fwb/aqua tells me while fucking

That he would never be with me because i am not regular. He is trying to win his ex back. He wishes she was like me and had my drive .. but he likes her because he is regular to. Lol!! He is 34 and talks like a kid sometimes..... why would he even discuss this with me when i have not mentioned anything to him about being with him.

He like spilled all the "beans" yesterday!!! I already knew half the stuff he was telling me. He also said he is afraid that he will never forget about me. His ex comes back in feb so i told hin what actions he needed to take to get her back.....

Again i have always understood our fwb boundaries but when he makes comments like this it throws my balance off.. i appreciate his honesty but ummm.......


:-/ what do u guys think—

Oh btw he says i am like a angel who came into his life for a mission.. :-/

Lol!! I think so 2

Yep, i appreciate his honesty... its weird but i kinda feel like we actually became friends yesterday....

Not offended at all.. it is what it is. i just never thought of him as a friend. Just fucking. The fwb thing seem to be more of a label.


I have thick skin words from a person who only knows what i choose to reveal will never really matter. So i appreciate your opinion but i eat the meat and spit out the bones.... :-)

And you are right i am up myself.... lol!!!

Yep,right in the middle and it was one of my better orgasms.. his 2.. i think the reality check was more for him. He is always the one who brings up this "reminders"

Prehaps.. but i didnt need to be put in a heart shape box... just dumb trying to convince me that he is a great person. I know he is a dawg. Thats what i do appreciate his honesty he showed me his true colors and she simply gets the parts he wants her to see which is not his true self . So whatever .. harem? Now that i know he is trying to win his ex back ill never deal with him in that way ever again....

it's all pretty pathetic

Idk.... moving on.....

Yep. I compromised. Yes the fwb is not suited for someone is built for the long haul. guess ill go purge for awhile. :-) later!!! And thanks everybody for your comments. Even the not so nice ones.. lol!!!

why chose virtuous in your nick name?

Why not have this as my nick name—

Hmm. Sex is a natural God given gift. So y cant i discuss it? The aqua told me he did not have a girlfriend and as far as i know he still does not have one. He just informed me that he intends on winning his ex back. Once he said that i cut it off. I dont see how discussing a god given gift in public shows that i lack virtue i discuss sex between two willing adults.
Virtue in relgion lang would imply that one should be married. But i am not religious at all virtue is not only relgious lang.



My standards are not set by man. So yes i still consider myself has a honest woman. A woman of good character. I am not hurting anybody at all.

Thanks for not judging. :-)

Sex isn't bad, virtuous people that aren't saving themselves or celibate have sex often but how she's treating herself is sorta bad IMO.

"Virtue is a behavior showing a high moral standard and is a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards. Virtues can be placed into a broader context of values. Each individual has a core of underlying values that contribute to his or her system of beliefs, ideas and/or opinions (see value in semiotics). Integrity in the application of a value ensures its continuity and this continuity separates a value from beliefs, opinion and ideas. In this context, a value (e.g., Truth or Equality or Creed) is the core from which we operate or react. Societies have values that are shared among many of the participants in that culture. An individual's values typically are largely, but not entirely, in agreement with his or her culture's values.

Individual virtues can be grouped into one of four categories of values:

* Ethics (virtue - vice, good - evil, moral - immoral - amoral, right - wrong)
* Aesthetics (unbalanced, pleasing)
* Doctrinal (political, ideological, religious or social beliefs and values)
* Innate/inborn"

(reference: wikipedia)

I'm just curious about the word and your reason.

ImO. You can have your Imo.. its no confusion.. open discussion between two willing adults.. all i appreciate all of your thoughts and opinions.


I am who i am. Yes i am a woman of virtue. I am an adult who makes decisions. I am not hurting anyone. I am learning myself more and more. It is what it is.

Your nickname piques my interest. Everyone has their own definition of virtue and I'm curious to know yours. Thanks for replying.