Guys how can I get him to crack?

I’m seeing a cancer but he’s more of an Aquarius than a cancer (his moon is in Aquarius). At the moment I’m guessing we’re FWB but it’s very different than a normal FWB like we are “exclusive” just without the title.

I’m a Pisces and for me he’s perfect he doesn’t show much emotion and he is sensitive. I have dated men in the past who show me how they feel and it’s sweet but I don’t really like too much emotion because it puts me off like I like to chase and be kept guessing a lot.

However with this dude it’s getting a tiny bit frustrating because I just want to know how he feels about me, he’s very reserved and his actions show me that I’m important to him he has also said that I am in the past but I want to get him to open up a little more. I thought because he was a cancer it would be possible but he’s more controlled by his moon sign.

Whenever he feels a lot of emotion coming from me it scares him away he doesn’t like confrontation and drama from me but sometimes I get frustrated because I just want to hear sweet words sometimes and he’s not that type at all he’s not romantic or likes to do cute little dates he’s very much all about his friends and his money then I come after sort of thing.

He’s constantly kissing me and holding me and doing things for me but I just want to get him to open up a bit more like I want to get deeper with him emotionally.

What can I do to just get him to open up a little bit more?

Posted by Arielle83

Get him drunk

Already done that

Cracking an aqua moon? Haaaa. Not a easy feat. Only with time and trust will they slooooowly open, so work on those

How long have you been seeing him? Maybe just a bit more patience if he’s a slow burn.

Posted by LadyNeptune

How long have you been seeing him? Maybe just a bit more patience if he’s a slow burn.

Not long at all but I just want him to open up a little bit more I mean he doesn’t have to tell me his secrets and open up to the point I know his whole life story but maybe just something to make it easier in getting to know him😌 for now I’m being myself but I don’t want to be too reserved only because he is

Posted by SassyKiwi

Cracking an aqua moon? Haaaa. Not a easy feat. Only with time and trust will they slooooowly open, so work on those

I figured this lol😅

Posted by Klh1203

Posted by LadyNeptune

How long have you been seeing him? Maybe just a bit more patience if he’s a slow burn.

Not long at all but I just want him to open up a little bit more I mean he doesn’t have to tell me his secrets and open up to the point I know his whole life story but maybe just something to make it easier in getting to know him😌 for now I’m being myself but I don’t want to be too reserved only because he is

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Do you ask him questions about himself? Interrogate tf outta him 😝 but in a cute way

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Klh1203

Posted by LadyNeptune

How long have you been seeing him? Maybe just a bit more patience if he’s a slow burn.

Not long at all but I just want him to open up a little bit more I mean he doesn’t have to tell me his secrets and open up to the point I know his whole life story but maybe just something to make it easier in getting to know him😌 for now I’m being myself but I don’t want to be too reserved only because he is

Do you ask him questions about himself? Interrogate tf outta him 😝 but in a cute way

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Good idea! I have asked questions but not as much as I should.

I agree^. Plus FWB relationship rarely turns into an exclusive relationship. I don't know why women accept this set up because it always favors the man more than the woman. Most women accept FWB set up in hopes of moving it to a relationship but men view it as a sex partner at their convenience. OP you say you don't like men who show emotion yet you are stressing because this guy is giving you just what you like. You said you like to chase so here it is.

OP, you say that whenever he feels a lot of emotion coming from you, it scares him away. That alone means that he does not want an emotional tie to you. You're becoming emotional because you're really desiring a relationship. Being fwbs is not a relationship but a transaction. Fucking first doesn't always lead to flourishing relationships. I don't know about this one. I foresee heart break coming your way.