do aquas ever have regret?

I am looking for input into whether or not aquas regret choices or decisions they make. Suppose you are with a man/woman that makes you completely happy, you never argue, never fight, but for some reason you just cannot love them and choose to turn them lose, would an aqua regret that decision later in life?

No, because we didnt love you....if we did and we left anyway, then most likely yes...we'd probably try and work it out sooner or later.

I've regretted things I've done that have hurt others.

"Its for the best"..thats probably how they see it...why would you want someone who cant return the affection you need.

Id feel bad about it, but I wouldnt regret doing it...speaking from experience.

Intriguing question... I wouldn't say that I regret anything I've done. Sure I've hurt people and I try to remember them in my prayers to say 'I hope so and so finds happiness in this life and moves on.' But I do that because of a karma belief more than regret and I truly wish everyone who ever crosses my path to be happy.

And I guess I was still dreaming and wishing for my Mr. Cap when I walked out enough to apologize and come back. But darn it all my emotions were involved there (all his fault entirely!)

Actually I show my love through total loyalty. I love my family, my man and my friends in the same fashion really, just through my continually showing up. If I want to be there, I'm there. But if I don't, then I'm gone and there is no looking back. And if there is a reason I'm gone and you have to see me still, don't expect anything other than politeness during conversation but a cold shoulder otherwise. I will not repetitively explain 'why' when the reason should be obvious or I said it once already. There is no going back and any begging makes a guy look pretty darn pathetic to me if I've already said goodbye.

so, what exactly are the "sure" signs that an aqua loves you/ is in love with you? in other words, what actions does an aqua take when in love... since most are not too keen on saying those three words, what are some other pinpoints—

personally, i kind of think it is in their body language and their eyes...

some thoughts...

funny ladyvie!!!...you answered my question before i even asked it. you must have been reading my mind 😉

it seems that when aquas are unhappy, they get out of the relationship. they don't stay for the sake of someone else's feelings...or try to work on things.

I'm sure you are all wondering why i ask this question, I myself wonder why i even care, in my mind it's very clear cut that this man just used me for over two years. but because of the look in his eyes, the tears he's cryed, and the things he's said, i'm left wondering if he even knows what he's doing. During the whole time we've been together i have not pushed for anything, i've accepted him just as he is, i never needed to hear i love you, or have it written in stone that we were in a committed relationship. I just enjoyed being with him, and rolled with it now i'm paying the price for being that way. I never wanted to have feelings for this man, i never wanted to love him or be anything other than just being with him. He's was a great guy, very kind, attractive, intelligent and very sexy, and i honestly don't have a clue why he left. We've always gotten along really well, laugh have fun, hang out, we never fight, i've never been so content with anyone in my entire life. Out of no where things changed overnight, well maybe not overnight, he withdrew about a month before, but he always does that works out his problems and is normal again so i never thought nothing of it. He tells me he doesn't love me and cannot love me, that he thought if he stayed long enough he could. He says i'm a great person, that he loves the person i am, said he was happy living with me, and had no problems with me personally other than he cannot love me and says i deserve to be loved that he could not ask for anything more in a woman than me, that i've always been there for him, and that he does care about me and has really deep feelings for me. Maybe because i am not aqua but this makes no sense what so ever, if you care about me, you have feeligns for me, and you've been happy with me why are you leaving? He says he doesn't know whats wrong with himself, that he feels dead inside, that he should be happy with me, but the little things that should make him happy he feels nothing inside about. He says he's just not a happy person. I never wanted to fall for this man, i fought what i felt for him for a really long time, he is the one that made the decision to move in with me, he involved himself in my daughters life, talked about our future what we would do when we retired, he's indicated more than once he planned on being there long after my daughter left home (she's 10 yrs old) teasing her that she would have to put up with him for 8 more years.

I told him if there was a reason i would understand more, this just hurts, I wish he was mean to me or that we fought or didn't get along, but what i had with him was too sureal, we got along great, now out of the blue he picks up and moves, tells me he does care about me and does have feeligns for me that i deserve to be with someone that can love them the way that i love. And of course the kicker is "he still wants to be friends" which i told him i could not do, that i couldn't be around him loving him the way that i do knowing he doesn't feel the same, and not to mention how would it work out seeing him with another woman, i couldn't and wouldn't handle it. I asked him if it's that easy for him to see me with another man and he just lowered his head, he said it's not easy for him. I am hurt and confused and i just don't understand, although i love this man with all my heart, i will not let him hurt me ever again, he made this choice now he needs to deal with the choices he made, even if he wanted me back i couldn't take him back after what he's done to me. I am just looking for anything to help me through this, i want the pain to be gone and to fast forward a few months from now where this isn't so fresh and it doesn't hurt so bad.

Lady M: "No, because we didnt love you....if we did and we left anyway, then most likely yes...we'd probably try and work it out sooner or later."

Exactly.

Im sorry to hear this funluvn. I think if he does realize he loves you he'll most likely come back, but im not saying you should put up with it....

Was there no other reason for his leaving?

thank you for your input, I am trying to be strong, but i cannot get the past 2 years out of my head. I've went over all of it, and it doesn't make sense. This is a man that actively took part in my daughters life without anyone asking he's been to her school and spoke to her teacher about her progress, we have looked at buying a house together and almost closed on one, he worked on the house and talked about doing things that would benefit us years from now, teased my daughter about putting up with him for 8 more years because he pushed her as far as school work goes and she just hated it, but respected him also. Not to mention the bigger picture of why live life with us everyday for the past year and a half leading us on as listed above acting like he cared about me and had feelings for me only to leave the way he did. I think that's the hardest thing for me to wrap my head around did he just play me and use me for the past couple of years or is he just that scared of what he feels for me. the night he came and got his things he sat in the kitchen crying telling me that he couldn't ask anything more from a woman, that i've always been there for him, i'm a great person, that i don't deserve this, that he doesn't understand either how two people can get along so well but still he is not capable of loving them. He said he feels dead inside and that he does care about me and does have really deep feelings for me. He's called a couple of times and both times asked me if i was ok, why do this if you didn't have feelings for me and you was only using me. I just don't know what to think, it's frustrating, i didn't imagine all the fun we shared and the friendship we've had over the past couple of years, i keep wondering what i missed something that would indicate he didnt' feel for me what i felt for him. I am taking every day one day at a time, trying to find happiness in my daughter and just get on with my life, i truely don't want to be with anyone else but him and have just resigned myself to staying single and raising my daughter, the last time i saw him a week ago he came over to get some more things, i told him i could not do this, this was his decsion and he neeed to live with it, he can't keep coming around and calling me because it just hurts me too much, he left without even saying goodbye so i don't think i will ever see him again, i know this is a process but it doesn't feel like it's getting any better. thanks again for all you help.