can someone shed some light - Messenger

Hello

There is just a little thing bugging me about my exAqua boyfriend. We split up 6 months ago and we've had No contact for 5 months.
We used to communicate a lot via IM. I have him blocked - but can see when he's on and offline. A couple of times I've gone online to see what he'd do - and he still ignores me.
Why hasn't he deleted or blocked me? Is this just another Aqua mind game?

'Alice'
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Thank you Vanessa for the blindingly obvious!

I've moved on - in fact I've moved to another country.
I just wondered why a man who reckons he dislikes me so much couldn't be asked to just 'delete'

Anyhoo - its nice to know there is a place to come to when I need to warm my heart!

Hi, just a thought, if you have blocked him, how do u know he has not tried to contact you?

Hi Vanessa
It's not 'important' to me - It was bugging me today - so I posed the question. thats all.
I always look back at past relationships and wonder what people are up to - thats just me.
I have had to move on and forward, reluctantly, mainly because I had no choice.

Thanks
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I heard Aquarians get turned on when you ignore them. 🙂

Thanks Primegem

Makes a lot more sense.

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Just a side - when a person is done with a relationship, I think all contact should be severed. It's too painful and then you end up confused about what the truth is. If someone says it's over, then it's over. I need to take my own advice, don't get me wrong. But when I am done with a relationship, no amount of mind games on the part of the guy will ever get me to change my behavior. It will only annoy me more and cause me to lose respect even more..
Dealing with codependency issues has helped me here---