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Aquarius and affair
Aquarius and Extramarital Affairs What You Need to Know
Aquarius individuals are generally known for their loyalty, but they can be tempted by connections that feel right. If involved in an affair, they may struggle with conflicting feelings and moral dilemmas. Choosing to confess, end the affair, or keep it secret depends on personal values and circumstances. Understanding Aquarius traits can help navigate these situations better.
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Ummmm I'd def. confess.
I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology though
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.
They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.
no qualms 🙂
Ahh geez...
An already
Hey feby 🙂
Aquas go in the direction of whatever stimulates them at the time. It's not the fact that she's taken that excites him. It's the fact that she somehow stimulates him that draws him close to her. People who are taken don't suddenly lose their ability to stimulate others (especially intellectually) just b/c they're in a relationship/marriage
Now what you do with that lust for stimulation is on the individual Aquarius. Some catch themselves & turn away before boundaries and lines are crossed.
Others keep going until the stimulation ends (right at the beginning/middle of the affair or after drama or consequences from the affair arrive)
Posted by aquapiscescusp
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.
It's a disgusting habit of men, who are UNHAPPY in their current relationship or if they are single and find another man's woman so tiltillating and exciting.
I definitely see it in real life -- just going to the supermarket or anywhere you'd think you'd be safe and men even see the wedding ring and they still go, "ohh wow HOT! mm babydoll." or something disgusting like that.
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?
We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.
Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
I'm sure they're out there
But it's hard for me to imagine an unfaithful Aquarius lol
We take relationships so seriously
We don't need relationships to feel secure in life. Yeah we need intimacy & a sense of companionship like everybody else, but if you guys haven't noticed nowadays most people can & are getting "marriage benefits" from people they're just friends or F buddies with lol
After all the emotional battles Aquarians go through just to fall in love with you & make it official with you, I just can't see an Aquarian screwing themselves & messing all that up
1 of Aquarian's best traits is to use their "2 steps ahead of the game" thinking. Hell 1 of the things that annoys others about Aquarians is their inability to fall, move or make decisions on impulse like others want them to lol
They know the grass isn't greener on the other side. All their wisdom doesn't just come from times when they fell hard on their own azz. Some of it comes from observing others & learning from the mistakes others have made to ensure that they themselves don't ever make that mistake.
Aquas know that affairs are counterproductive to all parties involved. They know this
Just can't imagine an Aquarius losing the battle to temptation or impulse. Can't imagine an Aqua putting in all that emotional work into someone just to purposely or impulsively mess it up. It's hard enough as it is for an Aqua to move on cue even when they do feel that it's right to do so lol
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?
Just can't see it lol sorry
Posted by krysrenee7
Ummmm I'd def. confess.I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology though
Posted by krysrenee7
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?Just can't see it lol sorry
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Though in all seriousness, I would like to think that I'm one the good guys. Honest, upright and all that jazz. But honestly, I think it just takes the right/wrong person to bring out the devil inside.
Also there's this saying I heard once...
"Words are cheap. The biggest thing you can say is 'elephant'." ?? Charles Chaplin
^^^ Ooo nice quote! I'm def. stealing that!
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
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sounds like double standards....and having your cake and eating it too. Well he'll get his alright...KARMA!!! you don't hurt other people like that.
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?
Maintain, hell no! End the affair.
Confession brings the person who's being cheated on a great deal of pain and rips families apart. Yet, the person who's being cheated on has a right to know their partner is a selfish, lying piece of shit who has broken that sacred trust and betrayed them in the worst way.
Confess. Let the partner do what they need to do what's best for them. Who wants to be with someone that is not 100% into a marriage/relationship.
I end my current ordeal and jump to the other ship.
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?Maintain, hell no! End the affair.
Confession brings the person who's being cheated on a great deal of pain and rips families apart. Yet, the person who's being cheated on has a right to know their partner is a selfish, lying piece of shit who has broken that sacred trust and betrayed them in the worst way.
