are you serious?

My aqua friend is always joking around with me and i dont think i've ever seen him serious....well i think i have but i'm never sure. We call and text each other regularly and spend most of our time goofing around when we're together BUT i have noticed that when i have not been able to return one of his calls/texts straight away, when i have done later he's seemed slightly cold and snappy and has even made comments about whether i had called the right number and how i was treating him wrong, but then straight after one of these outbursts he will immediately start joking around again acting like he wasnt really upset and isnt serious but i just get this feeling (taurus never ignores a feeling) that he really is. So is he?

Oh and i have asked him many times if he's serious and he'll either respond: "hell yeah" but still be laughing or have a grin on his face.....or say "no" but act as though he's crying...so i just dont know! I have also tried being serious with him to see if he would be serious back but that just makes him act the fool even more!

mine gets pissed aliitle if i dont get back to messages or pick the phone up, but then laughs it off like he isn't bothered, but clearly he was, otherwise he wouldn't make comments-but they are not nasty comments

no, his comments are never nasty, i would just rather know outright if he's pissed that's all!

elly...are you with another aqua now— how are you?

Yes he's serious. I dont appreciate flakiness. But we get over it as long as you acknowledge our slight outburst and not do it again so soon. Flakiness sucks.

Aqua J is correct and Kunoichi. I try to keep the peace that way and also to maybe hide that I really care...and my indifference is a mask sometimes.

Hehehe all of what Aguaaqi said above is uncannily accurate!

Hehehe. I wonder if my typos might improve while I'm under the influence. I might put it to the test next time I've had a few tipples.

PS my outfit is just something I literally threw together but by all means borrow my idea of Wthrowing" your clothes on. I find this technique also helps iron out those stubborn creases that would flip out on the clothes horse.

Sheesh ok here we go...typo correction/translation:

Wthrowing" = "throwing

...creases that would flip out on the clothes horse...= ...creases that would not flip out on the clothes horse.

aguaqi- everything you said is so accurate...this thread is very similar to situations i deal with...what's amusing is that you guys contradict yourselves all the time...you like to be adored and worshipped, yet you like lots of space and minimal contact...you like your ego stroked but you don't like compliments or you don't know how to react to them...you like it when people are stable and up front(no flakiness), but you like unpredictability...the list goes on...mind boggling...but that is why we love you guys =)

ya aguaqi- thanks for clearing everything up...i understand you completely now 🙂

hehe...hows it goin scorpking? It always gets worse before it gets better....

LadyM- doing great! but why can't it get better before it gets worst 🙂

"you like your ego stroked but you don't like compliments or you don't know how to react to them"

-this is so true...i compliment my aqua bf quite often and he does not react to it well. he will roll his eyes at me or say, "whatever"...or he will question my compliment to get more compliments out of me. it's like he reacts in these ways so that i will further compliment him and stroke his ego some more. it's all about reassurance...

Compliments are nice but uncomfortable...but they are appreciated.

ScrpKing:
Its just a statement, I was referring to AguaAqi more though...and the aqua confusion she put on you, but if you can decipher she's absolutely correct.

but why can't it get better before it gets worst

In the end its all good...i think.

moonchild- i haven't experienced those type of reactions...more like the uncomfortable silence Lady M mentioned...you say it, they absorb it, its quiet...and then they start talking about something else...i think your aqua definitely needs reassurance and more compliments...not sure about mine...

Its just a statement, I was referring to AguaAqi more though...and the aqua confusion she put on you, but if you can decipher she's absolutely correct.

Lady M- i understand...go with the flow...the rest will come 🙂...the confusion that is...haha

What can we say aquas are humble people...sometimes...😛