@Cajunspirit
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Mental Arousal
The reason porn movies was invented. 😄
Posted by Jason2213
Posted by Beergo85
The reason porn movies was invented. 😄
If I don't feel even a sliver of love in that porn video nothing happens. 😢
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Then you should checked your doctor for ED. 😄
Posted by jade_dragon"So I try it again and over several tests I realise that there was more pleasure if I got my mind into virtually simulating a sexual experience while in the act."
Yep, it works better like that.....At least you figured it out at 20, rather than 60....
I would not have mind if it were that way.
Jason2213, I find your requirements even more interesting. How can you find "love" in these kinds of media?
Posted by Jason2213But really, I think its easy to find it in homemade vids--the stuff between exhibitionist couples and not between professionals.
Hmm... I have never "tried" it with with exhibitionists. Always in my mind. I may very have the same condition as you.
I am not interested in finding out.
Posted by Jason2213Condition?
Inability to climax if I don't have a sense of love.
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Yes, I am aware of the nature of Mercury and its effects on Aquarians, Geminis and Virgos.
However, I find this interesting in how it translates over to "sexual arousal".
Now please bare in mind, I am very embarrassed and do not condone it, but with respect to masturbation and achieving climax. I found that I needed to be mentally aroused in addition to physically.
Perhaps that is the case with everyone, I don't know.
In my teenage days, I never had interest in it and simply tried it to see if I get it to work [climax]. I was thoroughly unsuccessful and found it to be the waste of time I was instructed to believe.
Fast forward to last year, I am no longer a Virgin and curious about the workings of sex, arousal, sexual pleasure, longevity, et cetera.
So I try it again and over several tests I realise that there was more pleasure if I got my mind into virtually simulating a sexual experience while in the act.
I found that I could not climax through mere physical stimulation alone. I had to be thinking of something sexual with a heterogeneous partner.
I feel pretty silly writing all of this, thinking it is probably common sense to most people, but I found it would be interesting to find out no less.