Help with my Aqua X please meeting up again after years

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piscesmoon2
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Hi,

I have been wondering for some time about her... we go to the same studio for yoga. Saw each other often.

Back story I totally fell for this Aqua 5 years ago and then she went to Cal to chase jobs for her type of work. It is not easy to find a spot in it. She came back and I saw her once but it did not work out and I was so hurt how she left and basically planned to as she was seeing me. I just kinda flipped out and was emotionally hurt.

I am a very emotional guy and have been working on that for about the last 3 years. My last major relationship was 2 years ago and he movie for a job which I encouraged her to... She was to much on the older side for me but a wonderful Aqua woman herself. If it was not for the job and her flipping out because I had to go away for 6 months things could have maybe really worked out. they ended before I left... I was emotionally a mess kinda had a few people perk up and one I wish I still talked to but we don't. Scorpio type...

Anyways with transit going on there are second chances possibly between Aqua and Ares. In others it could be air dominates and fire... Seen leo's and Aquarius and a Libra Leo as well. Saw a few post here as well. Most of it started during the leo new moon when I confessed out of the blue that I "loved her" back then... then a rush of emotions came back. She said she was seeing someone but that it was fresh and he was not her bf. It was in astrology right when she broke up or was not that into him.

She seems leary about me because I was an x's however it did not end horribly... but not the best on my part but I always felt that communication was the issue. She was so cold some times...

Since then she has become more spiritual and I swear I can just feel her energy when I am around her... even stronger when we take the same class. I finally got her to have tea with me... she is really busy with a new job that is good for her and has to put a lot of time into. It was her Mercury retro... I am giving this my all because she maybe one of 4 or 5 soul mate ish transits. Anyone who reads my stuff knows I am a great astrologer.

She seem better about communication and both her and I know we are different people.

I was going to get her a gift like an amethyst stone or something... I know she is kinda a small gift person.

I know she is not the type to get back with x's like and date and neither am I. She is different because she has a strong vibration. I have not been able to stop thinking about her. I even sent her this video which Aqua's love romantic gestures and I felt it help her loosing up and see how much I care. It will be the first time we talk alone... catch up and feel it out.

I am trying not to be to much



Any does or don'ts or suggestion? is my gift idea good? or suggestion... I hardly date anymore because I see right though so many girls. Had many chances even flings I don't do...

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Well I think that even though it didn't end horribly between you two she may still be guarded. I think her mentioning she is currently seeing someone and made it a point to tell you it was still fresh was possibly her way to let you know she isn't that emotionally invested in him yet but depending on how you two reconnect this possible new relationship could be her out in pursuing another relationship with you in the event that you trigger her defenses.

I think it's possible she may still have feelings for you and that's why guards may be up and you admitted that you used to be very emotional and that may have been part of the communication issues that you two faced and she may not want to deal with drama caused by miscommunication due to all that she already has going on.

However, you've worked on controlling your emotions better since then and she's become more spiritual. Both of you have changed a bit and those changes could have a very positive affect on both of you not just as individuals but as a couple.

I think you two should continue to reconnect and rebuild that bond you had and with patience you both may find that this time around it may work out even better than it did before. Only time will truly tell.

Also, her "coldness" could really just be her being guarded, being cautious not to get hurt. I would suggest that before you give her the Amethyst stone see how she reacts to the video you sent her first. You don't want her to feel like you're coming on too strong.
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metalaquamonkey- I sent her the video when I said I had feelings for her... Kinda like having to take a lot to get back in her good graces. She could use the stones and I don't mind I give friends stones even at times depending on there energy. I did pick up a rose quorts and amethyst for her. They are nicer but they work better if there are I have given nicer ones to better friends. She had had a lot of work stress and so on... So it will help her aura I think and the other is her birth stone.

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@piscesmoon2

After reading what you wrote the Amethyst stone gift sounds like a really sweet gesture. I think she'd appreciate it and the thought you put into it.

I think if you've already told her how you feel and she is still communicating with you that's a very good sign. Usually if I don't have feelings for someone and they profess their feelings for me, (depending on our relationship) I'll either distance myself and not bother to communicate as often or just flat out tell you my feelings are not the same.

I do think she may still have feelings for you too and like I said she's probably still feeling you out. You both are more mature and evolved than what you were when you were first together so if you two have another opportunity to be together then I think the chances of it lasting are greater since you two have a better understanding not just about each other but yourselves as individuals.

I do feel that sometimes the universe gives us these second chances or opportunities for a reason. I hope it all works out for you two. 🙂