what is normal contact with aqua male??

Hi all..

Some have given me such great advise on these boards before..thanks

Question...what is typical communication like with Aqua male?? Texts/calls...I am asking about how often?? Daily?? Weekly??

What are your experiences??

Thanks

Posted by ex2mommy
Hi all..

Some have given me such great advise on these boards before..thanks

Question...what is typical communication like with Aqua male?? Texts/calls...I am asking about how often?? Daily?? Weekly??

What are your experiences??

Thanks

nothing it typical with aquas??_??_the only thing I would say is don't be surprised that when an aqua has had enough with talking via txts or phones they will hang up and give some excuse next time you call them

Been with him almost a year...it started out as contact once a week MAYBE two days at the most.

Thanks

I hear from mine every day. It might just be a five minute text session or a two hour one or a phone call or we hang out in person. Depends on what we have going on.

I am always myself...an aqua at that.

I just have a hard time with someone who only wants to text a week at a time. I saw him last Friday...left Saturday morning..have text 2x and nothing.

He says people complain about that all of the time with him...well get a clue.

He has admitted to liking me...gee after almost a year...I would hope so.

I was just seeing if anyone else experiences this with them. If its normal. I know aquas are distant..but wow.

He blew up my phone last Thursday because I was sick and sleeping...even called which NEVER happens...I just don't know nor do I know how to approach it. I know he is busy...but who isn't.

When I was with the Aqua, it was several times a day. Long conversations too. Via text (neither of us were phone people, because we were both introverts who communicate better in writing than in speaking).

But I spent 3-4 days a week with him, including all weekends.

Mine was a Pisces Venus, but still, if a guy can't be bothered to contact you at least every other day (at absolute minimum), he's probably not as interested in you as he should be.

I think I've read on here before that if they're into you, they will contact you more and won't ignore your texts. But, ehhh...there's a lot of difference between an earthy aqua (mine), a watery aqua or an airy aqua.

I'm an "earthy" aqua, there's a lot of capricorn in my chart plus Virgo moon, and I will not ignore when my gf texts me unless:

1) I am in the middle of something (working)

Or

2) it's late at night and I'm in my bed trying to sleep.

3) I'm in class.

Otherwise I'm good about getting back to her through texts.

Omg OP don't you have anything better to do than sitting around wondering & counting how many times a man has text you? Get your life, because he is obviously getting his. This shit is so trivial in the grand scheme of things, seriously...

If I like you I will keep communication flowing and everyday. The MINUTE that seizes there is a BIG problem and usually with my interest level in you..

I know many Aquas Moons. They like constant communication. The Suns can be more aloof. But that is my experience.

Then, "most" men, if truly interested, will talk to you one way or another at a constant ratio unless seriously busy with meetings and traveling in air etc

Also, I have my style of wanting to do things and have learned that when people start new relationships, friendly or romantic, there will be a "baseline" of communication between all of them. Some are happy with 1x/week and others like 134.8x/day but I won't deviate much from my style because I think there is too much of a difference in what we like then. If a man I meet only wants to talk to me 1-2x/week I will have a problem with that since I like to talk to him daily. I will make this clear in the very beginning. If I have to sit around and guess I will get bored in half a nano second.

I messaged him yesterday, he read it and didnt reply back (why did I bother lol)

i think it depends on the guy and what he has going on, i've known him even aqua men no matter how important you are to them, if they have an immediate thing they need to do they won't answer until they aren't busy but by then they have forgotten you texted them LOL.

So morale of the story is just live your life whether you are dating him or not...if he contacts you then he does etc.

Posted by Angeleyes17
I messaged him yesterday, he read it and didnt reply back (why did I bother lol)

Rule #1. expect the unexpected when dating an Aqua man and never assume anything.

Rule #2. Don't take things personally or over-analyse anything. He'll have so many things going on in his mind that you may think that you're being ignored but he's just got other stuff on his mind

Rule #3. If you don't have A LOT of patience do not date an Aqua man!!!!!!!!!

I've been with my Aqua boyfriend for over a year and although I'm Aqua myself I never know what's going in his head and it's a waste time trying to figure him out.

He may not contract you every day or even every week buy if an Aqua man is truly into you, you'll know it!

Posted by Aquariusgirluk

Posted by Angeleyes17
I messaged him yesterday, he read it and didnt reply back (why did I bother lol)

Rule #1. expect the unexpected when dating an Aqua man and never assume anything.

Rule #2. Don't take things personally or over-analyse anything. He'll have so many things going on in his mind that you may think that you're being ignored but he's just got other stuff on his mind

Rule #3. If you don't have A LOT of patience do not date an Aqua man!!!!!!!!!

thanks hun.. il keep this in mind.. iv learnt in time to be patient but sometimes, i can have an odd moment hehe

I've been with my Aqua boyfriend for over a year and although I'm Aqua myself I never know what's going in his head and it's a waste time trying to figure him out.

He may not contract you every day or even every week buy if an Aqua man is truly into you, you'll know it!

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lol...I've had the odd moment too but then I kick myself for getting so worked up over what turns out to be nothing.

Posted by Aquariusgirluk
lol...I've had the odd moment too but then I kick myself for getting so worked up over what turns out to be nothing.

Same here. I've learned to have faith in him.