You mean it when u say it?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by taurusgoddess on Tuesday, October 31, 2006 and has 14 replies.

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@ladyvie
19 Years

untrue... often times I say what I really feel in a joking way to cushion it somehow in case the other person doesn't feel the same. I say what I think when asked. And since I demand honesty from others, I would be honest myself.

However there are white lies and the best of that situation is simply not to say anything at all.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

We dont "lie"...we evade saying certain truths...we may leave something out or answer the question in a round about manner, not lying just not telling the entire story.

When we say something even if it maybe a joking manner we probably mean it. I rarely lie, I think its a waste of my energy.

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

"When we say something even if it maybe a joking manner we probably mean it."

that's not good b/c my aqua bf jokes around all the time about doing drugs, and beating me up, etc... not good things. and i always tell him not to joke about it b/c it is not very funny, even as a joke.

but, with him, i think he does it more to push my buttons and get under my skin b/c he knows it bugs me...i don't think he really means it when he jokes about it.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh NO NO I dont mean things like that...more along the lines of our point of view or feelings. Aqi said something about being a queen, now that is just a joke...i think 🙂

But the other day a poster talked about her aqua friend acting annoyed in a joking manner about not returning phone calls, now that he most likely meant.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"That's why our friends need to have a strong constitution/stomach/pain tolerance /analytical ability/mind reading ability/intuition."

true true, but gee wizzz I dont think I can be my own friend.

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

"If he shows signs of drug use or violence towards you, then there may be some truth hidden in there. If there hasn't been any signs, then he's just being a DORKY AQUA."

-yeah, that's him...mr. dorky aqua...but i love it!!! i am pretty sure he just teases me and jokes around to get a reaction out of me and to have a little fun with me. he loves to push my buttons...he likes to bring more of the immature, fun, dorky girl out of me, since sometimes i can be way too mature and very serious!

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

Lady M: "We dont "lie"...we evade saying certain truths...we may leave something out or answer the question in a round about manner, not lying just not telling the entire story."

You know what Lady M? If anybody says you're wrong about what you've learned about aquas, I'll be your living proof!!!