Confess. Let the partner do what they need to do what's best for them. Who wants to be with someone that is not 100% into a marriage/relationship.
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That sounds harsh, but my scorpio venus takes over sometimes. 🙂
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.
Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same timeFOH
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LMAO on high school. Although you have a valid anecdote, but when I speak, I mean grown adults as in 18+ because almost everyone does stupid things in high
school. Teen years aren't called the roughest years of one's life for nothing. Everyone is experimenting and learning.
when i am in a relationship, i simply don't notice the others. what i mean is that maybe there is sth wrong with your current marriage/relationship since you've allowed yourself to develop feelings for sb else. and it is there where you have to start from...your relationship....end it or mend it...it's up to you but an affair...no...that would lower your standards way too much. you'd be nothing but a cheater...in front of yourself first of all...
I had an affair once. It was the same girl and we hooked up twice.
I felt guilty and confessed to my girlfriend about it.
She cried and I felt bad for doing it. Even though we stayed together after it happened I'm not going to do it again. Why bother? I see it's better to either a) leave the person you're with to be with the other or b) don't do it.
Posted by Bsmurray
I had an affair once. It was the same girl and we hooked up twice.I felt guilty and confessed to my girlfriend about it.
She cried and I felt bad for doing it. Even though we stayed together after it happened I'm not going to do it again. Why bother? I see it's better to either a) leave the person you're with to be with the other or b) don't do it.
I like your honesty.
Posted by krysrenee7
Ummmm I'd def. confess.
I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology thoughPosted by krysrenee7
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?
Just can't see it lol sorryThough in all seriousness, I would like to think that I'm one the good guys. Honest, upright and all that jazz. But honestly, I think it just takes the right/wrong person to bring out the devil inside. Also there's this saying I heard once...
"Words are cheap. The biggest thing you can say is 'elephant'." ?? Charles ChaplinGlad to see my head isn't the only head being blown right now. Almost every aqua I know, man and woman has had affairs. I had no idea Aquas had a rep for being loyal. Since when? How'd I miss that? I've had married Aquas or aquas in relationships approach me several times. Smh. I think krysrenee is right on point when she says the temptation is from mental stimulation. That's a huge motivator for cheating Aquas I know.
To the OP, just end it with the person you're with. Tell them you met someone else. The truth shall set you free.And, before anybody gets all upset, I'm not bashing Aquas here. I just never realized they had a reputation for being any more loyal than any other sign. It's also not my experience with them.click to expand
Ultra, you've been LOVING and WANTING and desiring for an aquarius man for years now. You're as transparant as day. But i notice they don't want you. Maybe it's time for you to stop PINING after people who don't want you.
so fucking transparant. You put them down all the time, and there's plenty of real life aquarius men that are loyal and don't cheat. But you put them down because YOU have a problem with them and they have NEVER wanted you back, because obviously you'd be with one now. But NOOOO...the truth hurts doesn't it?
what pisses me the fuck off is that these so-called aquarius men these women complain about, (which is in almost every forum and sign) is that they aren't HONEST with the women.
they don't tell them straight OFF and hurt them right away. Tell them "I DO NOT WANT YOU!!!GET OVER IT"
but no....because by them doing so, the woman will cry and fret and be hurt. They don't want to hurt the women's feelings (this is going on all the signs i notice) but if you do that....GUESS WHAT??
you are only siphoning off the energies and feelings of people you do NOT want.
If you're MAN enough to tell them straight : NO i do not want you, then tell them, and don't lead them on.
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.
I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.
In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?
Posted by truecap
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.
In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?
I dont know why alot of these women have NO SELF RESPECT for themselves. If the men were HONEST with them and kind from the beginning...they take that "TINY" bit of KINDNESS even when they're HONEST saying, "NO, it's not happening, i'm sorry." But these women feel like they are going to be "THE ONE" ....
Stop fooling yourself!!! If the man wanted you, he'd be with you, asking you to marry him, planning a future with you ect.
