For the aquarius scardey cat

I want to know if any Aquas remember dealing with the first relationship where there was a big connection that was really frieghtening. How were you able to overcome it?

How will you overcome it?

If a connection is felt I am all for it. I actually like feeling that way. If I care about a person I have no reason to be scared. Usually I find that the feelings are mutual.

This is just a general question because it seems like some Aquas go through this when they cant get a hold of their emotions. How does someone help them through it? Do Aquas figure it out eventually?

Aquas are pretty self reliant atleast I am, If I really respect the person I will ask questions and get an outside point of view but in the end I wind up figuring things out for myself.

You cant force anything on us. It has to be on our own time. Its all about the patience of our S.O. when it comes to these matters.

I am trying to be patient. I just can't understand why he can't come out and talk about things staight up. It's kind of frustrating.

I need to try something. I guess anything is better than nothing.

If I can feel a connection with someone WAY BEFORE I expect to,I'll just run with it & go for it (especially since I know that kind of thing doesn't happen very often). Yes, it's very scary & nerve wrecking when I start feeling a connection with someone because there's 1000 things going through my mind. Does he feel the same connection with me that I'm feeling with him? Am I letting my guard down or only feeling this guy because I'm in a vulnerable stage in my life right now? Am I going against the grain by falling for him too fast? What if I'm wrong about him? And why does this guy have my undivided attention? And I can probably think of 1 million more questions that'd I'd ask myself. But I think in situations like this when there is a big connection, we still make sure that person works at least a little bit to tear down certain walls themselves, but if anything we'll put way more effort into things because of the fact that we can sense something is "different" about this particular person & even though we can be downright distant & have the most severe cases of commitment phobia ever!...we still hate the "WHAT-IFs"