Can anybody relate

Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

i dont understand what the fuck you're talking about.

please more clear/detailed.

Lol sorry was thinking a lot and trying to type haha. I have this thing where when i'm in a relationship I start thinking what if I get too close or what if this doesn't turn out good. So to keep myself from getting emotionally close I prep myself for everything. At times I rehearse in my head the thought of my significant other doing something to make me break up with them and I add in real emotions to just for the practice of it , i'll give myself tons of space until all feelings have subsided.

No. Everything ends anyway so why bother?

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

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and you associate with people like that?? That's why you're single, and she's going to be because she sounds like a stupid bitch who doesn't care about her marriage.

Lol sugarfoot wow that is so messed up I can see once married the fear would be gone haha. However once in a relationship its by any means necessary. Wolf you make it all sound so sad lol.

if you fear, then might as well just NOT get into any relationship.

why bother?? Stay SINGLE. you all keep contemplating about this and that, marriage this and that, relationship this and that....until you fall off the cliff. Stop being so damned SCARED.

you all sound like a bunch of women who are scared of men. What are they gonna do?? leave your ass?

if so, FINE. let them!!!

Lol it's not the fear of men in general because I tell them all i'm well off it's just when you give someone a chance. I hate to waste time and energy so I usually always create mind relationships if that makes sense. Oh which also notes why I am single, I think it contributes to my fear of heights going beyond and above. I somehow think this factors in on relationships or I make it to be that way, reaching new heights is scary you either go up there and jump or sit on the cliff admiring the view. I'm admiring it :p lol

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Lol it's not the fear of men in general because I tell them all i'm well off it's just when you give someone a chance. I hate to waste time and energy so I usually always create mind relationships if that makes sense. Oh which also notes why I am single, I think it contributes to my fear of heights going beyond and above. I somehow think this factors in on relationships or I make it to be that way, reaching new heights is scary you either go up there and jump or sit on the cliff admiring the view. I'm admiring it :p lol

are you the only one posting on forums? Every sun sign is doing so, and every sun sign has internet and access and reads and interacts. Stop making it about YOU. and attaching it to sign.

yeah it's best you get with certain signs....with your personality.

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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

and you associate with people like that?? That's why you're single, and she's going to be because she sounds like a stupid bitch who doesn't care about her marriage.

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Harsh.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Lol it's not the fear of men in general because I tell them all i'm well off it's just when you give someone a chance. I hate to waste time and energy so I usually always create mind relationships if that makes sense. Oh which also notes why I am single, I think it contributes to my fear of heights going beyond and above. I somehow think this factors in on relationships or I make it to be that way, reaching new heights is scary you either go up there and jump or sit on the cliff admiring the view. I'm admiring it :p lol

Or, you reach the top and build a safe, cozy, comfortable home.
Don't be afraid. Keep climbing. You can't win at life and/or love if you don't try.

Come on porpoise, jump in that wagon and let this goat pull you up the mountain. 😄

Posted by truecap

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Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

and you associate with people like that?? That's why you're single, and she's going to be because she sounds like a stupid bitch who doesn't care about her marriage.

Harsh.

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and she LOLs and laughs like marriage is NOTHING when she listens to someone that doesn't care about her marriage. ALthough, in retrospect, Ultra is leaving out alot. The woman could be getting beat up everyday in her marriage. So that could be what's going on too. But i dont trust Ultra. She seems to love aquas like a dog on a bone. And if other signs get with aquas, she gets JEALOUS.

I always felt support from her.

But that's the thing, my personality well scares my friends away 😢 , on the bright side you are so nice 🙂 may I ask what is your sun sign? haha ok ok i kid but I guess I can be a little self centered. Cap your back yay!!! Alright alright I'll get in the wagon, you're going to be a little upset I picked up weight lol.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
But that's the thing, my personality well scares my friends away 😢 , on the bright side you are so nice 🙂 may I ask what is your sun sign? haha ok ok i kid but I guess I can be a little self centered. Cap your back yay!!! Alright alright I'll get in the wagon, you're going to be a little upset I picked up weight lol.

YOU?? scare anyone. I can feel it from here. You aren't scary at all, you're too nice.

*huffs and puffs*

hahahahaha!!!

🙂

Posted by truecap
I always felt support from her.

all i feel is suffocation and cloyingness and desiring the aquarius men.

If i were a man, jesus christ...RUN!!!!!

