To all the Aquas out there

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Ophiuchus on Wednesday, September 7, 2016 and has 28 replies.

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It was a few months knowing each other before me and Mr Aqua got down. I subtly made my interest known and then he took it from there. But it was much MUCH longer before he actually acted like a bf. Or even a bff.

But not not sure how the dynamic works when Aqua is female; I suspect it's different but similar.

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Posted by sultrykitty

It was a few months knowing each other before me and Mr Aqua got down. I subtly made my interest known and then he took it from there. But it was much MUCH longer before he actually acted like a bf. Or even a bff.

But not not sure how the dynamic works when Aqua is female; I suspect it's different but similar.

how subtle is subtle? do aquas prefer it when you initiate and lay it all on the table?

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It was a few months knowing each other before me and Mr Aqua got down. I subtly made my interest known and then he took it from there. But it was much MUCH longer before he actually acted like a bf. Or even a bff.

But not not sure how the dynamic works when Aqua is female; I suspect it's different but similar.

how subtle is subtle? do aquas prefer it when you initiate and lay it all on the table?

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IME, they want to be ABSOLUTELY positive that they won't crash and burn before they take a step forward. I used to just hang around him longer than everyone else, like if we were in a group I'd be the last to leave. Then he'd have to talk to me one on one for a little bit.

They have good intuition and know if someone's interested or not. I would guess that women might want to be pursued a little more aggressively but not by much.

Even if they feel confident enough to make the first move, you may still not get a whole lot back until they've decided that it's safe for them to let go a little. I do think at a certain point after you've gotten physical, being open and more aggressive with the romance is appreciated. As long as its consistent. Just not too much or it will send them hiding for lack of reciprocating.

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Best Aqua mantra I've seen so far

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LOL

are you laughing because you think there's some truth to this? or because it's probably the dumbest thing @tiziani has posted

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I laugh because it's very Aqua. Provocative and mysterious, and a little tongue in cheek...or is it?

None of the male Aquas I have known were ever like that (they are very masculine), but women, yeah.

But I have to say that I used to wonder if Mr Aqua ever experimented. He says absolutely not, but if he did it's his secret.

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@sultrykitty

thanks for the help but those answers were probably the vaguest nothingness ive ever read. That is very aqua of you, i can see the compatibility.

what im gonna do is just go all out and if it backfires ill cry and be evil for a few months till i get over it.

wish me the best.

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Posted by Ophiuchus
@sultrykitty

thanks for the help but those answers were probably the vaguest nothingness ive ever read. That is very aqua of you, i can see the compatibility.

what im gonna do is just go all out and if it backfires ill cry and be evil for a few months till i get over it.

wish me the best.

Being with an Aqua is like pinning jello to a wall. I guess I've learned well how to really just let it go and take things as they come. It's the only way it works with air. The more you try to force or impress the less it seems to work.

I wish you the best with your aquagirl. We have lots more Aqua girls here than guys, so you may get more feedback after you give it a shot.

You seem airy to me too (or at least have a good handle on it), so here's to your success! 😉

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Posted by sultrykitty
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I guess I've learned well how to really just let it go and take things as they come.

im not sure what that means LOL but thx! im kinda half retarded and quarter troll so maybe i just cant get this deep aqua stuff

How well do you know this girl? Have you been alone with her yet?

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known her a few weeks and no. just kinda like her almost immediately. but i read aquas take things really slow so idk

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Best Aqua mantra I've seen so far

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Wait hold up, my bday is feb 17.. Am I not aqua anymore? 😢

ur an aqua. almost everything about that meme is reidiculous.

Well I'm so close to the cusp that they continuously switch up the dates from 16-19. It's whatever I feel like both anyways.

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I'm pretty sure you're an aqua but let's test it then. Will you let me love you?

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Posted by Ophiuchus
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Posted by sultrykitty
I guess I've learned well how to really just let it go and take things as they come.

im not sure what that means LOL but thx! im kinda half retarded and quarter troll so maybe i just cant get this deep aqua stuff

How well do you know this girl? Have you been alone with her yet?

known her a few weeks and no. just kinda like her almost immediately. but i read aquas take things really slow so idk

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A few weeks is good. Are you a go-getter? What kind of guy are you when dating? I don't think Aquas necessarily hold out physically, it's totally an emotional thing. So it really depends on what you're after. If it's a relationship, prepare to be confused about how she feels about you for a year or so. It takes that long (and you being consistent and patient) and sometimes longer for them to feel safe emotionally. The physical stuff can come quickly or not, depending on her personal ethics. Even if it comes quickly don't expect emotional connection to be so fast.

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Posted by sultrykitty
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Posted by sultrykitty
I guess I've learned well how to really just let it go and take things as they come.

im not sure what that means LOL but thx! im kinda half retarded and quarter troll so maybe i just cant get this deep aqua stuff

How well do you know this girl? Have you been alone with her yet?

known her a few weeks and no. just kinda like her almost immediately. but i read aquas take things really slow so idk

A few weeks is good. Are you a go-getter? What kind of guy are you when dating? I don't think Aquas necessarily hold out physically, it's totally an emotional thing. So it really depends on what you're after. If it's a relationship, prepare to be confused about how she feels about you for a year or so. It takes that long (and you being consistent and patient) and sometimes longer for them to feel safe emotionally. The physical stuff can come quickly or not, depending on her personal ethics. Even if it comes quickly don't expect emotional connection to be so fast.

