Driving me crazy

Driving me crazy

Thats it...its offial. An aquarian guy is driving me so absolutely crazy Im going to need a therapist soon! How can someone be so...irritating yet interesting, annoying yet compelling, distant yet sweet, cold yet loving and perfect yet totally wrong for me!!

He says one thing and does another constantly, pretends like he couldnt care less then suddenly do a 360 and be absolutely gorgeous. Acts like Im not there but watches what I do all night long and tell me how much he cares and then not see me for a couple of weeks.

AND he totally closes off after s*x. Hes honest and sweet and vunerable then afterwards its like I can actually SEE something close on his face and he shuts off and its..so..frustrating. Why does he do that? Oh I am so confused. SIGHhhhh.

I really feel your frustration, the Aquarian I've been with for the past year does me the same way. I also feel as though I will need therapy in the end. I don't know if it helps you or not but I have taken the approach of just accepting things for what they are. I have no expectations in regard to where we might go I just generally enjoy every second I get to spend with him (maybe because I never know if it will be the last). He's awesome in so many ways and makes me feel on top of the world for the most part but when it comes to getting in his head as to why he does the things he does or acts the way he acts as in being aloof I just have to shut it down or he will drive me crazy. I've noticed by doing this he comes to me when he's ready to talk. It's not easy by no means but I honestly feel if he can walk away from what we have it's his loss not mine because I have treated him with nothing less than honesty, kindness, and patients, patients I didn't even know I had LOL. If he were to walk away tomorrow I would miss him and hurt terribly, but I honestly wouldn't have any regrets and I wouldn't have traded the experience for anything in this world. I've had alot of fun and enough good memories to last a life time with him. aquas are truely unique. The world would be pretty boring without them>

to primegen, I am curious as to what you said. partly because I couldn't have wrote any better myself what was going on with me and my aqua I almost feel like asking her who he is. LOL you said "But honestly, he really loves you but is not sure you love him the same way. Alleviate his worries." what do you mean by that? alleviate his worries, I didn't think aquas worried about anything!! and aquas don't seem to have trouble verbalizing anything else that's bothering them so why would you think he loves her?

He thinks that this guy loves me cause Im so damn LOVABLE haha jk and he had a few bad experiences with Libras I think...so he likes to see us suffer haha. Nah only kidding.

Well last nite I was watching the scariest movie all alone in my flat (my roomies away) and I went out for a smoke and there was this huge bang on the back fence and I nearly died I was so scared then I could hear this quiet laughing and it was him. As soon as I saw him I punched him it was SO nasty! Stupid aquarians haha. And THEN while I was sleeping (well kinda) he was all sweet and pushed my hair from my forehead and kissed it and stuff thinking I was asleep. AWW you guys CAN be sweet - when you think no one can see it! Busted 🙂

Are you Britney Spears?

Britney Spears is like Sagittarius or some sh*t. I think. Ahh who knows.

Primegen you know what...I think youre right. EXCEPT about the Librans liking expensive gifts thing. Obviously some do but I dont care either way really. But maybe Im just one of those Librans with no bad qualities and all good ones (hahaha). Anyways...

Last nite when mr headcase was all lovey and cuddly (and totally out of character..)he asked me what I was thinking about. I sneakily avoided the question and he got nothing out of me I think he was a touch annoyed. If I had of asked him and he did that I would have thought he was being like all cold and mean and stuff. Soooo maybe Im as bad as him? Or worse..! I just thought if I told him the truth he would freak out right when I felt like we were closer than ever.

Hmm you know what...I think tonite (he invited me over so he can cook dinner for me aww) I think when he asks something like that or says something trying to find out how I feel I think Ill just tell him. Yep. You only live once and whats the worst he can do? Disappear for a few weeks? Like that would be something different anyways! 😉

LoL, Aquas are funny. I tried to share something deep with my roommate last night and she just walked away from me and started cooking. Normally I would be hurt, but I mean she's just my roommate, not really my best friend or my mom. I think I'm starting to mature 😉 and becoming less cancer like..

Umm.. it doesn't matter if you've heard it lots, if someone is sharing something personal with you, you should sit there and listen. It's common courtesy. That's the way I would behave if the situation was turned around. I think aqua and cancers are just way too different to be close.

Now I feel like Ive treated him really bad. I probably have too...oh my god Im a BAD PERSON! Hahaha. Yeah come to think of it, he has come straight out heaps about how he feels. One time we were arguing and he was asking how I felt about us/everything and I was like you always ask me that, why should I tell you when you never say a word to me about how YOU feel and he goes I never tell you because you never ask me! And I felt soo terrible because it was true. So I asked him and he's all like nah too late now. Boy I was mad.

Well when I go to dinner tonite Im going to tell him - Im not sure what yet, Im just going to tell him stuff and apologise for always being so...closed up and doing a runner whenever he talks about 'deep' stuff. Thanks primegen 🙂 you're the man. Ill let you know how it goes...

but with aquas it could be several months and they think they can come back and nothing has changed. if you truly care for somoene a week is an eternity

I don't think it has to do with being clingy to want to spend time with the people you care about or love. If I was stating this fact over someone disappearing for a day or two sure the love and care are still there (even months after someone goes away love and care for somone is still there) I have ex's that I will always love and care for but I don't see them all the time. when you go off for that long of a period of time it indicates to the other person that they are not important to you and you no longer care for them. after a month one starts to feel like the love and care they feel for you is one sided and that they are taking advantage of your feelings for them. you aquas seem to come around when it benefits you. You don't take into consideration that other people feel the same as you. I understand aquas need there space, I am not a clingy person and I have a tough shell but you aquas could make the strongest person doubt themselves.

I can agree with that. Implied love gets the better of me also. but if the love is there and stated I do not need to hear or be around that person all the time but a month is a really long time to go away unless your in a war or something. LOL