather keep him as a friend than anything else. Even though there is a lot of sexual energy there I dont see myself with this person long term. But I do want to remain his friend as we have a blast together. So is this why he is acting akward ? or is there something else ? or ? I am a scorpio female by the way , what are the chances for a couple like us anyhow .
Awkward Aquarius
Also , how do I stop him from being so awkward. How do I go about this with an Aqua? What does they like /relate to ? what dont they relate to ?
I just want to do the right thing, I don't want to hurt this one I like him and I value our friendship and whatever else might happen, but more so the friendship
thanks in advance
I just want to do the right thing, I don't want to hurt this one I like him and I value our friendship and whatever else might happen, but more so the friendship
thanks in advance

Well, it all depends. If he had feelings for you BEFORE the love making session than chances are his feelings did NOT change just because the 2 of you had sex. BUT, on the other hand if the same thing is coming out of his mouth ("The sexual energy is there, but the long-term potential for a relationship is not") then he might just be acting weird because he has the natural How-men-are-after-sex syndrome OR he might be trying to hide his true feelings. With some Aquas, after the sex, their feelings for you intensify, not decrease & even though alot of women consider men to be the complete opposite (Once they hit it, they quit it), there are still some men who actually APPRECIATE a woman before AND after sex. If this guy feels the same way about you that you feel about him (if he thinks your fun & someone he wants to keep in his life as a friend) than it probably ISN'T just you he's acting funny towards. His day could've been a bad one or he could've been acting this way for the day in general towards everyone (and only you took it as a personal thing towards you). Wait a couple more days & see if the behavior continues. If it doesn't, then blow it off because normally how we feel doesn't change. But if it DOES continue, ask him (if you feel brave enough) why he's acting weird OR take his body language & his behavior as a clue that YOUR value went down to him after the sex & move on.
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