Do you still care?

You know how you break up with someone? After you break up from a long term relationship, for whatever the reason is, boredom, lack of interest, they weren't what you thought they were, they fucked it up, you fucked it up, whatever, do you still care about the person?

Do you care if they are happy? Do you care if they have a good life after you? Do you continue to think of them?

Live with you or without you haha your choice only..Aquarius moon..

I'm pretty close to most of my exes, some more so than others. All people bring something to your life...

Ok had a dream about my ex. Back in 2008 after that dreadful shit I went throug. So from 2006-2008 nada packed my shit when my lease was up and just bounced.... I rang him he answers want to meet up, fuck you punk. Not happening. You answered the phone your not dead like my dream said.. Fuck so now go back to all the shit that happened between us..so when he was with me wasnt treating me right. So I ask him what's going on with his life..

. He got a job, had a kid, has a car, has a baby momma that looked like me he said. And same name too, said he went to all my jobs to look for me, and I'm like wtf you do all that for. Haha..you fucked up.. not me..begged to meet up. Said can't. I can do better without you and have.. and will...
Do I care for my ex bff nah, they are your exes for a reason...I really just called because of my dream.. was a mistake..

I'm not an Aquarius lol but just managed to come across this and I just find it funny how we often say we don't care, I really do think to an extent no matter who we are as a person care at least a little.

And also different situations bring different reactions so yes if an abusive partner left you wouldn't care but if a partner who cheated left I'm sure you would care a little no matter how angry you may be, caring Is not always about being sad and missing that person but maybe you might think about them from time to time. I don't know though just my thought lol, as I said I'm not an Aquarius. My father was and I know he cared a lot about things

I left an abusive relationship with my pisces ex, I literally left the next day on a train with a small bag of clothes with a broken arm and a hole in my lip where my tooth went through and I never spoke to him again.....to say I was infactuated was an understatement but I had drank my full of him, he was so messed up and it was the worst breakup of my life 6 years ago and I still don't want a relationship with anyone......Do I care about him?.....I care enough to look at his profile on FB I never said goodbye or ever had closure from our breakup was just never had to balls to talk to him again.....I care enough keep a picture of him in a jar of ice in the freezer hoping it will ruin his life...

What is it with water signs and being abusive in relationships?? both my exes Cancerian and Pisces were both abusive and always started physical fights....I know I have a mouth on me but I would never hit someone unless provoked and even then Id rather smash their things before I lay a hand on them.

As an aqua, I may still care. But if you screwed me over or disrespected me, you are pretty much dead to me. I can ignore you so well you'll wonder if you even exist. After time has passed, that may lessen but I won't think about you much. When we decide to move on, we really move on. The secret is, it takes us a long time to get to that point. So don't keep pushing your luck if you have us. If you think we'll never leave, we will. It just takes a while for us to get to that point.

Unless they apologize for their actions, no going back to normalcy which means I won't care otherwise.

I always hope for food things and imagine them happy.

um i only broke up with my ex husband because he was a womanizer, drug addict, criminal (yes, to be very honest he was and still is a criminal and he's currently behind bars) so yeah you can hazard a guess why. MOST women wouldn't fall for men like that. And at the time, people would tell me that i should leave him because he is the WORST. but i didnt care. still, it took a long while, before i finally saw how toxic it was. the 2nd ex was abusive physically so yeah you can guess why. DUH.

i do care if they had a good life.

you see, if they have a GOOD LIFE, then they will leave me the fuck alone you see how that is?


if people are HAPPY in their lives, they dont need to tear down others, and hurt others,or try to one up others. ect.

they will be happily content and not bother what their ex's are up to you see??

but the 2nd ex died, so he can't have a good life anymore.

and my first husband can't really have a life behind bars can he??


there's NO sense for me to keep saying that rehab will help because his family spent thousands and thousands on him to go to rehab, medication, ect. and plenty of money puored into him, but he threw it away like it was nothing.

Posted by AquaMermaid
My response may be completely different from others because I am a fire/water dominant Aquarius.I don't want people over reacting to my comment.I am also a Cancer moon that fortunately/unfortunately remembers everything.I have an Aqua sun/Pisces moon ex I was with for two years.I only have fond memories of him and wish him good in his life. Then Libra sun/Aqua moon ex I was with for 5 years.I moved mountains to be with him,worked two shifts,stayed hungry and saved for his gifts,cried,bled and loved him unconditionally.He was good for first three years and then cheated on me.I forgave him and he kept lying and stringing me along. He took off to another country and left me no letters or explanation and contacted me 8 months later asking for forgiveness. He told me he didn't want to hurt me so he left without saying a word. I was depressed and it took me time to get over him.I swore off all Librans from that day onwards. All talk and no action doesn't impress me. Fancy words and diplomacy has no meaning if you're not executing your plans.I do not wish bad upon him. But I do not like to think about him. I gave too much to an undeserving man.My Scorpio sun/Aries moon ex is the worst nightmare of my life! When I think of what all he did to me,I am filled with hatred.When I think what I might have done to him if I stayed longer,I get filled with very dark and evil thoughts.I don't want to become that person so I keep those memories away. I try my best to not let it affect me and my current life. As an Aquarian, I try to keep negativity at bay and focus on the present. Cherish the good memories and let go of things that hold you back from your personal growth. Obsessing over an ex is never good.

i agree with you, AM, i love a man who WALKS the walk.

my ex's were all like that. My husband is like that. When he says he'll do something, he does it.

conviction and strong will power. Fucking love it. it's aphrodiasiac for me. which is why are the many reasons i looooveee my husband.

Depends! For my ex husband I care a lot and I still love him as a human being, not as a partner. But I dont give shits about my libra ex. If I ended it then I'll care about you and remember the good&bad thibfs. But if you screw me over I'll just feel like throwing up whenever I think of you