Did he tell me he's in my city for a reason?

What It Means When He Says He's in Your City

When he mentions being in your city, it could indicate interest in meeting up or testing the waters for connection. Pay attention to his tone and actions to understand if he genuinely wants to see you or if he's just passing through. Context and communication are key to interpreting his intentions accurately.

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Posted by lagyaal
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Maybe he wants to get together. You made a peace offering, he's reciprocating. Either that or he's thinking the door is open for a hook-up.


Maybe, but I don't think so. He was the one who said he didn't want to rush things and agreed that we should wait to have sex (at the time lol).

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Well then, it's probably like bumboklatt said. Just saying he'll be around if you want to hang.

Sounds like maybe he's wanting to bury the hatchet.
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Posted by bumboklatt
If hes an Aqua he prob wont mind a sudden hangout. Chances are he's saying "im here if it happens, it happens"

thats what I would say

unless the breakup was traumatizing AF hahaha
Luckily it wasn't. It was over something really stupid to be honest. I was kind of shocked that he wasn't so receptive to my apology. Neither one of had done anything wrong in our relationship so I thought he would've been at least somewhat open to trying again...
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Posted by lagyaal
Posted by bumboklatt
If hes an Aqua he prob wont mind a sudden hangout. Chances are he's saying "im here if it happens, it happens"

thats what I would say

unless the breakup was traumatizing AF hahaha
Luckily it wasn't. It was over something really stupid to be honest. I was kind of shocked that he wasn't so receptive to my apology. Neither one of had done anything wrong in our relationship so I thought he would've been at least somewhat open to trying again...
a yeah he sees your apologizing to him as a "weakness" cold aquas do that. Time will tell unfortunately
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Wait, even if you're clearly in the wrong and you messed up apologizing is seen as a weakness?

He said everything was fine when clearly they weren't so I backed off. He started to randomly start posting pictures with girls while he was out the very next week. Then all of a sudden the next week absolutely nothing on social media and that's when I ran into his roommate who said he'd been kind of acting weird and withdrawn.
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Posted by lagyaal
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Posted by sultrykitty
Maybe he wants to get together. You made a peace offering, he's reciprocating. Either that or he's thinking the door is open for a hook-up.




He knows I live with my parents. I highly doubt that he wants to try and hook up.

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Right. Because the only place you can bump uglies is inside your house when your parents are at home.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by lagyaal
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by sultrykitty
Maybe he wants to get together. You made a peace offering, he's reciprocating. Either that or he's thinking the door is open for a hook-up.




He knows I live with my parents. I highly doubt that he wants to try and hook up.


Right. Because the only place you can bump uglies is inside your house when your parents are at home.

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Right. Between him suggesting that we hold off on sex and him knowing I wouldn't have sex in a car, again I highly doubt he said he was in my city to have sex in his car.