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usually i just say whats up but she seems incredibly reserved and different so i was afraid it would scare her so ive been playing it cool. i kinda want to be more aggressive now tho. kinda tired of the beta stuff. i wanna go full alpha

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Posted by Ophiuchus
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by Ophiuchus
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by Ophiuchus
Posted by sultrykitty
I guess I've learned well how to really just let it go and take things as they come.

im not sure what that means LOL but thx! im kinda half retarded and quarter troll so maybe i just cant get this deep aqua stuff

How well do you know this girl? Have you been alone with her yet?

known her a few weeks and no. just kinda like her almost immediately. but i read aquas take things really slow so idk

A few weeks is good. Are you a go-getter? What kind of guy are you when dating? I don't think Aquas necessarily hold out physically, it's totally an emotional thing. So it really depends on what you're after. If it's a relationship, prepare to be confused about how she feels about you for a year or so. It takes that long (and you being consistent and patient) and sometimes longer for them to feel safe emotionally. The physical stuff can come quickly or not, depending on her personal ethics. Even if it comes quickly don't expect emotional connection to be so fast.

usually i just say whats up but she seems incredibly reserved and different so i was afraid it would scare her so ive been playing it cool. i kinda want to be more aggressive now tho. kinda tired of the beta stuff. i wanna go full alpha

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Go for it. She may freak a little but if she likes you it will get her thinking, since it's different than how you have been. Don't be an ass though. 🙂

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Posted by sultrykitty
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Posted by sultrykitty
I guess I've learned well how to really just let it go and take things as they come.

im not sure what that means LOL but thx! im kinda half retarded and quarter troll so maybe i just cant get this deep aqua stuff

How well do you know this girl? Have you been alone with her yet?

known her a few weeks and no. just kinda like her almost immediately. but i read aquas take things really slow so idk

A few weeks is good. Are you a go-getter? What kind of guy are you when dating? I don't think Aquas necessarily hold out physically, it's totally an emotional thing. So it really depends on what you're after. If it's a relationship, prepare to be confused about how she feels about you for a year or so. It takes that long (and you being consistent and patient) and sometimes longer for them to feel safe emotionally. The physical stuff can come quickly or not, depending on her personal ethics. Even if it comes quickly don't expect emotional connection to be so fast.

usually i just say whats up but she seems incredibly reserved and different so i was afraid it would scare her so ive been playing it cool. i kinda want to be more aggressive now tho. kinda tired of the beta stuff. i wanna go full alpha

Go for it. She may freak a little but if she likes you it will get her thinking, since it's different than how you have been. Don't be an ass though. 🙂

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ill try not to be

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Posted by sultrykitty
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Posted by tiziani
Best Aqua mantra I've seen so far

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LOL

are you laughing because you think there's some truth to this? or because it's probably the dumbest thing @tiziani has posted

I laugh because it's very Aqua. Provocative and mysterious, and a little tongue in cheek...or is it?

None of the male Aquas I have known were ever like that (they are very masculine), but women, yeah.

But I have to say that I used to wonder if Mr Aqua ever experimented. He says absolutely not, but if he did it's his secret.

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naw. I don't think it's any different with any other sun sign to be honest. lots of gay women in every sun sign, and I never felt any liking to a woman, i'm full on heterosexual. and I don't have any desire to experiment when I was single. i'm just not wired that way. you'd have to rape me if you are gonna get anything. and if you rape i'm gonna call the police. just saying. (I suck at describing and telling it like it is) *smh*

but Ellen DeGeneres is full on lesbian and she's aquarius sun/venus.

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if we are gonna say women of this sign is inclinced , then i'm gonna go on a FULL on RESEARCH on celebrities to FIND the other 12 sun signs who are gay /lesbian.

just to prove that it is in EVERY freaking sun sign. k? jeeeeez..... to stop the ignorance.

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Posted by tiziani
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Well I know I'm aqua but I was reading that if my sun is in the very late degrees it represent ready to leave this life and mastering into a new one. Does that mean I'm an old soul?

It clearly looks like I was about to transcend into the into Pisces and reach experiencing all the 11 sun signs. Like from newborn to old, right now I'm considered retired.

I was suppose to be born February 29th on leap year. My mother experienced complications and gave birth to me early.

In your specific case, that is largely true emotionally because your Sun is sitting in your Pisces house. Your core would be affected day-to-day by Pisces transits more than anything else, so it's going to feel that way to you, especially if you're a Solar dominant person.

Your expected time of birth wouldn't factor into your chart, but the distance between your birthday and the Moon cycle phases leading up to it would shed some background on your connection with your mother.

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wow that makes sense, I forget about the house sign. Ellen Degernees is 3rd house sun and venus. along with trining her aqua venus/sun, and the energy seems strong. and she's got Jupiter in 11th too.