*_* (yelling from the top of the mountain: I must repay you someday). And I know I said the same thing most think i'm crazy the other girls are jealous and the others call me dingy I don't get it.

Posted by WolfMoon
No. Everything ends anyway so why bother?

Spoken like a {TRUE} Pseudo-Aquarius w/ *CAP* Moon

xD

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

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LOL! So true! Being in a relationship with aqua is like being on survivor. That's not a good thing though 😢

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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

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I think like this. It's life strategy, no? If I'm unhappy or can foresee a possibility of something going wrong I take precautions. As insensitive as taking out a life insurance policy on a spouse is, it's still done. I think she's smart and less likely to be angry at divorce. You just know that life goes on cut out the drama. I think it a tactic to desensitize oneself from hurt.

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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

LOL! So true! Being in a relationship with aqua is like being on survivor. That's not a good thing though 😢

I've thought it must be really exhausting to always be trying to be one step (or a few steps) ahead of everyone. That's why I think air signs could do well with earth people. They can provide a feeling of stability we have difficulty finding within ourselves.

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That's reassuring to hear. 🙂

Ewww I can't do that I will stick to the whims of air, but did I mention I contradict myself because I love Truecap she is the only one I make an exception for and shes my bestfriend 🙂. But I never seem to make friends with earth signs as much I never bump into them just alot of sags just met 3 libras and scorps.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Ewww I can't do that I will stick to the whims of air, but did I mention I contradict myself because I love Truecap she is the only one I make an exception for and shes my bestfriend 🙂. But I never seem to make friends with earth signs as much I never bump into them just alot of sags just met 3 libras and scorps.

Awwww! I like you too. 🙂

And I'm always drawn to aquas - I have lots and lots of aqua friends. I like that you guys are your own person. It inspires me! Most of my aqua friends have a quirky sense of humor and I just adore that. And they (and Sags) are the only ones who appreciate my goofy sense of humor.

Hummm yeah I've been screwing up alot of perfect opportunities now I feel bad about it. and 😄, I look forward to hearing some jokes or a funny story soon I love funny stories

Omg me too, I feel relieved now haha. So it's true aqua minds think alike. I am now re-enacting hanging out with my leeb pal Friday.Is it weird I played the scene over 3 times haha (take 4, action!)

Ok now that's weird, I play future trips in my head all the time & I end up not going because of that. It's like I've already been there hence I don't see the point of going. I tell my friends, "Don't tell me where or what we will be doing or I'll lose interest". If we are going to an amusement park, I'll imagine myself screaming on one of the rides etc, after that all the excitement about the real thing will be gone.

Now with mind trips like those I agree, if someone tells me were going to the movies, already having saw a preview I know how the movie will end or at least I think making me not want to go. However unless they say were going on a hot air balloon to deleware my interest will stay the same lol. But I always find myself enacting terrible situations more :p.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Now with mind trips like those I agree, if someone tells me were going to the movies, already having saw a preview I know how the movie will end or at least I think making me not want to go. However unless they say were going on a hot air balloon to deleware my interest will stay the same lol. But I always find myself enacting terrible situations more :p.

I'm not an aquarius sun but I absolutely do the same thing

Another thing is I have a habit of thinking what's the whole point of getting married to that special someone when there's always going to be a better guy out there for me . . . gets to me all the time

I'm that girl who always question life

I question a lot of things even marriage, but I do know if I get married it's a all or nothing there is no leaving haha I will make sure to be the best darn wife possible.

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Am I the only person who goes around once in a relationship the fear of getting closer/termination I rehearse breakup scenarios in my head. Lol I know you're thinking sick and cruel no I actually rehearse them doing something to end it, is it weird I also add in real emotions.. Scene 1, take 450 ..action!

Lol..my aqua friend does that. She'll discuss situations in which she and her husband might get divorced all the time. She already has a plan in place if she decides to leave. What apt she'll take, what she'll do with her half, etc. Meanwhile he's totally oblivious. I told her being in a relationship with her is like being a contestant on survivor. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Lol

LOL! So true! Being in a relationship with aqua is like being on survivor. That's not a good thing though 😢

I've thought it must be really exhausting to always be trying to be one step (or a few steps) ahead of everyone. That's why I think air signs could do well with earth people. They can provide a feeling of stability we have difficulty finding within ourselves.

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I agree, but the only earth sign I'd pick for myself is Capri because I find Taurean men too possessive and virgos are the worst for me.