I don't just see this with aqua men, I see it with ALL the men in every forum.
it's only because they want to "MANIPULATE" the situation and make them theirs.
they LOVE the energy and looks, personality, background, EVERY damned thing about that person...
it's a DESIRE. They can't help themselves.
Trust me. I know what's it like on my end with guys in the past. But I tell them straight: NO!
I've tried kindness, but that doesn't work either. Because kindness just gives them an "opening" that...
"Oh...she doesn't mean that now, because i'll make sure she likes me more...."
So i do understand where these men are coming from in some kind of way. But at least put your FOOT DOWN.
if they are looked at as assholes and jerks, THE BETTER. At least , you're a douchbag and a jerk and they will leave you the hell alone.
Posted by backtokemet
@aquarius09: you seem to always find excuses for your astro siblingsif the OP was a LIBRA, I believe she'd have gotten that brutal honesty of yours not the soft-spoken, motherly version .. but I'm merely assuming 🙂
out of curiosity: what is Ashton K. excuse for cheating on Demi ? he has an AQUARIUS stellium (sun, moon, mercury & venus) + mars in CANCER
of all the people to bring up. You want to focus on the dumb ass ones. what about Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel?? Or the Aquarius men I posted who are with Taurus women.
Or even the Aquarius men with scorpio women like Rebecca Romijn and Jerry O'Donnell, ect.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.
It's a disgusting habit of men, who are UNHAPPY in their current relationship or if they are single and find another man's woman so tiltillating and exciting.
I definitely see it in real life -- just going to the supermarket or anywhere you'd think you'd be safe and men even see the wedding ring and they still go, "ohh wow HOT! mm babydoll." or something disgusting like that.
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LOL But you fail to mention how the woman is also being bad by not saying "Well I'm in a committed relationship and I'm loyal "
also a good amount of girls default to " I have a boy friend " even if they don't for whatever reasons or pre judgements
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.
Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
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Spoken like a TRUE Aquarius
and yeah the only unfaithful Aquarius's are those that have moon in capricorn, mercury in capricorn moon in scorpio.. moon in cancer.. moon in libra
IE The Pseudo Aquarius's.. often they are also January Aquariuses [which is Capricorns month ]
ETC ^
Posted by aquapiscescusp
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.
They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.It's a disgusting habit of men, who are UNHAPPY in their current relationship or if they are single and find another man's woman so tiltillating and exciting.
I definitely see it in real life -- just going to the supermarket or anywhere you'd think you'd be safe and men even see the wedding ring and they still go, "ohh wow HOT! mm babydoll." or something disgusting like that.You seem to suspiciously be taking a HUGE interest in Aquarius i notice.
LOL But you fail to mention how the woman is also being bad by not saying "Well I'm in a committed relationship and I'm loyal "
also a good amount of girls default to " I have a boy friend " even if they don't for whatever reasons or pre judgements
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You seem to suspiciously be taking a HUGE interest in Aquarius i notice.
and what's not to say we didn't say anything?
Do you all want us to wear Burkas so they don't say or do anything to women in the supermarkets.
you're lying. you said you were with a cancer last year and now cap? Jesus. whatever. do your own thing.
Posted by Sugarfoot
I'm not lying. I was with a cancer last year. I was with him for 1.5 years. We broke up. Four mos later I began dating my cap. We've been together for 9 mos yesterday. Does it seem unreasonable to you that someone could be dating one person and later date someone else? Anything other questions—
well hopefully you stick to this one for a long time.
till you're blue in the face. Relationships are not easy work you know. Don't run out just because you don't like something or whatever it is you find unideal to your head. use your heart and stick with it.
and i hope you treat him good.
Posted by Sugarfoot
You don't have a clue what happened in my past relationship Lisa. You don't have an inkling of an idea how hard I tried to make that relationship work or how much I cared. I would love if this relationship worked out for the long haul. He's a great guy.I do my best to treat everyone good. And, I truly do hope that you feel better. I noticed on another thread that we are both ISTJ's. You seem to have a similar coping mechanism as me. I don't know what's going on in your life, but everything does pass with time.
i know what you're trying to do. You and i are NOTHING alike.
you want to know what's going on in my life and to be honest, it's TOO perfect. I love it very much, and that's why i come here on my free time. To help people out sometimes. but it sometimes gets on my nerves too at times. It's a good thing i don't have to deal with real life people too much, except my family.
if you have a good life, there's always room to help others out in their own tiny way.
