Things people do that push you away?

I've legit disappeared from people's lives from one day to another because I simply decided I didn't wanna be friends/date them anymore and I'm just wondering if that's because I'm an Aqua and how are other signs when it comes to being patient lol because I know for sure we aren't much. But yeah I'm fucking gone if people lie or hide things, take advantage of me, are mean to other people/animals or aren't educated, always do the same shit/don't put effort into things when it seems like we're stuck and it's not going forward or it's always the same talks, dates, whatever or are too clingy (I don't mind clingy much because I can be a bit clingy myself but some people are just too much)

Anyways just curious. what are your sun/mars/venus signs?

Continually ghosting

Sag sun, sag Venus, scorp mars

Aries Sun - Scorpio moon

Ordinary superficial people

I can disappear from time to time. It depends on why they could have done something or I just fade away. *shrugs*

Sun - pisces

mars - leo

venus - taurus

I must have the last word and than im gone.. For good!

Libra sun, virgo venus, sag mars

Posted by Lovely20
I've legit disappeared from people's lives from one day to another because I simply decided I didn't wanna be friends/date them anymore and I'm just wondering if that's because I'm an Aqua and how are other signs when it comes to being patient lol because I know for sure we aren't much. But yeah I'm fucking gone if people lie or hide things, take advantage of me, are mean to other people/animals or aren't educated, always do the same shit/don't put effort into things when it seems like we're stuck and it's not going forward or it's always the same talks, dates, whatever or are too clingy (I don't mind clingy much because I can be a bit clingy myself but some people are just too much)

Anyways just curious. what are your sun/mars/venus signs?

I like people who are good people and try hard to avoid the rest. I don't rule out someone who isn't education because they can still be a good person and I enjoy talking to anyone who is good. I had a bf for 40 years and it went sour - she started acting strange toward me and then when I confronted her gently, she blew up and twisted so much around to say I was the one that changed and then she continued to go back years shouting grievances I never even realized she had so wtf - gone. I asked her to meet me half way to try to re-establish some boundaries so that the friendship could move forward and perhaps be even better but she refused and kept telling me I had to come to her house. I wonder now what really was that friendship all about because I don't feel like we really even knew each other. It seemed that all she ever wanted to do was get together and party (and we sure did have fun) and sweep problems under the carpet. Well I started tripping over that carpet and wanted something deeper and cleaner ha - but she just wanted to stay in denial and I could not hang. Toward the end she was so hateful and said she was a victim lol - whatever. And then she said she would be there in 2 weeks or 2 years if I ever wanted to go to her house to see her again - she would be there WTF ...

If I notice a trend from a person, one that involves gossip/trash talking others whom are good people and peers of mine or one that involves continuous negative energy (non-stop complaining about petty crap rather than looking at the big picture, or just plain judgment of others), I tend to gravitate away from them generally. It's not that I don't do these things every once in a while, we all do, and that's fine really, but if it's Constantly happening from the same person and they never seem to be in good spirits like Ever, I just say "f this." and not want to deal with that person anymore. If they ask what gives, I let em know what's up.

Who sees me as superficial.

Who creates blockage.

- People who don't respect your boundaries/privacy and refuse to treat you like an equal.

- People who automatically expect you to do them favors but they never do anything for you, and then complain when you refuse to do something for them (in a nutshell, taking you for granted).

- And especially people who refuse to listen and take criticism over stupid things they do that cause damage, who think they've done nothing wrong.

I don't need or want people like that in my life.

Pisces Sun, Virgo Moon, Venus/Mars Aries.

I'm not a fan of people who gossip about others who aren't present because I feel they do that to me when I'm not there. What I can't tolerate most is closed minded people, especially those in authority who wish to inflict their views on others by law. Anyone who abuses an animal or a child is anethema to me.

Everybody else I can handle.

Posted by tbird
I can disappear from time to time. It depends on why they could have done something or I just fade away. *shrugs*

Sun - pisces

mars - leo

venus - taurus

You "swim away" like I do 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Impulsv
Excatly not fair to the who perhaps never knew that hurt u

You know people hurt unintentionally given we are all different n can act different in situations

Not fair not to be given s chance to fix if u speak up ur needs

Also I was hosted recently by a Virgo based on taking another fake ass story n didn't even bother to ask my side of the story. So I used to be done without explanation but it was mostly out of cowardice toward speaking my truth n needs" they should nkmow" really? Pretty immature

Life lesson has taught importance in communication.

So true.

People push me, I push them back and the cycle continues. I can be rude, disgusting, embarassing or all of the above. It goes down to who pushes who.

Anyways Sun sign is a Leo, moon sign as well.

Mercury, Venus and Mars is in Virgo.

inconsistency, drama all over and too clingy

sun leeb

moon taurus

leo rising

merc scorp

mars leo

venus leeb

Make plans and cancel them. Disrespecting others trying to look mightier/better than them.

Passive aggressive behaviour. Saying shit like "I am sorry you feel that way"

Nothing makes me scuff my hooves quite like that shit. All is forgiven really fast if they apologize and really make an effort to cut that crap.

When they try to control me and/or project their shit onto me. Sorry, no.

Sun and Venus - Aries

Mars - Cancer

Posted by cheekyfaerie
@Infinite8

Endings can make me look rather heartless tho.

YOU HAVE A HEART—

...just kidding 😈

Trying to be my bestie ASAP upon meeting. Ew, go away.

Oh. Are we talking about romance?

Trying to make me compete with another female for attention.

Now to be honest, when I met my husband, he was serial dating but I tried to ignore my intuition that it was so. It did push me away once I came to grips with reality but I was so drawn to him that I was like dammit. That's mine. I played the game for about 6 weeks. I don't think I could've gone on like that much longer. But every other guy it was a big fat nope.

I like competition and a challenge but only if I'm definitely winning. Haha

Posted by MIIeFisk
Complaining. Always motherfucking complaining.

Not a simple annoyance that you just have to momentarily get off your chest. Those, I can deal and sympathize with. But the ones when they open their mouths, and before a sound comes out, that it's gonna be a whine about something.

This too. Don't complain to me about something unless you want to talk about solutions.

Posted by Lovely20
I've legit disappeared from people's lives from one day to another because I simply decided I didn't wanna be friends/date them anymore and I'm just wondering if that's because I'm an Aqua and how are other signs when it comes to being patient lol because I know for sure we aren't much. But yeah I'm fucking gone if people lie or hide things, take advantage of me, are mean to other people/animals or aren't educated, always do the same shit/don't put effort into things when it seems like we're stuck and it's not going forward or it's always the same talks, dates, whatever or are too clingy (I don't mind clingy much because I can be a bit clingy myself but some people are just too much)

Anyways just curious. what are your sun/mars/venus signs?

I'm on the same boat in terms of all those things that push me away, even down to disappearing. If there's one thing though, it's a lack of emotional connection in a relationship. That's not an issue when it comes to friendships but in terms of relationships, I'll eventually get distressed in a sense if it feels loveless.

Sun: Libra

Moon: Pisces

Rising: Libra

Venus: Virgo

Mars: Sagittarius