Aquas and rejecting people

After reading another thread about aquas ans rejection I'm curious to know, how do you go about rejecting someone?

I was told aquas are passive about doing this and won't tell you upfront if they no longer want to see you.

I mean someone that you've been very interested in but feel as though things aren't working out and you want to end things how do you go about doing that?

They ghost

At one point, my SO had his friend tell me, lol.

Posted by bumboklatt

Hahaha. So y'all wouldn't tell the person upfront that you've been dating you're not interested anymore? that's terrible lol.

Would you still respond to their messages if they reached out to you?

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I tell them to delete ALL our photos.

thought only norwegian caps did that

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Posted by bumboklatt

Hahaha. So y'all wouldn't tell the person upfront that you've been dating you're not interested anymore? that's terrible lol.

Would you still respond to their messages if they reached out to you?

Have you ever been on any drug that lowers your emotional input?

well thats how we feel all the time. So NO and NO we wouldn't tell them

WHY? because we don't understand feelings like the rest of the signs do. So if we say something like "I don't think we should be together" our mind tells us we CAN be together so we SHOULD be together.

So we don't use the word WANT we just WONT or CANT

why? because freedom is our lover, we can resort to her for anything and we dont need anyone

Aquarius understands

CAN, CANT, YES, NO, NEED, WILL, TRY

Aquarius doesent understand

Shouldnt, Should, WANT, FEEL, TIME, TACT

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you feel this way even with your notorious scorp moon? thats gotta be a pretty powerful sun to override it. looks like scorpio finally met its match

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Posted by missmissy

Posted by bumboklatt

Hahaha. So y'all wouldn't tell the person upfront that you've been dating you're not interested anymore? that's terrible lol.

Would you still respond to their messages if they reached out to you?

Have you ever been on any drug that lowers your emotional input?

well thats how we feel all the time. So NO and NO we wouldn't tell them

WHY? because we don't understand feelings like the rest of the signs do. So if we say something like "I don't think we should be together" our mind tells us we CAN be together so we SHOULD be together.

So we don't use the word WANT we just WONT or CANT

why? because freedom is our lover, we can resort to her for anything and we dont need anyone

Aquarius understands

CAN, CANT, YES, NO, NEED, WILL, TRY

Aquarius doesent understand

Shouldnt, Should, WANT, FEEL, TIME, TACT

you feel this way even with your notorious scorp moon? thats gotta be a pretty powerful sun to override it. looks like scorpio finally met its match

interesting you point that out, I've battled with those two placements all my life

and to make it tougher Sun is in 5th(LEO) house and Scorp is in 2nd(Taurus) House

my decisions are conflicted but overall I agree with the Aqua cause its who I really am at heart

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sounds tough man. its also kinda rare to see someone on these boards not put their scorp bits on a pedestal but prioritize their sun lol. take it easy bud

The thing I hate about people is that they objectify you, even more so when youre detatched and aloof in your own little world like a snow globe, people want to own you like youre some sort of novel commodity and the second you say "no thanks" they get offended that an inanimate object is rejecting them and they throw you aside for the next one....

Everyone is like this so I play them, I dont say yes but I dont say no to avoid seeing their ugly side.

Depends on the aqua. My bestie is a aqua sun and sag moon. She's very self-centred so she'll give an ambiguous rejection so that the person is left with some hope. She enjoys people chasing her. She doesn't care who is chasing her. She derives pleasure just from being chased by anyone.

I'm a double aqua and I do to others as I want done onto me. I tell a person in simple, clear English that I'm not interested in them like that. I can be harsh if the person has become a source of annoyance, but my initial reaction is a gentle clear cut rejection. I don't care to lead people on. I'm don't care for chase either. I think interest is either mutual or it's nothing.