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.
Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
Spoken like a TRUE Aquarius
and yeah the only unfaithful Aquarius's are those that have moon in capricorn, mercury in capricorn moon in scorpio.. moon in cancer.. moon in libra
IE The Pseudo Aquarius's.. often they are also January Aquariuses [which is Capricorns month ]
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Are you saying the capricorn influences equate to a higher chance of an aquarius being unfaithful? Sorry, but capricorn is a a very loyal sign.
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.
Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same timeFOH
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"maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
" this is literally the only reason I Would do that :O
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
FOHsounds like double standards....and having your cake and eating it too. Well he'll get his alright...KARMA!!! you don't hurt other people like that.
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Coming from you this doesn't mean much LOL
Sigh the hypocrisy in the ISFJs... Your not a T derp
Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂
oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
FOHsounds like double standards....and having your cake and eating it too. Well he'll get his alright...KARMA!!! you don't hurt other people like that.
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Coming from you this doesn't mean much LOL
Sigh the hypocrisy in the ISFJs... You are not a T derp
you have an unusual obsession with us. You are probably in a different account and you're trolling me because I pissed you off in another account. I'm so glad i made such HUGE impression on you so much it made you so intensely eager to obsess over it. lmao! if you felt indifference over me, it wouldn't have mattered, but you can't do it can you?
I dated a scorpio, a virgo, a cancer, a capricon. They all cheated on me.
I had 3 aquarius guy friends that 2 are cheating on the girlfriends.
It's true there will be someone bring out your devil side. I believe it happens a lot. But, there is only one person can bring out your angel side 😛
Though, this person can only be proved by the time you die..
Posted by aqulibini
confession can actually save a relationship. on the other hand, just continuing to deceive until the partner discovers on their own is worse..ask me!when this guy cheated on me, i found out after months of suspicion..and till date he makes excuses and fails to own his deed. this disgusts me more and makes me feel if he is not being honest now, he will never be.
He seems to be afraid that if he does admit, there won't be any chance of the relationship to continue..but no! thats the biggest mistake one can make. he could actually be given a second chance if he had come up straight, apologized and swear not to do it again. but till date he hasn't, which disgusts me even more. and now he has closed all the doors on himself. too late even if he confesses now.
my advice, confess before its too late, u will at least get the points for being honest. but if he/she finds out later somehow, and he will...u have nothing in ur favour, neither loyalty nor honesty. also, confession can actually strengthen the bond, and make it easier to resist the other person.
" and swear not to do it again. " wat
Posted by krysrenee7
Ummmm I'd def. confess.I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology though
Posted by krysrenee7
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?Just can't see it lol sorry
Though in all seriousness, I would like to think that I'm one the good guys. Honest, upright and all that jazz. But honestly, I think it just takes the right/wrong person to bring out the devil inside.
Also there's this saying I heard once...
"Words are cheap. The biggest thing you can say is 'elephant'." ?? Charles Chaplin
Glad to see my head isn't the only head being blown right now. Almost every aqua I know, man and woman has had affairs. I had no idea Aquas had a rep for being loyal. Since when? How'd I miss that? I've had married Aquas or aquas in relationships approach me several times. Smh. I think krysrenee is right on point when she says the temptation is from mental stimulation. That's a huge motivator for cheating Aquas I know.
To the OP, just end it with the person you're with. Tell them you met someone else. The truth shall set you free.
And, before anybody gets all upset, I'm not bashing Aquas here. I just never realized they had a reputation for being any more loyal than any other sign. It's also not my experience with them.
