HELP..should I wait for him to approach me??

I have been friends with a certain aquarius on and off for the past 10+ years..we went to high school together. We lost touch for about a year and a half because he had a serious girlfriend and I was so wrapped up in school and work. recently he contacted me and we have hung out a few times, when I first saw him after not seeing him for over a year I thought to myself how cute he looked. I just can't tell if he is interested in me or not. He calls to hang out, he definetly gives me "looks", one second he seems like he likes me as more than and friend and the next I feel like he is ignoring me. One night when we were hanging out at his place, he had a bunch of people come over after some bar hopping. He spent like 15 minutes chatting up my Best friend he sat down next to her ect. i got up to go outside to smoke he followed, I asked him if he wants me to hook him up with my best friend, his response was can I have YOU both?? Ummm NO I replied, the proceeded to tell him we are not friends anymore, but in a jokingly way. He immediately apologized, said he was joking abd being greedy. I asked him how he would feel if I said the same thing to him..his response would be he would be pissed. When it was time to go, he followed me and my best friend to my car. He kept apologizing, I was kinda ignoring him. He asked if I would come back after I drop her off. I didnt answer and just got in the car and drove away.He called my phone almost immediately..and said if you are mad at me, then I am mad at you! I said for what? he didnt answer, I said I am not mad, just kind of confused. He then asked me to come back over. I said I was going home to bed. that was the end of that conversation. We really havent talked since. He has called a few times, but I was at work I couldnt talk and vice versa. He seems to like me "sometimes" he does call, and like I said before he gives me weird looks like he is trying to figure me out or something. I am just not sure how to approach the issue. I dont want anything serious, but he looks good..I kinda want to see what he is like in bed. I know he just broke up with his girl. Should I just approach him or wait for him to approach me?

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You need to figure out what you want first and be honest with yourself about it (Just sex, friendship, relationship, dating, etc)!! Because the way you begin whatever this is ultimately sets the stage... we are a fixed sign after all... you give a man an inch and he will take a yard.

Btw, Good job in nipping the "friend and you" scenario in the bud, because a man will only treat you the way you let him; even if he wasn't serious.

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Posted by ClassicK1983
I dont want anything serious, but he looks good..I kinda want to see what he is like in bed. I know he just broke up with his girl. Should I just approach him or wait for him to approach me?

Hey, he'd f**k you if you'd let him. Just make sure it's only sex you want, 'cause us men, we call a spade a spade ... and a f**k buddy a f**k buddy.

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Thats exactly why I said she needs to be honest with yourself.

Your correct Normal lol...I was actually referring to "mankind"...still sexist though...you men pffft!

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Well one, I think you need to decide first what YOU want. Then make wanting to know what he's looking for with you or in general a second priority. When you know what you want, it's alot easier to read through & interpret others that are on the same page. I think this guy probably has a little crush on you. The reason I say so is b/c he kept apologizing & that wouldn't have happend if an Aqua male felt that he was never wrong from the get go. So the fact that he recognized that he might've offended you or made you a little jealous is a good thing. He went out of his way to make sure that you still felt comfortable with him, so that's a good thing b/c had he not cared, he would've just let you assume what you wanted to assume. Secondly, you said yourself that you were busy & you too are guilty of not keeping up the communication as much too, so when he does exactly what you're doing, don't be so quick to freak out. Don't over analyze the situation. Like you said, this guy just got out of a serious relationship. With him being an Aqua, don't expect for him to just immediately be ready & willing to jump all over the next one. He wouldn't do so even if he wanted to. You made him chase you the minute you showed him signs that you were offended, so don't play hard-to-get too much longer b/c if he doesn't like you bad enough, it will backfire on you & you will lose his interest forever. Just call him back & see where his head is. Don't purposely NOT call him back b/c if you don't, then don't be so upset when he stops chasing you. You had his interest when he started chasing after you & trying to explain himself. But make no mistake about it, Aquas don't like submitting to anyone, sometimes even when they're in the wrong. And if you're making this guy think that he's having to do all the work (calling you, initiating everything, ect.) then it will turn him off. Aqua men like to chase BUT they don't like to do all the work & they especially don't like it when it's obvious that the other person is purposely trying to lead them on a wild goose chase..his pride will kick in REAL kick if he picks up on the fact that you are doing that. Just be real. You're the one who claims to be so busy all the time so show him that you're not afraid to chase. If he likes you enough, it won't bother him. He'll appreciate & like you even more

That bidet video was quite creepy lol