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" The truth shall set you free." WAT... #ThatAwkwardMomentWhenYouThinkYourASagBecauseYourMoonIsSag
ROFL
" I've had married Aquas or aquas in relationships approach me several times. Smh. "
Bitch please stop trying to flatter your ego.. god Libras are so narcissistic, feminine and indulgent in food and drink... just like an earth sign
Posted by Bsmurray
I had an affair once. It was the same girl and we hooked up twice.I felt guilty and confessed to my girlfriend about it.
She cried and I felt bad for doing it. Even though we stayed together after it happened I'm not going to do it again. Why bother? I see it's better to either a) leave the person you're with to be with the other or b) don't do it.
Definitely Scorpio.. I foresee you doing it again... perhaps even soon
Posted by lisabethur8
so fucking transparant. You put them down all the time, and there's plenty of real life aquarius men that are loyal and don't cheat. But you put them down because YOU have a problem with them and they have NEVER wanted you back, because obviously you'd be with one now. But NOOOO...the truth hurts doesn't it?
^ Lol...
honestly this is the truth but it's just so much funnier when you say it LOL
I don't like libras At all 🙂
Posted by lisabethur8
what pisses me the fuck off is that these so-called aquarius men these women complain about, (which is in almost every forum and sign) is that they aren't HONEST with the women.
they don't tell them straight OFF and hurt them right away. Tell them "I DO NOT WANT YOU!!!GET OVER IT"but no....because by them doing so, the woman will cry and fret and be hurt. They don't want to hurt the women's feelings (this is going on all the signs i notice) but if you do that....GUESS WHAT??
you are only siphoning off the energies and feelings of people you do NOT want.
If you're MAN enough to tell them straight : NO i do not want you, then tell them, and don't lead them on.
lost me here but I'm pretty sure I don't fit the bill of these negs 😕
Posted by truecap
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.
In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?
This is so true 😢 ...... lol
kinda funny really
Posted by truecap
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.
In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?
I dont know why alot of these women have NO SELF RESPECT for themselves. If the men were HONEST with them and kind from the beginning...they take that "TINY" bit of KINDNESS even when they're HONEST saying, "NO, it's not happening, i'm sorry." But these women feel like they are going to be "THE ONE" ....
Stop fooling yourself!!! If the man wanted you, he'd be with you, asking you to marry him, planning a future with you ect.
I don't just see this with aqua men, I see it with ALL the men in every forum.
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lol wat?
anyways in your world view it's a gender thing
and I can personally confirm that gender plays a role but
Astrological gender is far superior
seriously moody men? That isn't masculine at all.. oh wait its a Scorpio/Cancer/Cap/Pisces/Libra/Virgo/Taurus
ahh now it makes sense ... or moon in ^ ... etc
Posted by backtokemet
@aquarius09: you seem to always find excuses for your astro siblingsif the OP was a LIBRA, I believe she'd have gotten that brutal honesty of yours not the soft-spoken, motherly version .. but I'm merely assuming 🙂
out of curiosity: what is Ashton K. excuse for cheating on Demi ? he has an AQUARIUS stellium (sun, moon, mercury & venus) + mars in CANCER
I'll tell you what the answer
She is an OLD SCORPIO
basically
Posted by backtokemet
@aquarius09: you seem to always find excuses for your astro siblingsif the OP was a LIBRA, I believe she'd have gotten that brutal honesty of yours not the soft-spoken, motherly version .. but I'm merely assuming 🙂
out of curiosity: what is Ashton K. excuse for cheating on Demi ? he has an AQUARIUS stellium (sun, moon, mercury & venus) + mars in CANCER
of all the people to bring up. You want to focus on the dumb ass ones. what about Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel?? Or the Aquarius men I posted who are with Taurus women.
Or even the Aquarius men with scorpio women like Rebecca Romijn and Jerry O'Donnell, ect.
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— lol what... Ashton is smarter then timberlake
also Mercury in Aquarius in 9 > Pisces mercury [nevermind the fact that sun is in 7 + mercury too probably ] but definitely not 6,3,9, or 11 [the INT houses ]
whattttttttttttttttt
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One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?